Fat woman ****blocking

[bigblock7]

BTW sorry for the essay

Hi , this is my first post on this website and I would appreciate it if anyone would be able to help. I have recently decided to go back to university at the age of 22 to further my education and career opportunities. The plus about my chosen career path is that there is an exceptional guy to girl ratio( I would say 2 girls to every guy). Anyway I am in the process of changing from being a nice guy who suffers social anxiety and problems approaching women into a DJ. I have staring educating myself by reading the The BOOK of Pook and practising in real life. Anyway cut a long story short I postulated that the problem I don’t have confidence is simply because I don’t really know any women , not even as friends( even though I really want a GF or a play –around). I recently became friends with this overweight girl who even though is immature , I believed at the time that something is better than nothing and I could possibly get into her friends. BOY was I wrong! – I give her an inch she takes a mile. Quick series of events in chronological order
- meet her at uni last semester just talked to her in class but could see she was interested in me

- 3 weeks in she invites me to her birthday ( I don’t go because my mates couldn’t be fuked and I thought I might lead her on )

- Insinuates she wants my cok or wants a relationship by asking to me stay back with her after class and talk on the couch. I say I am busy and walk off , hopefully giving her the message I don’t want her , I just wanna be friends.

- Friends with her until the end of the semester . Tells me to msg her what classes I am in next semester .

- End of the holidays , Me being the idiot I was decided to msg her and try to start up a proper friendship so I could (a) start a social circle of women or (b) go for any of her hot friends.

- One day at uni she invites me to the movies with her friend. I attend completely on a platonic level. NOT knowing this will start a new can of ****.

BASIC RUNDOWN OF HOW IT IS NOW - As soon as walk into class and sit down she msgs me on her phone saying “ I am in the back “. Ever since I msged her what classes she was in she has been fukn obsessed with me. Always saving a seat for me , following me around when there is a break , msging me that she has saved a seat for me. She is downright ****blocking me and not letting me sit elsewhere. I am telling you she is nuts. The only reason I have not done anything is because I did not want to upset her. It’s obvious she is crazy for me. There is prime picking at my uni with at least 7girls spread throughout 2 classes ( and the fatty is in both). Even ****ing last week I did not respond to her msges and as soon as I open the door she screams my name out in class for me to sit next to her.

This situation has prompted me to START growing some balls and going for what I want , even though I might upset people in the process. This is why I have started reading this book and joined this forum.
AS I see it I am not settling for mediocrity , nor should I. I want attractive girls and I should not have to settle for anything less. I am not fat , ugly or uneducated.

 

[Mike32ct]

While some fat chicks are good people, in my experience, be VERY wary of ones that try to befriend you RIGHT AWAY in a new environment such as a new class, new job, etc. Those types are PARASITES seeking a new host. She will try to make you her b*tch.

Tell her NOTHING personal about yourself, or at least, don't tell her anything else. They sucker you in with friendship to gain your trust. But they are really prying you for juicy personal information to tell the whole world. Never tell her anything about your dating life or which girls you are interested in. On top of all this, she clearly wants your sausage.

I don't know her name. Let's call her Kathy. The biggest threat here is getting the reputation as "Kathy's B*tch." When Kathy yells to you to sit next to her in class and YOU COMPLY, you have beta-ed yourself to the 10th power. She has demonstrated to the whole class that she leads you around by the b*lls. This can seriously hurt your reputation with the other chicks in the class and even guys who would otherwise befriend you.

You need to stand your ground. Don't be mean, but be firm. Pick the seat YOU want. If she protests, just firmly say, "THIS is my seat." If she makes comments about you trying to get with other girls, do NOT take the bait. Just ignore her.

Things might be a little messy for a while, but you must free yourself. From now on, a little at a time, you build a social circle of only decent looking chicks and cool guys. I know it sounds a bit cruel, but school is all about status.

BTW sorry for the essay

Hi , this is my first post on this website and I would appreciate it if anyone would be able to help. I have recently decided to go back to university at the age of 22 to further my education and career opportunities. The plus about my chosen career path is that there is an exceptional guy to girl ratio( I would say 2 girls to every guy). Anyway I am in the process of changing from being a nice guy who suffers social anxiety and problems approaching women into a DJ. I have staring educating myself by reading the The BOOK of Pook and practising in real life. Anyway cut a long story short I postulated that the problem I don’t have confidence is simply because I don’t really know any women , not even as friends( even though I really want a GF or a play –around). I recently became friends with this overweight girl who even though is immature , I believed at the time that something is better than nothing and I could possibly get into her friends. BOY was I wrong! – I give her an inch she takes a mile. Quick series of events in chronological order
- meet her at uni last semester just talked to her in class but could see she was interested in me

- 3 weeks in she invites me to her birthday ( I don’t go because my mates couldn’t be fuked and I thought I might lead her on )

- Insinuates she wants my cok or wants a relationship by asking to me stay back with her after class and talk on the couch. I say I am busy and walk off , hopefully giving her the message I don’t want her , I just wanna be friends.

- Friends with her until the end of the semester . Tells me to msg her what classes I am in next semester .

- End of the holidays , Me being the idiot I was decided to msg her and try to start up a proper friendship so I could (a) start a social circle of women or (b) go for any of her hot friends.

- One day at uni she invites me to the movies with her friend. I attend completely on a platonic level. NOT knowing this will start a new can of ****.

BASIC RUNDOWN OF HOW IT IS NOW - As soon as walk into class and sit down she msgs me on her phone saying “ I am in the back “. Ever since I msged her what classes she was in she has been fukn obsessed with me. Always saving a seat for me , following me around when there is a break , msging me that she has saved a seat for me. She is downright ****blocking me and not letting me sit elsewhere. I am telling you she is nuts. The only reason I have not done anything is because I did not want to upset her. It’s obvious she is crazy for me. There is prime picking at my uni with at least 7girls spread throughout 2 classes ( and the fatty is in both). Even ****ing last week I did not respond to her msges and as soon as I open the door she screams my name out in class for me to sit next to her.

This situation has prompted me to START growing some balls and going for what I want , even though I might upset people in the process. This is why I have started reading this book and joined this forum.
AS I see it I am not settling for mediocrity , nor should I. I want attractive girls and I should not have to settle for anything less. I am not fat , ugly or uneducated.

 

[Warrior74]

While some fat chicks are good people, in my experience, be VERY wary of ones that try to befriend you RIGHT AWAY in a new environment such as a new class, new job, etc. Those types are PARASITES seeking a new host. She will try to make you her b*tch.

Tell her NOTHING personal about yourself, or at least, don't tell her anything else. They sucker you in with friendship to gain your trust. But they are really prying you for juicy personal information to tell the whole world. Never tell her anything about your dating life or which girls you are interested in. On top of all this, she clearly wants your sausage.

I don't know her name. Let's call her Kathy. The biggest threat here is getting the reputation as "Kathy's B*tch." When Kathy yells to you to sit next to her in class and YOU COMPLY, you have beta-ed yourself to the 10th power. She has demonstrated to the whole class that she leads you around by the b*lls. This can seriously hurt your reputation with the other chicks in the class and even guys who would otherwise befriend you.

You need to stand your ground. Don't be mean, but be firm. Pick the seat YOU want. If she protests, just firmly say, "THIS is my seat." If she makes comments about you trying to get with other girls, do NOT take the bait. Just ignore her.

Things might be a little messy for a while, but you must free yourself. From now on, a little at a time, you build a social circle of only decent looking chicks and cool guys. I know it sounds a bit cruel, but school is all about status.

I agree. Treat her like Leper.

 

[bigblock7]

Thanks for the advise. Also don't want to sound rude but it always seems like fat girls always try to stir the pot and can be the most jealous , two-faced and hypocritical of the bunch.

 

[konmai]

Thanks for the advise. Also don't want to sound rude but it always seems like fat girls always try to stir the pot and can be the most jealous , two-faced and hypocritical of the bunch.

Sad but this has been my experience as well.