This might be a little long, but I could use a tip or two guys-thanks! 
Knew the girl for 10 months, seeing her for 6 and officially the girlfriend for around 3. She was a solid 8 or 9, an amazing girl...or maybe not. I pulled a robbery from her ex, not happy about it but I did and dealt with what came with it. Essentially was the rebound and had to deal with issues her ex had caused. Things were amazing until about 3 weeks ago when they started to run a little dry. Looking back I think I lost track of the power, put her back on the pedestal and was afraid to piss her off, bought her things and lost track of my control on what was going on. Most of her friends are guys and her co-workers sexually harass her on a daily basis and she doesn't say a word to stop it. Here are a few things that led up to this--
1-Stops wanting sex, even goes as far to start a yelling match over me wanting it too much.
2-Got pissed that I forgot we saw a movie together, kept that grudge for a few days and ruined a good night over it.
3-All her friends are guys, with one thing in mind and she doesn't care. I was afraid to limit her friends but looking back it was horse ****
4----Sitting around playing a drinking game at her apartment a guy she met at the dog park with her twin sister calls her at 2am- he is a football player at the college and she actually calls him back at 2am with me right there, what else would he be thinking at 2am?
5-Starts to be a diva before dinner in front of my friends and goes home and skips the movie right after. Goes on facebook and posts "Questionning things" to all of our friends, yet didn't say anything to be for 3 hours. She texted, not called-even after I wanted to use the phone and we agreed upon space. Texted her in the morning saying there was something I wanted to say to her then the space is hers and this is how the conversation went-
Her- "What do you want to say?"
Me- "Let me say it in person, not over the phone- then you have your space"
Her- "I'm busy jake"
Me- "You really won't give me time to speak?"
Her- " I thought we agreed on space"
Me-"Ok"
Her- "Thank you"
Her 2 hours later- "What did you need to tell me"
Her 5 hours later-"Jake what did you want to tell me"
At dinner I got 6 rapid fire calls and when I answered all she said was "How long have you thought my sister is sexier than me? I'm done" and hungup.
Apparently I left my facebook up, she searched my messages for her twin sisters name and found a conversation from 9 months ago (pretty much the day after I met her and was being a typical frat guy) where I said her sister was hotter than her. She flipped, said she hated me, kicked me out of her house when I was trying to talk to her and said I was too good to be true.
On the way home I got a text saying "FYI your shirt was a gift too, either take all your gifts back (including my frat shirt she slept in) or it goes in the trash. You hurt me and I'm done being hurt" I never responded and my phone died. 2 hours later I got a text asking if she was finishing the work at my dad's office to pay her rent. I responded to that with a simple answer.
Just before bed I get this-"I'm sorry I snooped jake. alright, goodnight"
Today I woke up to this- "So im reallllyy curious about why you think my sister is sexier than me..."or thought". I never responded.
Then she sends another calling me a coward. Which I sure as **** replied to "I'm not a coward, I went to talk to you and you wouldn't let me. You said you hated me and that you were done, what else is there to talk about"
Her- "I asked you a question..."
Her 40 minutes later- "Well then when do you want your ****?"
Her 30 minutes later- "Ok then trash it is kinda hope you the best. Too good to be true. Bye"
I'm going back to U of A in a few weeks and she will be at ASU, so it would be an hour drive if I took her back. WHAT THE FUXK just happened? She said she knew I was after her sister in the beginning when she was breaking up with me, which is horse **** since her sister and I didn't get along until a week and a half ago. I don't see me taking her back and I'm sure you guys will 100% agree- I just find this insane. No way semi-long-distance would work with issues like this. Does anyone have any input?
Sorry for the long post boys but this has been the most confusing 24 hours I've had in a while. It's nice to have the power right now though...
Knew the girl for 10 months, seeing her for 6 and officially the girlfriend for around 3. She was a solid 8 or 9, an amazing girl...or maybe not. I pulled a robbery from her ex, not happy about it but I did and dealt with what came with it. Essentially was the rebound and had to deal with issues her ex had caused. Things were amazing until about 3 weeks ago when they started to run a little dry. Looking back I think I lost track of the power, put her back on the pedestal and was afraid to piss her off, bought her things and lost track of my control on what was going on. Most of her friends are guys and her co-workers sexually harass her on a daily basis and she doesn't say a word to stop it. Here are a few things that led up to this--
1-Stops wanting sex, even goes as far to start a yelling match over me wanting it too much.
2-Got pissed that I forgot we saw a movie together, kept that grudge for a few days and ruined a good night over it.
3-All her friends are guys, with one thing in mind and she doesn't care. I was afraid to limit her friends but looking back it was horse ****
4----Sitting around playing a drinking game at her apartment a guy she met at the dog park with her twin sister calls her at 2am- he is a football player at the college and she actually calls him back at 2am with me right there, what else would he be thinking at 2am?
5-Starts to be a diva before dinner in front of my friends and goes home and skips the movie right after. Goes on facebook and posts "Questionning things" to all of our friends, yet didn't say anything to be for 3 hours. She texted, not called-even after I wanted to use the phone and we agreed upon space. Texted her in the morning saying there was something I wanted to say to her then the space is hers and this is how the conversation went-
Her- "What do you want to say?"
Me- "Let me say it in person, not over the phone- then you have your space"
Her- "I'm busy jake"
Me- "You really won't give me time to speak?"
Her- " I thought we agreed on space"
Me-"Ok"
Her- "Thank you"
Her 2 hours later- "What did you need to tell me"
Her 5 hours later-"Jake what did you want to tell me"
At dinner I got 6 rapid fire calls and when I answered all she said was "How long have you thought my sister is sexier than me? I'm done" and hungup.
Apparently I left my facebook up, she searched my messages for her twin sisters name and found a conversation from 9 months ago (pretty much the day after I met her and was being a typical frat guy) where I said her sister was hotter than her. She flipped, said she hated me, kicked me out of her house when I was trying to talk to her and said I was too good to be true.
On the way home I got a text saying "FYI your shirt was a gift too, either take all your gifts back (including my frat shirt she slept in) or it goes in the trash. You hurt me and I'm done being hurt" I never responded and my phone died. 2 hours later I got a text asking if she was finishing the work at my dad's office to pay her rent. I responded to that with a simple answer.
Just before bed I get this-"I'm sorry I snooped jake. alright, goodnight"
Today I woke up to this- "So im reallllyy curious about why you think my sister is sexier than me..."or thought". I never responded.
Then she sends another calling me a coward. Which I sure as **** replied to "I'm not a coward, I went to talk to you and you wouldn't let me. You said you hated me and that you were done, what else is there to talk about"
Her- "I asked you a question..."
Her 40 minutes later- "Well then when do you want your ****?"
Her 30 minutes later- "Ok then trash it is
kinda hope you the best. Too good to be true. Bye"I'm going back to U of A in a few weeks and she will be at ASU, so it would be an hour drive if I took her back. WHAT THE FUXK just happened? She said she knew I was after her sister in the beginning when she was breaking up with me, which is horse **** since her sister and I didn't get along until a week and a half ago. I don't see me taking her back and I'm sure you guys will 100% agree- I just find this insane. No way semi-long-distance would work with issues like this. Does anyone have any input?
Sorry for the long post boys but this has been the most confusing 24 hours I've had in a while. It's nice to have the power right now though...
