A quick question for you all how would you like it if another man was taking care of your kid/s? I view it as trying into another mans territory. No way in hell im helping any woman taking of a kid while shes getting porked/ favors from another guy/s. And even if it is "our kid" I'd fight for full custody. In a sense it's adoption if I'm working 2-3 jobs just to support my kid who God only knows it doing what with the money. What's your thoughts?