Basically a few months ago just before Easter I met this great girl called X. Over this Easter break we kept in contact away from University but always brief and as soon as we were back from vacation we went on a date and I kiss closed it, all well and good.
During this time I was still spinning plates, however a few weeks into being back after Easter break, the plates collided so to speak. The three girls all discovered I'd been involved with all three of them, one got pissed about it and angry (Y) and one wasn't fussed really (Z) the last girl who is X said she wasn't pissed just surprised because the other two were really hot.
Anyway, it was apparent to me that X was the real girl for me and so I made sure to maintain everything I had with her and lost Y in the process of things.
Things were going well, we have spent more time with each other however recently she to me seems a bit less responsive or maybe it's just me. Anyway one evening her best friends were saying how X was worried that I'd just drop her or whatever after I slept with her. I spoke to X later that night and told her I wouldn't do something like that and that I did genuinely like her.
The next day we chatted and I told her that I knew summer was coming up but I didn't want to leave anything but would do if she felt she wanted to as there wouldn't be much point otherwise. And I told her I didn't want this to seem as if I'm becoming pressuring because I'm far more into being laid back. She said something along the lines of;
"Look at the big bad cage fighter getting all sentimental, I don't think I'm all you crack me up to be though. It's not that I feel pressured it's just the timing isn't it, it would be a bit more laid back if not for the time. I say for us to go with the flow and see what the summer brings"
Summer is coming up and it's a long break apart and I clearly know I'll miss this girl. I feel the time constraint against me so tightly, I haven't slept with her yet which is ridiculous because I'm in my first year of university and I have already tallied 24 girls/women, but never really found one to stick around a bit for.
So how do I act now? She knows I clearly like her, I've stopped spinning plates out of fear of them colliding again.
I have a feeling that she flakes on spending more time with me or maybe it's just me assuming that.
She's such good friends with her best friend that more often than not she won't ever blow her off to do something else. Always together in clubs etc. (but both great girls)
More importantly what could she be thinking and what can I do or say to sort out this problem I've got.
Cheers guys x
During this time I was still spinning plates, however a few weeks into being back after Easter break, the plates collided so to speak. The three girls all discovered I'd been involved with all three of them, one got pissed about it and angry (Y) and one wasn't fussed really (Z) the last girl who is X said she wasn't pissed just surprised because the other two were really hot.
Anyway, it was apparent to me that X was the real girl for me and so I made sure to maintain everything I had with her and lost Y in the process of things.
Things were going well, we have spent more time with each other however recently she to me seems a bit less responsive or maybe it's just me. Anyway one evening her best friends were saying how X was worried that I'd just drop her or whatever after I slept with her. I spoke to X later that night and told her I wouldn't do something like that and that I did genuinely like her.
The next day we chatted and I told her that I knew summer was coming up but I didn't want to leave anything but would do if she felt she wanted to as there wouldn't be much point otherwise. And I told her I didn't want this to seem as if I'm becoming pressuring because I'm far more into being laid back. She said something along the lines of;
"Look at the big bad cage fighter getting all sentimental, I don't think I'm all you crack me up to be though. It's not that I feel pressured it's just the timing isn't it, it would be a bit more laid back if not for the time. I say for us to go with the flow and see what the summer brings"
Summer is coming up and it's a long break apart and I clearly know I'll miss this girl. I feel the time constraint against me so tightly, I haven't slept with her yet which is ridiculous because I'm in my first year of university and I have already tallied 24 girls/women, but never really found one to stick around a bit for.
So how do I act now? She knows I clearly like her, I've stopped spinning plates out of fear of them colliding again.
I have a feeling that she flakes on spending more time with me or maybe it's just me assuming that.
She's such good friends with her best friend that more often than not she won't ever blow her off to do something else. Always together in clubs etc. (but both great girls)
More importantly what could she be thinking and what can I do or say to sort out this problem I've got.
Cheers guys x
