Feeling guilty about being attractive/getting attractive women

[mahon83050]

As someone else mentioned, sex is the most motivating force in the world. Most of what we do, has to do with sex or impressing some hotties.

Sex with attractive women occupies the male brain constantly throughout the day and is a main goal for most men.
Unfortunately, not all men (based on the physical appearance) can attract hot women period.

What about men who are terribly short, fat, or have ugly faces? Attractive women do not pay attention to these men. Also, there are not enough attractive women to go around for everyone.

Don't any of you ever feel guilty that you are tall or handsome and get attractive women. You have the ability to get the most desirable thing in this world (an attractive woman) and other men don't.

You may say I am nuts, but this has been occupying my mind alot lately and is causing me much guilt.

 

[Interceptor]

I don't think I feel "guilty".
I feel thankful for being blessed with the good things.
Maybe you should too.
No one should ever be made to feel guilty about having good things in their life.
How could you come up with this notion?

 

[mahon83050]

I don't think I feel "guilty".
I feel thankful for being blessed with the good things.
Maybe you should too.
No one should ever be made to feel guilty about having good things in their life.
How could you come up with this notion?

Like I said one other time, I suffer from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. In a nutshell people from OCD suffer from bizarre thoughts that they know don't make sense, but they feel REAL and cause anxiety.

 

[KontrollerX]

Mahon just seems to naturally possess more empathy than most people Interceptor.

Its alright to feel for people less fortunate than you Mahon.

Just don't feel guilty about having more success than them or better looks as you and those people both had no real choice of how good or not you would end up looking.

Sure everyone can improve upon their looks but what I mean is some people are just born disfigured or to grow up to be ugly or whatever and others are born looking normal and will go on to success as a result.

Its out of our hands what we are given at birth.

 

[mahon83050]

Mahon just seems to naturally possess more empathy than most people Interceptor.

Its alright to feel for people less fortunate than you Mahon.

Just don't feel guilty about having more success than them or better looks as you and those people both had no real choice of how good or not you would end up looking.

Sure everyone can improve upon their looks but what I mean is some people are just born disfigured or whatever and others are born looking normal and will go on to success as a result.

Its out of our hands what we are given at birth.

Thanks guys and I agree with what you said.

My obession has gotten so bad, that I have looked at thousands of before and after pics of cosmetic surgeries done (nose, chins, corrective jaw surgery) to allieve some of the guilt that "ugly" people can be helped.

 

[speakeasy]

As someone else mentioned, sex is the most motivating force in the world. Most of what we do, has to do with sex or impressing some hotties.

Sex with attractive women occupies the male brain constantly throughout the day and is a main goal for most men.
Unfortunately, not all men (based on the physical appearance) can attract hot women period.

What about men who are terribly short, fat, or have ugly faces? Attractive women do not pay attention to these men. Also, there are not enough attractive women to go around for everyone.

Don't any of you ever feel guilty that you are tall or handsome and get attractive women. You have the ability to get the most desirable thing in this world (an attractive woman) and other men don't.

You may say I am nuts, but this has been occupying my mind alot lately and is causing me much guilt.

LOL...if this was the biggest problem I had to worry about, I'd be in pretty good shape.

 

[dirtyvibe]

Style was like 5'6 and ugly as **** before he got a makeover and he got hot women.

 

[joekerr31]

there are kids starving to death in africa, doesn't mean you dont eat does it?

life's unfair. who knows, tomorrow you could get cancer while the ugly guy might live to be 100 and win the lottery.

the older you get the more you realize that life is just one big chaotic mess and that our lots in life are often the result of random variables out of our control.

i guess one thing to remember is that ugly people came from someone, so if anyone should feel guilty its ugly parents creating ugly children.