the_gunslinger
Don Juan
So, I've literally just come from the disasterous date. I'd been looking forward to this thing for about a week, and what a farse it turned out to be.
This chick was a girl i'd met at speed dating and was a follow up date from that. we'd arranged to meet at 8 in a bar, and i was going to take her bowling after that. fair enough you might think. Getting the action date in there seemed like a good idea at the time, but lets start at the beginning.
About 7 i get a txt message saying "Im still rough from last night and im really tired, blah blah blah...". Fair enough. I meet her at 8 and she does look tired. I buy her a drink and we go upstairs and chat.
Now this is where things get a bit wierd. I'd followed most of pimpologists stuff in the bible, using open ended questions and nouning, just the basics. yet, for every open ended question i ask, im getting 3-4 word answers.
So, after much continual effort, i finally run out of things to ask/say. enter many awkard silences often ended by my increasingly strained efforts to get a reaction, any reaction would have been better than that morose silence.
Anyway, i suggest we go bowling (Having had my shyt together, a guy i know at the bowling lane had reserved us a lane). i get hit with "Can we give it a miss tonight, im really tired". Well, that seemed to open the flood gates, every 5 minutes, im getting a comment about how tired she is and how she wants to go to bed.
She also refused to maintain eye contact. i dont know if this is indicitive of her interest level or what, but it just seemed there was something missing. I was trying with the C/F stuff and kino, i even tried to palmistry pattern of fastseduction.net
anyways, i got a text message. i reply to it and this gobby bytch from the next table starts mouthing off at me for being ignorant, yet the girl i was with was staring at her mobile every 10 mins. WTF? Gobby girl starts slagging me off and talking to girl i was with, i think sod it and say to girl im with "You look tired, shall we make a move?"
now, after she'd got into a taxi, i was left wondering about something xblitzx (I think) had said on here before. He said that, had a woman had no physical attraction to a man, then he had no chance. im starting to wonder if thats what it was rather than her being tired. As anyone of my friends will tell you, i can put the elephant man to shame in the ugly stakes, b0llocks to how tight/ loose my game might have been, i think i realise that im never going to have a chance with any sort of decent looking girl and im going to be stuck with ugs, psychos and fat chicks for ad infinitum. however, rather than feeling sorry for me, i want you to answer me this question.
I say to girl we should do something when she's not tired. she says yes, i suggest next week ( I know i shouldnt have tried to set up another date in a date, but i wasnt thinking and i just got pi$$ed off with it). I get some BS about how its peoples birthdays and shyte. Now, is it worth attempting to call her and salvage something or do i just next her? She did ask about what i look for in a girl and when my last g/f was if that has any relevance, but i'd assume that was more for something to talk about rather than anything else.
anyway, cheers for reading this, tell me what you think happened and give me some ideas.
gunn- SoSuaves Ugliest Member
This chick was a girl i'd met at speed dating and was a follow up date from that. we'd arranged to meet at 8 in a bar, and i was going to take her bowling after that. fair enough you might think. Getting the action date in there seemed like a good idea at the time, but lets start at the beginning.
About 7 i get a txt message saying "Im still rough from last night and im really tired, blah blah blah...". Fair enough. I meet her at 8 and she does look tired. I buy her a drink and we go upstairs and chat.
Now this is where things get a bit wierd. I'd followed most of pimpologists stuff in the bible, using open ended questions and nouning, just the basics. yet, for every open ended question i ask, im getting 3-4 word answers.
So, after much continual effort, i finally run out of things to ask/say. enter many awkard silences often ended by my increasingly strained efforts to get a reaction, any reaction would have been better than that morose silence.
Anyway, i suggest we go bowling (Having had my shyt together, a guy i know at the bowling lane had reserved us a lane). i get hit with "Can we give it a miss tonight, im really tired". Well, that seemed to open the flood gates, every 5 minutes, im getting a comment about how tired she is and how she wants to go to bed.
She also refused to maintain eye contact. i dont know if this is indicitive of her interest level or what, but it just seemed there was something missing. I was trying with the C/F stuff and kino, i even tried to palmistry pattern of fastseduction.net
anyways, i got a text message. i reply to it and this gobby bytch from the next table starts mouthing off at me for being ignorant, yet the girl i was with was staring at her mobile every 10 mins. WTF? Gobby girl starts slagging me off and talking to girl i was with, i think sod it and say to girl im with "You look tired, shall we make a move?"
now, after she'd got into a taxi, i was left wondering about something xblitzx (I think) had said on here before. He said that, had a woman had no physical attraction to a man, then he had no chance. im starting to wonder if thats what it was rather than her being tired. As anyone of my friends will tell you, i can put the elephant man to shame in the ugly stakes, b0llocks to how tight/ loose my game might have been, i think i realise that im never going to have a chance with any sort of decent looking girl and im going to be stuck with ugs, psychos and fat chicks for ad infinitum. however, rather than feeling sorry for me, i want you to answer me this question.
I say to girl we should do something when she's not tired. she says yes, i suggest next week ( I know i shouldnt have tried to set up another date in a date, but i wasnt thinking and i just got pi$$ed off with it). I get some BS about how its peoples birthdays and shyte. Now, is it worth attempting to call her and salvage something or do i just next her? She did ask about what i look for in a girl and when my last g/f was if that has any relevance, but i'd assume that was more for something to talk about rather than anything else.
anyway, cheers for reading this, tell me what you think happened and give me some ideas.
gunn- SoSuaves Ugliest Member