I have been obedient and sensitive since my childhood. 2 years ago I made fake it till you make it about being self-confident and strong. In the past weeks, I disrupted the process due to a psychological illness. And I feel like same I did 2 years ago.
Fake it till you make it can't work.
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AmsterdamAssassin
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I think your answer is in your posting.
How? İ probably missing something or i just covered my submissive side with curtain but when the curtain opened suddenly my real side seen.
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Kinda.
You didn't 'make it', so you didn't 'fake it until you made it'. Whatever it was you were faking was never internalised. That's the idea after 'making it', that whatever you needed to 'fake' is now 'made', i.e. authentic.
You were supposed to project self-confidence and strength while gaining self-confidence and strength for real.
You failed that last part and never gained authentic self-confidence and strength.
Now you can do two things: accept that you are a failure, or try again. The choice is up to you.