Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Around 11:00 pm I decided to head out to the club, as no one was around to join me at this point. I took my car downtown and parked it about a quarter K from the club. It was a hot, beautiful summer night so I wanted to walk down. I hung in my car, drinkin back some scotch and listening to tunes, getting myself in a good a state. I started walking down around 12:00am.
I got to the club and, being a bit of a regular I was able to pass the line. I also know two of the cute bartenders and they are pretty good at hooking drinks up with the mass of bodies that orbit the bars like swine.
Outside I noticed a group of girls so I pulled up beside them as to not arouse ideas in them that I had interest. I kept enough distance to overhear them and keep notes. At one point I notice one of the girls tells her friend to go talk to the hot guy beside us (me). I don't look at them but give a sly smile. I could tell by the ADD display this girl was showing that she was nervous. I talked to these girl a bit but wasn't very interested.
Note: Don't overestimate a girls ability to be nervous about you. Most times girls will not display courage in approach, and one thing to notice when speaking to them is how calm they are. If a girl talks to much it most likely shows her nerves rather than a disinterest.
I met a 32 year old blond (7.5) and struck up a convo. I discovered right away, through her non stop question and answer game that she was either really lame or wanted to bang. At one point some dude came up to her who she mentioned was a friend. Who knows. I took her inside and mentioned we sit down in the quieter area on the couch. She continued asking lame questions so to shut her up I told, I kinda want to kiss you (or something like that) in which case makeout commensed. She then mentioned she had to go with her friends, to which I proposed a better plan of coming for an adventure with me. but her friends came and she left. Before she left she gave me her business card to which I looked at and flicked away. Think she was confused about that one haha. I did pick it back up just in case I had a change of heart (nope).
Anyway, the club was closing so I went outside to find some crowds gathered. I noticed a black girl (19, 7.5) with a blond friend and this big black guy, who's actually a CFL player in my home town. I chatted the group up a bit and asked whats happenin. Blacky girl said to come with so we walked to her car while her CFL friend and blondy were getting hotdogs.
Once at her friends place me and CFL player were having shots of vodka, to that point blacky said she had to go. Prior to getting in her car I was having a chat with her about cats.
In the car she asked where I live to drop me off. Sensing she needed some plausible deniabilty I told her I wanted to see her cat first though. She said ok and we went to her house.
At her place we hung out until I descovered she was in her room laying down. I wasn't having any of that so I went on her bed and started a make out, to which she insisted we go downstairs to the other room.
So, a whole lot of sexual nin-jitsu later and I got my black belt.
The next morning while she slept I raided her fridge and watched 3 hours of a Full House marithon (haha), before she drove me back to my car.
Note: one thing you learn about going out by yourself is that you detatch from any need of assistance, and instead of relying on other people's hands to hold you learn to rely on your own moxie. Many times when guys go out having someone else with them this can hold them back, as in the back of their minds they are thinking they need this person around so they don't look creepy (This is such a stupid word) or look like 'a loser' when all that does is narrow their focus down rather than keeping their mind free of distractions. I like doing my own thing when I go out at times because it teaches me to be self-reliant. Many people bases their self image off of who is by their side, and many times people who are always out with friends, that if they find themselves alone they just worry where they are to NOT feel alone. It really can be a disservise to your self image and to your game if reliance on other people becomes your safe haven.
I got to the club and, being a bit of a regular I was able to pass the line. I also know two of the cute bartenders and they are pretty good at hooking drinks up with the mass of bodies that orbit the bars like swine.
Outside I noticed a group of girls so I pulled up beside them as to not arouse ideas in them that I had interest. I kept enough distance to overhear them and keep notes. At one point I notice one of the girls tells her friend to go talk to the hot guy beside us (me). I don't look at them but give a sly smile. I could tell by the ADD display this girl was showing that she was nervous. I talked to these girl a bit but wasn't very interested.
Note: Don't overestimate a girls ability to be nervous about you. Most times girls will not display courage in approach, and one thing to notice when speaking to them is how calm they are. If a girl talks to much it most likely shows her nerves rather than a disinterest.
I met a 32 year old blond (7.5) and struck up a convo. I discovered right away, through her non stop question and answer game that she was either really lame or wanted to bang. At one point some dude came up to her who she mentioned was a friend. Who knows. I took her inside and mentioned we sit down in the quieter area on the couch. She continued asking lame questions so to shut her up I told, I kinda want to kiss you (or something like that) in which case makeout commensed. She then mentioned she had to go with her friends, to which I proposed a better plan of coming for an adventure with me. but her friends came and she left. Before she left she gave me her business card to which I looked at and flicked away. Think she was confused about that one haha. I did pick it back up just in case I had a change of heart (nope).
Anyway, the club was closing so I went outside to find some crowds gathered. I noticed a black girl (19, 7.5) with a blond friend and this big black guy, who's actually a CFL player in my home town. I chatted the group up a bit and asked whats happenin. Blacky girl said to come with so we walked to her car while her CFL friend and blondy were getting hotdogs.
Once at her friends place me and CFL player were having shots of vodka, to that point blacky said she had to go. Prior to getting in her car I was having a chat with her about cats.
In the car she asked where I live to drop me off. Sensing she needed some plausible deniabilty I told her I wanted to see her cat first though. She said ok and we went to her house.
At her place we hung out until I descovered she was in her room laying down. I wasn't having any of that so I went on her bed and started a make out, to which she insisted we go downstairs to the other room.
So, a whole lot of sexual nin-jitsu later and I got my black belt.
The next morning while she slept I raided her fridge and watched 3 hours of a Full House marithon (haha), before she drove me back to my car.
Note: one thing you learn about going out by yourself is that you detatch from any need of assistance, and instead of relying on other people's hands to hold you learn to rely on your own moxie. Many times when guys go out having someone else with them this can hold them back, as in the back of their minds they are thinking they need this person around so they don't look creepy (This is such a stupid word) or look like 'a loser' when all that does is narrow their focus down rather than keeping their mind free of distractions. I like doing my own thing when I go out at times because it teaches me to be self-reliant. Many people bases their self image off of who is by their side, and many times people who are always out with friends, that if they find themselves alone they just worry where they are to NOT feel alone. It really can be a disservise to your self image and to your game if reliance on other people becomes your safe haven.
