facebook has some use.. should i just escalate?

pete101

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the oddest thing happened on saturday, i picked up this hot woman.. (conversated for about 40 mins, i knew it was a cold approach and needed to spend at least 20mins to get her emotions up, maybe 40 was too long)

i said to her 'you should let me take you out'. when she told me her name and where she was from, my face lit up a bit.. i realized on facebook 3 years ago i tried to pick her up under a fake name/alias. i remember she was quite a naughty girl and i tried to get dirty photos out of her but she just ignored those messages, but generally she was quite keen to see nude photos of me and be sexually suggestive.

anyhow on Sat she kept qualifying herself to me that she was available by saying.. 'my husband.. im divorced now' wanting me to know she was available. i got the number and i said 'i'll be in touch' and she had a big smile and said 'please do :)'

this was good sign, BUT i checked my old facebook account and looked at her profile, she's got a lot of things still open, old photo albums and her wall etc. looking through her photos i see this guy in them and under 1 of the comments in july this year she's written (yes i can say he is my bf after 2 years :)) the photo is from 2 years ago and comment this year. then on her wall under recent activity he's been recently added as a friend and 2 people have 'liked' this. which tells me they're still together.

at least i know what kind of woman she is.. but is the fact that she didn't tell me she had a bf a clear sign she's interested? i'm sure there's a saying that if a girl is interested she wont mention she has a bf, i did pick her up very well i admit.

is all of this info just not important and i just need to get her out and escalate, if she doesn't let me take it further that shows you everything?

i asked her where does she go out/what has she been doing, she says she's been pretty much a recluse for the past year.
 

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What I do at this point is buy a bottle of cheap wine and drive her to a secluded beach, or ontop of a mountain with a view, and we drink that wine and talk. Last month I would just escalate to sex, and not always get it. This month my strategy is to kiss, and kino, and if she asks for sex deny it. After all I'm not a ***** to have sex on first date.
 

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see this makes sense.. i text her today to meet up and she hasn't responded..

i know you're suppose to judge a woman by her actions not words.. but if she's literally saying to you 'please do :)' and smiling when i say 'i'll be in touch' it's hard for you not to take that as an IOI..

maybe she's just an attention wh0re encouraging me to contact her to feel validated.. she's 34 years old..

man.. these plates are all p1ssing me off.. if it's not POF it's 1s in real life.. it's getting f'ing tiring, i just need to get some regular sex then it'll be easier to get loads more. this is why i dont want to lose these plates given how much effort it's taken to get them all.. i'm only averageing about 1 girl in real life and 1 on pof a week if that.
 

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pete_101 said:
i dont want to lose these plates.
this my friend you have to work on. you have to be prepared to walk away at anytime. no matter how sweet, or how tight her punani is.
 
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