I cant help but think that this site is a little crazy. Many concepts on this site do work. I am living proof that you can do a 180 turn around from not getting any girls to being a hot ticket. Now i have the ability to have sex with alot of girls that I meet but Im affraid of getting an STD. If I can meet a girl and seduce her that night, I still hardly know her. Some guys on this website have bragged about having sex with tons of girls but I dont know if thats a good thing even if you use protection. How protective are condoms really? I really enjoy seducing girls and getting them butt naked in bed but Im always scared I might get something. How do you guys go about protecting yourselfs? Do you make sure she is a clean girl? How do you know for sure?
fear of stds
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penkitten
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if i were standing in a room, totally naked, no one would know that i had herpes unless i told them.
the guy i caught herpes from, didn't tell me he had it.
the condom did not prevent it the spread of it.
what else can i say?
the guy i caught herpes from, didn't tell me he had it.
the condom did not prevent it the spread of it.
what else can i say?
ThunderMaverick
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Wow what a scum bag...
Pen, was this like a one night stand or did you guys have a relationship and he didn't tell you?
Pen, was this like a one night stand or did you guys have a relationship and he didn't tell you?
Most guys that sleep around and use condoms don't come down with anything. Chances are you'll be fine. But if you're that worried about it, then just keep it down to a few girls and use them as f-buddies.theNEWDJ said:
penkitten
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it was a relationship.
penkitten
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because he broke out earlier in the day that i broke out. therefore, my doctor said he probably cheated on me and came right home and gave me the cooties before he even knew he had it.speakeasy said:
he went to one party that i didnt go to, and then 20 days later, here come the herpes.
Bible_Belt
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I got this (almost gone, though):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molluscum_contagiosum
Maxim magazine put in on a list of 'What's hot on college campuses.' Molluscum used to be found only in kids, but now over the past two decades the virus has become an std.
I got it from a ltr of six months, no condoms and near-daily sex. The girl I got it from denied having it, accused me of cheating, dumped me, and never had sex with me again. I was only with one woman over a three year period after my seven year marriage, but she didn't want to hear it. Now she has a new bf. She's going to be the molluscum Typhoid Mary of the law school.
Also on the std topic, my wife of that seven year marriage had genital herpes, but I never got it, although sex was more like weekly if that. After time, women get to know the tingle of an oncoming outbreak and can avoid sex. Daily Valtrex or Famvir help a lot.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molluscum_contagiosum
Maxim magazine put in on a list of 'What's hot on college campuses.' Molluscum used to be found only in kids, but now over the past two decades the virus has become an std.
I got it from a ltr of six months, no condoms and near-daily sex. The girl I got it from denied having it, accused me of cheating, dumped me, and never had sex with me again. I was only with one woman over a three year period after my seven year marriage, but she didn't want to hear it. Now she has a new bf. She's going to be the molluscum Typhoid Mary of the law school.
Also on the std topic, my wife of that seven year marriage had genital herpes, but I never got it, although sex was more like weekly if that. After time, women get to know the tingle of an oncoming outbreak and can avoid sex. Daily Valtrex or Famvir help a lot.
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penkitten said:
WHAT!!!??? You have HERPES!!!!!?????
Bible_Belt
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LOLGiovanni Casanova said:
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How can they NOT have found a cure for the herps yet?
penkitten
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that is a very important point also.DonJuan11 said:
std's are real, and easy to catch...
but you can not live your life in a bubble.
it boils down to YOU figuring out HOW to be safe and WHEN to be safe and WHOM to be safe with.
and guess what, no matter how safe or unsafe your sex practices are... you are gonna get what you are gonna get.
things are what they are, because they are.
Rollo Tomassi
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The Myth of the Dodged Bullet
In my lifetime I've had sex with over 40 women and I never once caught a venerial disease, nor did I get anyone pregnant. I can also point to men I know who contracted Herpes from the only women they'd ever had sex with. The fact of the matter is that you can equally be a rock star and tap hundreds of women without any consequence and you can be a virginic saint and contract a disease on your wedding night. The myth of the dodged bullet is an AFC social convention that's rooted in the rationalization that monogamy serves the purpose for controlling sexually transmitted diseases and thus fewer partners are more desirable than many. From a statistical standpoint this may seem logical on the surface. Fewer opportunities for sexual intercourse would indeed decrease the risk from a single individual, but unfortunately this isn't a practical estimate. You'll also have to base the numbers not only on how many sex partners you and your monogamous partner have had, but also how many prior partners they've had and how many those partners had as well and so on exponentially. Yet inspite of all this, the odds that you'll die from a form of cancer, heart disease, smoking or obesety related diseases or even an alcohol related traffic fatality far outweigh any risk of dying from a venerial disease in western society. The mortality rate for for contracting gonnerhea, syphilis, clymidia, herpes and even HIV pale in comparison to many - in some cases more easily preventable - diseases.
Of course, since this is a social convention, I would be grossly negligent and severely lambasted by the public at large for even implying that I'm condoning, much less advocating, that a man explore his options and open his experience up to having sex with multiple partners. This AFC social convention/rationalization is unassailable; it sounds like it makes good sense, "boy, am I sure glad I got married/shacked up and didn't catch a disease, pffew!" It sounds like conviction, when in fact it's a rationalization for a lack of other realistic options with women or an innability to deal with a fear of rejection from multiple sources. Beware of turning your lack of game into a virtue, you're only fooling yourself.
In my lifetime I've had sex with over 40 women and I never once caught a venerial disease, nor did I get anyone pregnant. I can also point to men I know who contracted Herpes from the only women they'd ever had sex with. The fact of the matter is that you can equally be a rock star and tap hundreds of women without any consequence and you can be a virginic saint and contract a disease on your wedding night. The myth of the dodged bullet is an AFC social convention that's rooted in the rationalization that monogamy serves the purpose for controlling sexually transmitted diseases and thus fewer partners are more desirable than many. From a statistical standpoint this may seem logical on the surface. Fewer opportunities for sexual intercourse would indeed decrease the risk from a single individual, but unfortunately this isn't a practical estimate. You'll also have to base the numbers not only on how many sex partners you and your monogamous partner have had, but also how many prior partners they've had and how many those partners had as well and so on exponentially. Yet inspite of all this, the odds that you'll die from a form of cancer, heart disease, smoking or obesety related diseases or even an alcohol related traffic fatality far outweigh any risk of dying from a venerial disease in western society. The mortality rate for for contracting gonnerhea, syphilis, clymidia, herpes and even HIV pale in comparison to many - in some cases more easily preventable - diseases.
Of course, since this is a social convention, I would be grossly negligent and severely lambasted by the public at large for even implying that I'm condoning, much less advocating, that a man explore his options and open his experience up to having sex with multiple partners. This AFC social convention/rationalization is unassailable; it sounds like it makes good sense, "boy, am I sure glad I got married/shacked up and didn't catch a disease, pffew!" It sounds like conviction, when in fact it's a rationalization for a lack of other realistic options with women or an innability to deal with a fear of rejection from multiple sources. Beware of turning your lack of game into a virtue, you're only fooling yourself.
MR_PERFECT
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Rollo is right, there are all kinds of myths about sex to further agendas. HIV is not common among heterosexuals, but it has to be said because less money would be spent finding a cure if it were a gay disease. I knew a guy that slept with 40 women too, and he never got an std. People say the pull out method doesn't work, but I don't know one guy that has unsuccessfully used it.
L777
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OK this herpes thing is scaring me....how do you tell if someone has it and can you have sex with them without getting it? I'm seriously thinking of like, quitting women, it scares the s.hit outa me.
kingwilliam
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I have dodged bullets......100+ women...... when I was in college I was like a ****ing rabbit.... now days I'm puttin a helmet on that soldier.
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i think your a lot more likely to catch stds if you have a weak immune system. i mean people are exposed to diseases all the time but not everyone catches them.
does that make sense?
like if your the kinda guy who's always getting sick then you probably don't want to **** around a lot.
do you guys think there is any truth in this?
does that make sense?
like if your the kinda guy who's always getting sick then you probably don't want to **** around a lot.
do you guys think there is any truth in this?
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
Man this is an interesting subject. And thats what scares me man. I have always wondered about this to, to bad this even exists. This is what totally scares the hell out of me. Cause im sure sex is fun and all but damn I donT want a disease or something. I would probably kill myself afterwards..****.
Absolutely.beastmaster79 said:
For instance, it has been shown that the risk of an AIDS infection is exponentially higher, when you already have another STD, i.e. your immune system is already under attack.
But the likelihood of contracting an STD is linked to the infection status of the carrier as well. A person freshly infected with AIDS is about 30 times as likely to pass the virus to you as a person not freshly infected. This goes for other STDs like syphilis as well.
Against a fresh and virulent syphilis, even a condom at times doesn´t help. There´s a kind of syphilitic infection doctors call "condom rim syphilis" - you can see that the infection has entered the body exactly at the rim of the condom. Nature´s humor..
But on a general note - if you are afraid of teeth, don´t get your cawk sucked. Meaning - if you´re pyssing your pants being afraid of STDs, then don´t f0ck. The risk of contracting AIDS in spite of practising Safer Sex is extremely low. All the other goodies may be nasty, but won´t kill you and can be healed. They are all no reason not to f0ck.
Firstly, practise Safer Sex and be an expert at it. Secondly, get your system checked for STDs once a year. A vile kind of staphylococcus for instance can go by unnoticed by you, but turn your prostate into complete wood...
That´s all you need. Stop worrying, start to live.