Who thinks this would be a good idea, to have a field approaches forum? I think this is a good idea because I find a lot of times that FRs are overrun by all the other post in the forum, and are ignored. Maybe it's just me, but I think it would be a good idea to have a special forum that's specifically for posting approach journals and FRs.
Field approaches forum?
- Thread starter ElStud
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It’s quite a commentary that you have received no replies to this.
I’ve beat the drum about how important it is to approach, to continue approaching, and never ever stop.
LOL, the IOI’s for an approach forum are non-existent.
Guess its too easy for most to hang by the ole keyboard and bang out “brilliant” advice.
I’ve beat the drum about how important it is to approach, to continue approaching, and never ever stop.
LOL, the IOI’s for an approach forum are non-existent.
Guess its too easy for most to hang by the ole keyboard and bang out “brilliant” advice.
djSlvt
Banned
I think there should be two news forums added.
AFCs & Newbies
RAFCs
along to the present Don Juan forum.
AFCs & Newbies
RAFCs
along to the present Don Juan forum.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Not really. It's just that most people didn't reply because this question has been asked about more times than "do looks matter?"grinder said:
ElStud said:
This would be a good idea but it will never work on sosuave. We have to many people here who knock real life situations.
I used to post date reports, kiss closes, fvck closes, approaches and all the other good stuff. But I have found that when you do that people tend to say that you are seeking validation and the post or thread generally tends to get flamed.
What surprises me is that some of the best advice givers on this website have not POSTED ONE REAL LIFE SITUATION WITH A GIRL.
It seems that they play like they are above that or they are too cool for that stuff. This is sosuave if you have any reports we should post them, but I won't anymore unless its a very unique hookup.
I guess it’s a bit of a catch 22: REAL DJ’s don’t brag, and posting successful approaches seems like bragging.TheVirtualMind said:
As lookyoung states, you get the sh*t flamed out of you if you post anything that sounds the least bit implausible.
Since I post mainly in the mature section my point of reference is there, where there are very few posts of approaches.
I’m going to have to respectfully disagree with you as, even though I have been guilty of this myself, there is too much focus on form and not enough focus on substance.
I can understand that, since almost no one responded to this one. If nobody wants it, no use in having it.Paradox said:
I can imagine there were lots of posts that were flagrant fabrications. And then the incessant flaming began.
I certainly don’t want to consider the alternative: that so few are actually approaching in real life, all the while intellectually knowing how critical this skill is. I really hope this is not the case.
djSlvt
Banned
So it boils down to who's gonna answer those posts. Any way to filter reals from fakes? I mean, guy don't have to be a super player, but at least one video of successful or unsuccessful approach would help.
flows101
Don Juan
yeah i would love if there was an FR bit to this forum but since 98% of guys here KJ's there would be no point.
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this is the most requested addition to this forum
yet the owners dont do it ?
I have only scratching my head ...
the way it was done previously was poorly done ( it was titled wrong) ..the sheer number of approach journal is evidence enough that there is demand/ enough flow for it.
plus it would organise up the rest of the forum by separating all the journals
yet the owners dont do it ?
I have only scratching my head ...
the way it was done previously was poorly done ( it was titled wrong) ..the sheer number of approach journal is evidence enough that there is demand/ enough flow for it.
plus it would organise up the rest of the forum by separating all the journals
Paradox said:
I really think we should bring it back. I feel that this type of forum will be much more useful and interesting than the wingman forum which also gets no participation. Take out the wingman forum and put in the field report forum.
NO PARTICIPATION IN A FIELD REPORT FORUM IN A DJ DISCUSSION... WTF.:crazy: This just baffles me. This is the meat and potatoes of being a DJ. I don't care how much you type or read information on this site, if you don't have any field reports, kiss closes, fvck closes or any type of success with woman I don't know why you would be here.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
if field reports had their own thread there would be NO reason to go to the main forum. Stop complaining about a new forum and just relax.