Facebook is everywhere. Like an epidemic of H1N1, it's sweeping the world and has been growing steadily for years. It has come to the point where everyone on the planet essentially has a Facebook account, and much like the use of e-mail and cellular phones, it has become a mainstream form of communication.
Facebook can be a great tool, however in my own personal experiences, the use of Facebook by men can be a devastating when it comes to the pursuit of women and maintaining relationships with them.
I've learned that having a Facebook account and using it to communicate with women absolutely kills a man's sense of challenge, mystery, and uniqueness. It's hilarious to browse around the site and see many men put their entire lives on their profile, citing their favorite movies, books, and music. And to make things even more pathetic, it's hilarious to read some of the status updates, as if anyone really gives a crap that you're sore from working out so hard, or still drunk from last night's frat party.
And the problem is that potential suitors are going to see this, and unless they have the genetic makeup of a prokaryote, a simple-celled organism, you're going to come off as a loser, plain and simple. I'm not saying having a Facebook/Twitter/MySpace/Whatever is bad, but as men we have to learn how refrain from depending on it and revealing our daily lives on it.
I see MANY men make the fatal mistake of sharing everything about their daily lives with their Facebook friends, and I can say from personal experience that things like this destroy your challenge, mystery, and lower your value.
I once heard my father tell my sister that the right man for her is going to be smart, educated, have a professional career, and NOT have a Facebook. I remember my sister laughing about the last trait, and after thinking about it, it's true.
Facebook will soon go the way of MySpace, down into the dumps of spam, stalkers, and attention *****s who lack so much worth of their own lives that they are thrusted into learning every detail of someone else and the habitual and mundane activities of others. It's gotten to the point where it has become a narcissistic joke.
For the men on here that do not use Facebook, I applaud you. For those of you who do, be careful what you write and how you game women using it!
And now for the discussion, do you think Facebook kills a man's challenge, mystery, and value in the pursuit of women? Discuss!
Facebook can be a great tool, however in my own personal experiences, the use of Facebook by men can be a devastating when it comes to the pursuit of women and maintaining relationships with them.
I've learned that having a Facebook account and using it to communicate with women absolutely kills a man's sense of challenge, mystery, and uniqueness. It's hilarious to browse around the site and see many men put their entire lives on their profile, citing their favorite movies, books, and music. And to make things even more pathetic, it's hilarious to read some of the status updates, as if anyone really gives a crap that you're sore from working out so hard, or still drunk from last night's frat party.
And the problem is that potential suitors are going to see this, and unless they have the genetic makeup of a prokaryote, a simple-celled organism, you're going to come off as a loser, plain and simple. I'm not saying having a Facebook/Twitter/MySpace/Whatever is bad, but as men we have to learn how refrain from depending on it and revealing our daily lives on it.
I see MANY men make the fatal mistake of sharing everything about their daily lives with their Facebook friends, and I can say from personal experience that things like this destroy your challenge, mystery, and lower your value.
I once heard my father tell my sister that the right man for her is going to be smart, educated, have a professional career, and NOT have a Facebook. I remember my sister laughing about the last trait, and after thinking about it, it's true.
Facebook will soon go the way of MySpace, down into the dumps of spam, stalkers, and attention *****s who lack so much worth of their own lives that they are thrusted into learning every detail of someone else and the habitual and mundane activities of others. It's gotten to the point where it has become a narcissistic joke.
For the men on here that do not use Facebook, I applaud you. For those of you who do, be careful what you write and how you game women using it!
And now for the discussion, do you think Facebook kills a man's challenge, mystery, and value in the pursuit of women? Discuss!
