Don Rooster
Don Juan
Hey guys!
Long time reader, first time poster.
So, I have this friend, she's a girl, and we are very close. First things first, it is not some one-way afc i kiss her ass relationship. So she once came on to me but I resisted her (it just didn't feel right), now I don't know if that was for the best or what but I don't dwell on something I can't affect. Now we both have LTRs of our own but her bf cheats on her/treats her like poo and has split up with her, got back with her all within the last month (heck, he broke up with her twice in a week!) They have since split up again and she is distraught and still really wants him back! It's the whole jerk thing and i can see it all so clearly.
Now I have also hated her bf since before she even knew him so don't recommend to me that I give him a pat on the back for being a total player! It's kinda like a guy you know, and hate, going out with your sister, and treating her like crap.
Now my problem is what do I do/say to her? Bear in mind i have a gf and i'm not trying to lay her, i just want to be a good friend and make her see sense (is there a way to get her unattracted to the jerk? kinda the opposite of what we're going for huh!) whilst not acting like a wuss and have her lose all respect for me!
Thanks guys. Also just out of interest, do many of you have girl "friends"?
Long time reader, first time poster.
So, I have this friend, she's a girl, and we are very close. First things first, it is not some one-way afc i kiss her ass relationship. So she once came on to me but I resisted her (it just didn't feel right), now I don't know if that was for the best or what but I don't dwell on something I can't affect. Now we both have LTRs of our own but her bf cheats on her/treats her like poo and has split up with her, got back with her all within the last month (heck, he broke up with her twice in a week!) They have since split up again and she is distraught and still really wants him back! It's the whole jerk thing and i can see it all so clearly.
Now I have also hated her bf since before she even knew him so don't recommend to me that I give him a pat on the back for being a total player! It's kinda like a guy you know, and hate, going out with your sister, and treating her like crap.
Now my problem is what do I do/say to her? Bear in mind i have a gf and i'm not trying to lay her, i just want to be a good friend and make her see sense (is there a way to get her unattracted to the jerk? kinda the opposite of what we're going for huh!) whilst not acting like a wuss and have her lose all respect for me!
Thanks guys. Also just out of interest, do many of you have girl "friends"?