Female Behavior?

[FiddleyDee]

So, about ten years ago I dated a gal for a couple years before it ended (her choice). We're still on good terms, however once every 1-2 years she gets in a mood where she starts texting me, reminiscing about the good times in our dating relationship, in spite of the fact that she's made it clear over the years that she has no intention of ever getting back together. There was a time, long ago, when I wanted her back (and she knew it), but now I could care less. Is this just some form of female ****-tests?

 

[Fly By Night]

Ten years? I hope you're spinning plates. Move on, if that was her attempt at getting back together with you, then it is just to keep you as a boredom kill 'til she finds another dude to screw for the next 1-2 year gap.

Honestly, this would irritate me and I probably wouldn't even reply. If I did, it would go along the lines of "It was meh, I'm just happy to move on from it"

P.S. How old are you?

 

[GotED?]

She probably texts you right after someone dumps her in a relationship and you know that 'rebound' effect - we all go through it. Trying to find something safe and familiar to help us get over the person we just broke up with. Not worth it.

with respect,

Exodus