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You are correct about the community.
And it's destruction is what causes most of the social decay, and if you think about it, makes a site like this necessary to some.
The examples you sited are not of ordinary circumstances.
Your examples of royality are moot. They don't apply to the general population, and courts (the rich) have always been corrupt. The tradionally adopt a form of hedonism, unattainable to the poor, and they have achieved a form of androgeny among their ranks in large numbers.
As far as your examples of great social upheaval, well like duh.
The 20's are a prime example. American history traditionally had more men than women. Typically a women had many suitors competing for her attention. Bad boy types need not apply.
Enter WW1. When the 20's rolled around, there were more women than men. Women had to compete for mens favor, rather than the other way around. This made females more aggressive, hemlines rose, and women dressed and became more exotic.
Still the majority of people chose to raise families. It's been a steady decline since ww2, rapidly falling in the last 2 decades.
There is alot of talk on this board about ALPHA, and being a MAN.
In fact being a MAN, seems to be so elusive to some. I wonder why? What does the ALPHA Lion, so popular in analogies, do?
He raises and protects his offspring. That's what a real man is.
He's not some Marlboro cowboy come to life. That's our biological purpose. So if you choose to procreate, then it is your duty to raise your offspring. Otherwise you turn your back on your species purpose.
That does mean keeping your home intact, not taking your kid to chucky cheese on your weekend. Procreation is a choice, it's not some kind of accident. They do make condoms (*warning to young dj's NEVER PLACE YOUR FAITH IN THE PILL OR HER FOR THAT MATTER*), hell at least try and pull out, it's not 100% effective, but it's way more effective than staying in and pollenating her.
Simple rule of thumb....never bare-back a girl you don't intend to stay with. You shouldn't be bare-backing any girl. But maybe some of you want some battle scars (i.e. sores on your d*ck).
We're seeing the culmination of decay brought on by the Industrial Revolution. It's not this generations fault. But it is your fault if you contribute to social decay. Don't want to have kids? Don't want to get married? Easy....don't. We're human, evolved organism. Use your species gift of choice and choose not to exercise these things.
People trap themselves. If you found out you hate her, it's your fault. Deal with it, you brought a life into this world your responsible for (*note to young dj's THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN WILL NOT GET AN ABORTION).
This problem affects us all. Think about this the next time your weeding through the emotional wasteland of our opposite sex.
I'll leave you with this thought.
Who's more of a man.........
the man who raises, protects, and guides his offspring?
or the man who spooged in his girlfriend (i.e. a moist hole, until another moist hole comes along) in highschool, decided he didn't want to be tied down, and lets the rest of us taxpayers buy his babys milk?
p.s.
" Nature. do u even look around at nature? it wasn't nature that created the family model."
How come humans have a HERD mentality then? Come on elvis, there are impressionable young sheep who read this forum.