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Field Report + Advice Needed

davelmn2003

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I intended to go to a club that I haven't been to for close to 3 months--the club where I met the woman I cannot have. To my surprise, I seemed to have seen this very woman with 2 other women and a guy going on the same bus as I was. I never did see her face, but she got on the bus at the stop where she would have gone on (close to her place), and her height, hair length, etc. looked just like her. I was taken aback. We got off at the same station and I suppose she could see me walking to the club where we met.

The problem was, the club closed!!! On a Friday night? I was shocked--this place full of memories of her. I had to stand there at the bus stop to catch a bus back to where I normally go--a bar. I was standing there for close to 50 long minutes. I almost broke down and cried thinking about this woman and how she is now having so much fun--and perhaps has found a new guy, while I was going to a non-existent club alone...

Now back to the bar it was late but it was alright, the party was just starting. Never got anything on the dance floor, but after 4 beers, I was bold enough to approach a group of 6-7 girls. There was a 30-year-old mom who was the prettiest of the group, but she basically ignored me and I didn't talk to her much. I was talking to this second-best looking girl in the group, about a 6.5, with personality perhaps 7. The conversation went well, but darn I don't remember her name! (Only remember the hot mom's name).

In short, after the bar closed I was walking with them to their car, hoping there was an "after party" or something but they said they had to go. But they told me that they are going to a certain club tonight. They mentioned this to me at least 3 times.

My question is, would it be AFC for me to turn up at that club? It is pretty close to my place. I'm thinking, I've never been to this club, maybe this is a good reason to "expand" my "territory" (which consists of only a club, which is now closed, and this bar). I may feel a bit uncomfortable with a new place though, and I don't remember this girl's name....All in all I feel that I could have got something from this girl I was talking to if not for her friends....I need a strategy to make it a one-on-one thing...(2 of her friends seem friendly enough to talk to me, the hot mom doesn't talk to me and seems rather unfriendly...)
 

Ashlee Angel

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Please do not have one-its over that chick you met at a bar a few months ago.


It's up to you if you want to go to that bar they were talking about. If you do go make sure you do not go alone.
 

davelmn2003

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So would you go? They seemed to be hinting that I should meet up with them at that club...but I would be going alone and would that seem silly? Bringing friends with me is not an option really. Given these conditions, would you go?
 

iqqi

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if you are comfortable in your own skin than you can do anything alone. people may even envy you.

if you are not comfortable in your own skin, start doing things that will get you there. (movies, walks, museums, libraries, anywhere)-alone.
 
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