Field Report - Improving my game

[rjaudenes]

As I made my commitment, I’ll improve my game out of internet, so every end of weekend I’ll post a field report about my activities. I’ll put also a section call “Vibe Response” witch will indicate the IL my guts detected about the hb I’m doing the approach.



March, 30 (Wednesday)
Place: Rental DVD’s
I went to the Rental DVD’s to give back a movie. So I started a conversation with a balconist (a hb 6 maybe 6,5), I said the TV series section is great, she get in to the talk and reply they has include Flash Gordon, I laugh and said that’s very old, she smiled and said she was doing a work in the university about old TV series, so I asked “And you have time for fun, like nightclubs and bars?” she said “yes” so I asked her phone # and she gave it.
Vibe response: Average IL


March, 31 (Thursday)
Place 1: Bus
I saw a hb7,5 so I sit near her and ask a question about the bus direction, so when she respond I get the next question about her job and we started a conversation, blah, blah, blah so she talk she like bowling, so I get the line and replied I love bowling and would like to play it again so I asked her phone number and she gave it (after, more blah, blah, blah)
Vibe Response: Low IL

Place 2: Nightclub
Bad night. I leave my wingman friend to a nightclub, but the place I choose was full of snob girls (dad’s daughter). I studied the place, feel the people and get my wingman to the center of the club and we dance, after a moment a group of girls appeared, my wingman liked a fat girl, so I helped he and started to dance with her friend (ugly) to let the way free for he, but he paralyzed and lost the target. I had my opportunity, a hb 8,5 started to look at me and dance near, I smiled and started to approximate her, but something strange in my guts said she was just kidding me, I don’t know…. I think I confused my guts with my fear and lost a opportunity, ok, lesson learned, next time when a girl show me signs of IL, no matter what I’m feeling, I’ll try a “hi”. Oh, and next time I’ll go to a nightclub with no snob girls, when I get more experience, I’ll come back to this place.


April, 1 (Friday)
Place 1: My building work hall
I was waiting the taxi to go to my LLM classes, when a notice a hb 6,5 or 7 was sitting near the hall’s window, so I approximated her and said something bad about the traffic she agreed so I asked about her work, so I asked her phone # and she gave it
Vibe Response: Average (+) IL



Place 2: Internet Relationship Site
A hb 6 sent a online conversation request, I accepted, but she said she live in another city (4 hours from mine city), she gave me her phone # but I decided to next her because the distance.


April, 2 (Saturday)

I called the DVD store girl, but I felt by her voice intonation she was busy and I was right so I told i’ll call her on Sunday, but I didn’t because the bad vibes I felt on that phone call , so I decided to call her on Monday.


April, 3 (Sunday)

I tried the bus girl cell phone, but she didn’t respond the call (I guess is a fake number). I’ll try one more time on Monday, if she not answers, NEXT!


Results

Approaches: 3
Phone #’s: 4
Dates: 0
Kiss close: 0
Sex close: 0


Comments, opinions, advice?



Thanks! Rafael from Brazil
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The best way to learn is going in to the field and dealing the demons inside you

 

[rjaudenes]

The game continues!

That's the field report from my last week:



April, 4 (Monday)

1) Tried the DVD store girl, but she said she is busy, blah, blah, blah, so I decided to NEXT her
2) The damn bus girl phone # was fake. NEXT


April, 5 (Tuesday)

Place: Work building
Did an approach at the elevator with a hb 8,5
Me (smiling and locking at her eyes) – Hi
She (smile) – Hi
Me (she come from the direction of the medic near the law firm I work) – Did you come from the doctor?
She – Yes.
Me – So, you work here?
She (turned off) – Oh no, work at other place
Me (feel she understood my intentions and notice the low IL, decide to Next) – Ok, nice…


Place: Internet

1) Knew a girl (let’s call her Lisa - hb8) from the internet relationship site, we have a great conversation. She told about an ex boyfriend, but the way she was talking about he I felt problems because it sounds she still like the guy.

2) Knew another girl from the internet relationship site, we have a great conversation and I got her phone # (let’s call her Amanda).


April, 6 (Wednesday)


Place: Internet

1) Knew a new girl (let’s call her Julia). A 28 years old woman, lawyer and sexy (hb7,5). We had a good conversation about general things, and I played some C&F for fun and the conversation get interesting. I asked her phone # but she didn’t gave it for me, ok, it seems she’s playing hard to get or know me better, let’s keep on.

2) Get Lisa’s phone #

3) NEXTed Amanda because she turned me off




April, 7 (Thursday)


Place 1: Internet


I had an interesting phone conversation with Lisa and suggested a date, but she didn’t accepted

More conversations with Julia and more C&F but she still don’t wanna give her phone #, at this time I should Next her, but my guts are saying she’s just playing hard to get.


Place: Oneitis case: The return of a damn ghost

A girl I Nexted on November / 2004 (post related: Field Report – more lessons learned) call me and said her bf dumped her, and she said she has no friends and should back for drugs if nobody helps her, guys, she touched my weakness and like a chump I agreed to help her. The next day something interesting happened with me, since octuber/2004 I improved my inner game, improved my life, my body, my social life, my objectives, so when I decided to call here I notice I was felling like a shiit, so I said to myself “I wont exchange my peace of soul per a fake girl no matter how much I like her” so I called her 3 times until she answer the call and said: Hey kid, you wanna talk to me again, correct? So I have a news for you, I don’t trust you anymore so if you want gain my trust you’ll have to prove this by actions and not phone calls or just words, she agreed, but I know she’ll fail in this test, so this stuff will work like a “anti ghost oneitis shield” now I feel peace in my heart and can continue my game.


Place 2 : Nightclub

I get my wingman to an interesting nightclub. The problem my friend he is a “Maximus Afc” and don’t take any action, so I get the leader job. My first action occurred when a girl, accidentally, touch her cigarette in my face and I said to her kiss me to heal the hurt, she agreed and did it at my face and we laugh about the situation, but her brother didn’t liked and separate us. The second girls was dumping a lot of guys so I asked her in a funny mode: Why are you dumping many guys? Let me know what’s happen here! She laughs and said she is not so wonderful to do that kind of stuff, so we had a great conversation but I didn’t get her phone #, the third approache was at the exit I notice a hot hb9 was dancing so I said ‘You are very sexy dancing, She liked and we started a conversation about nightclubs and she said she often goes the nightclub every Thursday. I should ask her phone #. I helped my wingman and introduced him to a hb7 as “Alexander, the artist” she laughed and I said, come on you to! I’m a disciple of Alexander, you should connect! But my Wingman’s missiles didn’t seem to work and he lost the action.


April, 8 (Friday)


Place: Internet

1) Set up a date with Lisa on Sunday (milk shake date)


2) Knew a new girl and get her phone # and pre setup a date for the next Tuesday (lets call her Amanda a hb 8,5)


April, 9 (Saturday)


Place 1: Bus stop

Find a hb8,5 and asked a direction but she doesn’t seem interested so I decided not to continue talk her


Place 2: In the bus

The same case of the bus stop, but with a hb7


Place 3: Internet

Knew a hb 6,5 she gave me her phone # we had a great conversation on the phone and setup a date for Tuesday


April, 10 (Sunday)


Date = Milk Shake Place


I lead the conversation to the topic: radical sports and other stuffs, so we talked about paintball, rollercoaster, and she told about exciting things she did (me too). We talked about movies, bad dates, so I decide to go to other place, so she give me a ride (she has a car, I don’t have one), to other place, so we talked more, I did kino (wit fast touches, and after hold her hand), when I tried the kiss close she rejected (damn!), so, she give me a ride to my place and I tried another kiss close, but she rejected again (yrgh!). But my guts said to me she’s playing hard to get because the signals (dilated pupils, shaking her hair, kino, etc.) so I’ll wait one day and invite her to another date, if she say yes ok, if no, NEXT.
Place: Internet

Get Julia’s phone #, but she pissed me off when I said: Oh yesss baby! She reply she didn’t liked the “baby stuff” and I would be a nice guy, so I answered: Nice guys are predictable and boring.


Lessons Learned:

1) I got lazy and did many internet approaches;

2) Too worried about the results (on the bus, bus point and date), next time I’ll let my auto pilot drive the situation;

3) Didn’t managed well the oneitis situation, next time I’ll put an electronic secretary and DON’T ANSWER HER CALLS, because she proved with actions her low IL, no matter I say or do - this girl is a fake and I’ll be unhappy if I pursue her!!! I prefer peace in my soul instead this dangerous ghost!

4) Impreve my inner game is affecting my game: wake up early.



Results

Approaches: 14
Phone #’s: 9
Dates: 1
Kiss close: 0
Sex close: 0


Comments, opinions, advice?



Thanks! Rafael from Brazil
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The best way to learn is going in to the field and dealing the demons inside you

 

[rjaudenes]

Hey fuzzx,


Thanks for the words of motivation dude! Remember this started when you came to Brazil and teached me some very cool approachs!


This week i worked on management of my contacts (worked C&F, set up dates) and changed my dating mode:


From "cofee dates" (boring! )


To action dates up: ), by this way i can get more funn instead of putting models...


In another hand, i learned another great lessons i would like to share



Thanks! Rafael, from Brazil
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The best way to learn is going in to the field and dealing the demons inside us