FAT women, How can they ...

[BudaBing]

I don't get it. How can fat women think they can be sexy?

They pack on the pounds, get all that nasty lumpy cellulite and still think they can get dressed up in sexy lingerie and look hot.

PROS;
My girlfriend is (speaking in all humility) GORGEOUS in facial looks. I mean model type beauty. She's had offers to model (face) in her industry which is totally different than modeling industry BTW. I'm actually proud to have her on my arm out on the town when she's dressed up.

CONS;
But guess what, slowly but surely packing on the pounds over the long haul. Yes, I've sent the message, lose it or lose us, and she has lost some weight short term but then humans being creatures of habit go back to their old ways. She's not a total porka but she definitely has the extra pounds. You know, that level where it goes from an extra X pounds is considered 'pleasantly plump' to crossing into the 'you're fat' region.

Yet each night we are together she gets dressed up in some sexy lingerie implied "lets get it on tonight dear". Sure we still have sex but not like in the past. You'd think women who are getting fat would be embarrassed to try and look sexy. I mean they do look in the mirror everyday when they get changed, right?

Just frustrating.

Ok, just blowing off steam.

 

[AW1983]

Hate to say it man but it's time to start getting Machiavellian...go out with friends more, get more preoccupied with your life outside her, and les excited about sex. She'll get the picture. Dread game might be cruel but so is a woman giving you a limp d!ck when you've given her exclusivity.

EDIT: Also, very subtle comments about skinny chicks in tv/magazines/etc being "hot" or "cute" will also help. Also, playful teasing with a raised eyebrow, like pinch her love handle and go "what's going on here???" with a smirk. I have employed these tactics to success...like she started hitting the gym on the quickness. Also, stop telling her she looks good or offering any compliments on her appearance. HB's register all this subtle stuff and know what it means...

 

[betheman]

How can fat women think they can be sexy?

check out POF, look at the whales on there and know one thing...there are thousands of desperate guys with incredibly low standards, who will WK those monsters. there is no real incentive for a lot of those women to look after themselves, the attitude is, "Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now" and Ive actually heard this.
if some mens standards werent so low, women wouldnt be whales

 

[Boilermaker]

How can fat women think they can be sexy?

That puzzles me, too. And I remember RT's saying something to the effect of

"It's MEN who define what is SEXY and what is NOT"

in his blog.

Revelation.

 

[zekko]

How can fat women think they can be sexy?

Guys with low self esteem go after fat or unnattractive women because they think that is all they can get, or that they will be easy to get. There are a lot of low self esteem guys out there.

I also know some horndog PUA type guys who are totally preoccuppied with sex. They have picked up some really hot women, but they will pretty much fvck anything. I could almost lose my lunch at some of the women these guys have banged. As long as they're getting their rocks off, that's all that matters to them.

Even here, many posters advise screwing fat girls to gain experience and confidence - to start at the bottom and work your way up.

So as long as guys are hitting on them, they probably figure they are attractive on some level.

 

[EastWind]

Guys with low self esteem go after fat or unnattractive women because they think that is all they can get, or that they will be easy to get. There are a lot of low self esteem guys out there.

Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.

 

[zekko]

Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s.

Actually, I consider HB6 and above doable. So when we're talking about fat, unattractive women, I figure we're talking about 3s, 4s, and maybe 5s here. In my scale, I may consider doing a 5 in a desperate moment, but when it comes right down to it, I won't.

From reading this forum, most guys here seem to think that the really attractive girls are nicer and more approachable than the moderately attractive. I think that what they are talking about is the very casual level or on the cold approach though. Very attractive women have had generally positive experiences with men, so when a new one comes up they think "Oh, good, are you here to worship me too?", so she'll be nice about it. Whereas a moderately attractive girl might be more suspicious of guys, probably having been pumped and dumped for a better looking girl.

Anyway, I agree with you that the moderately attractive girls are lower maintenance, and don't put out as much BS as the better looking ones do. Fewer sh!t tests, for example.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.

What you say makes sense but you are aiming too high, 9s are not the end goal and 7 the real deal...in most cases you aim at the 7s cause there are no 8s or 9s but they come with some many crap (the one u talk about) that the only option to not be driving insane is aiming at 6 or below.

Thats the problem, not guys having a high standard, most guys would settle and be happy given that the girl is at least decent.

7s are out of sight for the average guy,let alone 8s and 9s...hell even 6s now expect no less than a 8 on a guy.

 

[pdx1138]

I also know some horndog PUA type guys who are totally preoccupied with sex. They have picked up some really hot women, but they will pretty much fvck anything. I could almost lose my lunch at some of the women these guys have banged. As long as they're getting their rocks off, that's all that matters to them.

I've known to of these types. They both would bang a cars exhaust pipe if it looked good enough.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Fatness is something I refuse to abide because it's a choice.
If a woman gets fat it's because she has lost respect for herself and for her man.

And I agree, if men stopped fvcking fatties, gyms would be overflowing with women. Every time you fvck a fat chick, you tell her that it's ok to be a porker and she can continue wallowing in her corpulence simply because she has a mouth, t1ts and a vagina.

 

[Poonani Maker]

What gets me, recently, is fat chicks who have an old maid's mouth, you know, like she's already sucked a Lot of c0ck, at 20-something, think she's God's gift, she works in an office supply store Wears shirts that are too small and roll up to reveal her rotund lower back when she intentionally bends over in front of me, walks at an elephant's pace or like she's carrying a baby but she's not

Fatness is something I refuse to abide because it's a choice.
If a woman gets fat it's because she has lost respect for herself and for her man.

I've seen this happen to ones I've fvcked over the past couple of years. It's like, they were young and taught perfect for me when they were younger, but give a year or two, even a few months, after I've left her, and she's Really let herself go with the blubber, quick! They can go quick! because they don't have to work like us guys, hustle like us guys to get somewhere in life. We burn calories inside Or outside the gym because we are Really the ones doing most of the work out there in the world, blue or white collar.

 

[muscleman]

I don't get it. How can fat women think they can be sexy?

They pack on the pounds, get all that nasty lumpy cellulite and still think they can get dressed up in sexy lingerie and look hot.

PROS;
My girlfriend is (speaking in all humility) GORGEOUS in facial looks. I mean model type beauty. She's had offers to model (face) in her industry which is totally different than modeling industry BTW. I'm actually proud to have her on my arm out on the town when she's dressed up.

CONS;
But guess what, slowly but surely packing on the pounds over the long haul. Yes, I've sent the message, lose it or lose us, and she has lost some weight short term but then humans being creatures of habit go back to their old ways. She's not a total porka but she definitely has the extra pounds. You know, that level where it goes from an extra X pounds is considered 'pleasantly plump' to crossing into the 'you're fat' region.

Yet each night we are together she gets dressed up in some sexy lingerie implied "lets get it on tonight dear". Sure we still have sex but not like in the past. You'd think women who are getting fat would be embarrassed to try and look sexy. I mean they do look in the mirror everyday when they get changed, right?

Just frustrating.

Ok, just blowing off steam.

What she's doing is disrespecting you in the worst way and you, like a little beta herbling, are taking it hook line and sinker. What do guys care about the most? Looks. What is she doing? Letting go of her looks. Apparently the message you sent was all talk, no action.

Want her to lose weight? Instill some dread. If she asks you what's up, tell her 'you've changed'. Start going out (more) and hang out with SLIM attractive women. She'll get the hint. If she huffs and puffs but doesn't change, time for you to eject. You don't want a porker do you? Yet that's exactly where she's headed.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I'm new to the forum, but i have in fact notice this also. The thing is, these fat women get approached for sexual reasons, not knowing the difference and think they are hot. It's truely sad to be honest, I have even seen fat girls act stuck up lol.

I agree with the above posters, low self esteem guys have ruined it for all guys, lol.

 

[disgustipated]

Let's not carried away blaming dudes for ALL of this. We gotta take accountability for our genders actions and inactions...we don't need to beat ourselves up when these fatties could just watch their calories and hit the gym. Damn.

 

[mrRuckus]

Get on facebook. Look at pictures of fat girls you know. Read the comments. Even the women, hell, especially the women, will leave positive affirmations of "beautiful" and similar to ugly pictures.

 

[gradhodude]

Get on facebook. Look at pictures of fat girls you know. Read the comments. Even the women, hell, especially the women, will leave positive affirmations of "beautiful" and similar to ugly pictures.

I think this is key. I recently had one of my buddies tell me...hey you are looking a little chunky. By no means am I fat but I hit a number I have never hit in my life 230 at 6'1. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I had been asking people hey do I look bigger...and all friends/family say nah you look fine. It took my buddy to tell me I was looking a little chunkier. Chicks need to tell other Chicks that they are getting fat. If guys do they are being *******s. But if chicks DON'T they are being more of an *******.

Since then I am down to 218, with a goal of 205-208 by end of year.

 

[5string]

I keep telling you guys that fat chicks are difficult to kidnap!

I'd rather spank the weasel than do Ms.Piggie.

 

[Blackmm]

I don't get it. How can fat women think they can be sexy?

Because there are enough SIMPS out there that tell them they are sexy and will still f uck with them.

 

[MatureDJ]

Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.

It was a man like you that composed the song, "If You Want To Happy For The Rest Of Your Life, Never Make A Pretty Woman Your Wife." :moon:

 

[MatureDJ]

Get on facebook. Look at pictures of fat girls you know. Read the comments. Even the women, hell, especially the women, will leave positive affirmations of "beautiful" and similar to ugly pictures.

My mother thought that Oprah was a beautiful woman (this was during one of her fat periods too!)