fear

[hb]

Guys what i have noticed that has really put me down is the fear of how other people will react to the things i do. I am the type of person who wants everrrrryooooooooone to like him. If some one doesnt like me i want to know why or what i did to them for them not to like me. Some girls have called me a player or w/e before but at the same time there are those girls who mock at me and call me a wanna be and that really puts me down. that is one reason why i really aint where i want to be. Just last week i was talkin to my ex and she told me this, and it really hurt, she told me "noone really talks about you anymore" this ate at my heart. i want to find a way to make people talk again but im afraid of putting myself "on the spot" so to speak. i know u guys are goin to tell me "f*ck them" but it aint that simple...... how do i make everyone like me? is there a way? i want people to like me but i dont want to kiss A*s. is that possible? or should i just kiss a*S?

 

[matius]

how do i make everyone like me? is there a way? i want people to like me but i dont want to kiss A*s. is that possible? or should i just kiss a*S?

Kiss a*s? Sounds like you're going to be f()ckin' em soon.

 

[matius]

That last post was just a reminder that you canNOT make everyone like you and your efforts are futile if you so much as try. So don't waste your energy. Realize that not everyone is you friend, you will have enemies and people will try and diss you. The quicker you learn this and how to handle the conflict that comes your way the better off you are.

Become strong and see yourself bigger on the inside. Work out the negative thoughts that are obviously running amok in your mind and you won't need them...but you'll find the ones that matter- who you DO want to like you.

 

[Trickster_guy_2001]

You aren't really living until you have some Arch Nemesis.



I have 5 arch enemies, who were teachers/ instructors. And I have left them ehind in the dust. The nasty teachers in high school, they mean nothing to me.

I have a few enemies even from one of the churches I go to. Even by doing the right thing, I have made enemies.

You can't please everyone all the time.

But like you, I still have trouble realizing this a lot of the time. It's natural to want to e liked by everyone. But sometimes being liked or being popular needs to be secondary to you.

Remember the old phrase "I can only please one person a day. Today is not your day. Tomorrow doesn't look good for you either."