In that case...
gongxia649 said:
sunday - had a great time with this girl going shopping. pushed her 2 times.
Going shopping??? In my experience, going shopping with a girl is a no no! When women shop, their mind isn't on anything else but the shopping! "Pushed her 2 times"??? thats something you migh do with your pals! its no kino!
gongxia649 said:
tuesday - point my finger on her back, and did a small massage on her shoulder.
Is she a work colleague too??? Why are you giving her massages? do you WANT to be seen as the creapy guy in the office that uses "neck massages" just to touch up the women??? What has she done to deserve a shoulder massage from you?
Remember! your attention should be an exclusive and privilaged thing. Don't give it to her so easily.
gongxia649 said:
wednesday monring - saw her holding some paper and walking by. asked her to come and show me what she has, then i quickly grabbed her hand. she pulled away. she told me, you are like "john" (an old guy who likes to shake hands) and walked away.
what happened?
Why the hell do you care what the piece of paper is? or were you just looking for an excuse ( a lame one in this instance) to talk to her???
And WHY did you quickly grab her hand??? :nono:
You see kino isn't just about establishing physical contact! It is about doing it the right way! You need to do it subtly when you have her attention and you have having a conversation with her not while she is walking by!
I suggest you read the DJ bible and some field reports to find out what kino really ease.
also, make sure you dont become the weirdo in the office who touches all the woman.
What happened???
You freaked her out! She probably wasnt ready for you to grab her hand and you spooked her! Only touch ehr if you are out together and NO PUSHING! only soft and subtle touches!
