FieldReportGuy7
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 27, 2009
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Hey brothers, Im just a newbie starting out.
I've been reading the whole DJ Bible. Im starting the whole DJ mentality thing (((thumbs up))) I noticed Im not the most social guy in the world, I signed myself up for a buncha clubs in my university to start a social network thing going. I made myself a basic beginner's work out program and I started evaluating my life, my goals, my future, my dreams etc.
So far, so good : - )
I've been trying out this DJ drill of saying hi to random strangers. I went to barnes and nobles, Target, my university, Coffee shops. Know what ? It's not sooo...bad. Didnt get any bad reactions from women.
Do you guys have anymore "drills" that you sort of use to get that social muscle going ??
I noticed... It's all about passing and giving good vibes too. I noticed that when Im in a good mood, Im giving instead of taking ya know....like when I smile and say hello at someone I get the feeling that the vibe should be " Im smiling because I feel great and Im giving an aura about myself, I dont need anything from you, but since I feel great, I am giving out some cool vibes."
Yeah...I would imagine this should be the mindset and its heck of a lot more fun. (((thumbs up)))
Im interested to know what some of you do in particular to get into that fun, playful giving mood before you go out there and "sarge".
Thanks, Im gonna start doing field reports of actual conversation approaches soon.
I've been reading the whole DJ Bible. Im starting the whole DJ mentality thing (((thumbs up))) I noticed Im not the most social guy in the world, I signed myself up for a buncha clubs in my university to start a social network thing going. I made myself a basic beginner's work out program and I started evaluating my life, my goals, my future, my dreams etc.
So far, so good : - )
I've been trying out this DJ drill of saying hi to random strangers. I went to barnes and nobles, Target, my university, Coffee shops. Know what ? It's not sooo...bad. Didnt get any bad reactions from women.
Do you guys have anymore "drills" that you sort of use to get that social muscle going ??
I noticed... It's all about passing and giving good vibes too. I noticed that when Im in a good mood, Im giving instead of taking ya know....like when I smile and say hello at someone I get the feeling that the vibe should be " Im smiling because I feel great and Im giving an aura about myself, I dont need anything from you, but since I feel great, I am giving out some cool vibes."
Yeah...I would imagine this should be the mindset and its heck of a lot more fun. (((thumbs up)))
Im interested to know what some of you do in particular to get into that fun, playful giving mood before you go out there and "sarge".
Thanks, Im gonna start doing field reports of actual conversation approaches soon.