Feeling like my girl is cheating?

[Macaframalama]

guaranteed I’m the highest value male she’s ever been with, in every way.

If this is truly the case, you need to level up and get a better woman. Don't put up with her saying one thing and doing another.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Go meditate, it helps, check out youtube for some binaural beats or guided meditations.
Stop the hamster wheel from spinning, because it is not helping you, it will only make everything worse.
Let it go, so what she is cheating, we've all been cheated on, it's not the end of the world, let it go.

But if you let that hamster spin long enough it is going to put you in a scarcity, fear modus, and women can sense that neediness and then she will definately be gone.

 

[MountainSlide]

Consider it this way: if you mirror her level of real investment, then this ceases to be any sort of serious relationship at all. The only thing stopping it from being completely farcicle is your investment.

Hence, cheating or no, you are getting drained by this girl. She's a proper mooch on your energy. She's taking the piss. Etc.

Take the relationship less seriously than she is, and you'll be nowhere near as stressed out. The problem sorts itself.

Man I’m trying but she messages me about 25x a day. So if I mirrored her this shot would be even more retarded.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Let's recap some flags.

No sex the last week due to medical issue requiring antibiotics?!?! Any more explanation to this, do YOU need to get tested?

She's moved to a new place and can't tell you were and or who it's with because it's ghetto.

Will text you but not take calls when she's at her new place.

You may want to get tested even if you were still using rubbers. Me personal, I would laugh in a chicks face if she told me I couldn't know were she lived. Especially if you've had an exclusive talk etc. I'm still trying to comprehend how that conversation went down. Just this alone she should be dumped.

This is the perfect time to work on your Houdini skills. Pratice makes perfect.
Get your key back & any belongs and POOF disappear.

 

[devilkingx2]

Okay so my girlfriend recently moved, and told me that it was to this other girls house, and she claims she doesn’t want me to go there because it is too ghetto, but I’ve never met the person and am not sure that she even exists lol. I haven’t had sex with her for over a week, she claims that it’s because of a medical issue that she’s been having (non std) but requiring antibiotics lol, but she slept at my house last night and I had to take her to her moms because she said she didn’t have them, and again this morning she said that she had to go to her moms to take the antibiotics (why wouldn’t she have just brought them, are there really any antibiotics or is she just making this **** up cause she doesn’t want to bang and her mom gives her smokes). She told me she was with a dude the other day, who supposedly has a girlfriend that she’s best friends with, who was supposedly also there, and then her phone was off for three hours, and she said she fell asleep (mid day). She used to Snapchat all the time and now seems to never snap chat (probably all private). At nighttime she never answers my calls and doesn’t call back when she says she will, although is completely available to text. Always has an excuse like it’s loud in here but a lot of the time her excuses don’t even make sense. She’ll still message me all night about how much she cares for me and blah blah blah but refuses the call. I just started feeling like everything she is telling me is a lie, and there exists zero verification of whether or not she’s honest. I was with my friend the other night and this girl that I’ve known for a long time (she was hitting on me lol but I shut her down) and I woke up in the morning and apparently she phoned my friend grilling him for answers about what we had done, and she called me accusing me of cheating.

I don’t know. Normally I’m not a very jealous person and don’t worry, but my gut is telling me that I’m being played here. What do you guys think? Am I overthinking **** or does this sound suspicious?

lets say she isn't cheating on you, she isn't having sex with you, is sick with some possibly contagious illness that requires antibiotics to treat, doesn't take your calls and suddenly moves away to go live with some random friend without a word, oh and she moved INTO the hood for some reason so if you ever go see her you might get shot and if she comes to meet you she might get shot

why would you possibly want to date her still?

 

[Thorninmyside]

What real girlfriend doesn't tell you where she lives?

If she's not cheating, she must be turning tricks. There aren't many logical explanations for such bizarre behaviour. Occam's Razor.

 

[DreamAgain]

Dude, major red flags, don't even keep her as a plate, unless you're willing to risk STDs. You're a high value man, you'll get a much better girl in this.

Don't tell her off, don't accuse her...just fade away and disappear.

If you think she deserves some closure, maybe send a final message of "I think it would be best if we went our separate ways. Take care."

 

[Dr.Suave]

I agree with others she's not even worthy of FWB, FB, or plate status at this point.

Have you changed the lock already? That should be one of your top priorities right now.

 

[JonnyD123]

Your gut feeling is telling you that she is deceiving you. Be smart, follow that gut feeling and leave this girl alone.

Listen to this man

 

[MountainSlide]

Ok crazy night yesterday! I was sitting at home and she called, so I answered. We made plans to meet up. Then I just went over to my friends house party and quit answering her calls and only texted lol. She freeeeaked out! Called me non stop and messaged me non stop, it was actually pretty funny.

 

[MountainSlide]

I was talking to my friend last night and he said to hit it and quit it. So I hit it last night, this morning she got all sketched out by me looking at her phone that was sitting on the table. Messages galore from dudes. She said she’d send me the conversation, and it looked like the dude was having a conversation with himself lol. I’d say she deleted individual messages out of the convo to make it look like she is innocent. And why the **** was her ex showing up at her moms place last night? Anyway, I’m sure that if I were to keep her around, life would never be lacking in drama lol.

 

[Macaframalama]

I was talking to my friend last night and he said to hit it and quit it. So I hit it last night, this morning she got all sketched out by me looking at her phone that was sitting on the table. Messages galore from dudes. She said she’d send me the conversation, and it looked like the dude was having a conversation with himself lol. I’d say she deleted individual messages out of the convo to make it look like she is innocent. And why the **** was her ex showing up at her moms place last night? Anyway, I’m sure that if I were to keep her around, life would never be lacking in drama lol.

Dude, leave all the game playing to them. She's got you engaging in the same b!tch tendency behavior that got you in this position in the first place. The trust is gone. Time to level up.

 

[devilkingx2]

I was talking to my friend last night and he said to hit it and quit it. So I hit it last night, this morning she got all sketched out by me looking at her phone that was sitting on the table. Messages galore from dudes. She said she’d send me the conversation, and it looked like the dude was having a conversation with himself lol. I’d say she deleted individual messages out of the convo to make it look like she is innocent. And why the **** was her ex showing up at her moms place last night? Anyway, I’m sure that if I were to keep her around, life would never be lacking in drama lol.

at this point she's not even cheating on you it kinda sounds like you're not even in a relationship and she's banging a different dude per day of the week with you being one