Fake it until you feel it

[trueplayaz]

Many people are complaining that what is being learnt here is a facade; a fake, but it is infact a round-about strategy which provides you with the ability to experience a certain mind set which would otherwise evade 99% of us. By carrying out the methods here you get to experience certain feelings and responses which you can construct into a permanent 'frame of mind'. Describing a feeling is hard with words (e.g. describe how chocolate tastes?) so this is a type of reverse engineering for your brain, adding corrected behaviours through a 'back door'.



These methods soon become automatic behaviors as you develop a feel for them.

So, the behaviors in the bible and in this site, when learnt and used in the real world become automatic behaviors. They have a common element – i.e. the same goal/objective, they therefore collectively become a frame of mind. The methods you are learning provide you with a 'feeling' or frame of mind. They shouldn’t be viewed as ends in themselves. Doing so negates their true value.

This frame of mind produced by the bible behaviors will soon enough produce automatic behaviours of its own– the same ones in the bible.

So in essence practicing the behaviors creates the mindset. The mindset then produces the behaviors independently.

These are summoned by being in the correct frame of mind. Make that frame of mind permanent!

 

[trajhenkhet]

"...natural unnaturalness, or unnatural naturalness..." -- Bruce Lee

 

[marqZAL]

Fake The FUNK!!!! Hey its allways better to fake that your confident, smart, funny even if your not, even if your faking it...than to look like a true pvssy, dumbass or a bore...even if you are, its not going to get you anywhere....

 

[So pimp its scary]

It is necessary, especially at the begining of the transition from the AFC to the DJ, that the AFC fakes some confidence. This practise of faking confidence, through body language and posture techniques, and in the extreme cases voice deepening therapy, as well as stuttering therapy, and practise in the art of eye contact (all this can be done on your own, with just a little bit of persistance and practise), however usefull it is, must be discarded as soon as the first bit of natural confidence is gained. Within a month, the avid student of 'DonJuanDo' will naturally hold himself in a respectable posture. The reason for this is simply that a fake confidence is transparent to women; it can be revealed in very subtle ways, which in turn makes it necessary that the first few "Ones" of the recovering AFC are failures, thus toughening the skin, so to speak of the Future DJ's.

I go sleep now.