eye problem affecting my game?

[xenigo]

Alright, perhaps you can call me naive, or sadly misinformed, but nobody's ever told me this was a major issue. I've had an eye problem since I was born, a lazy eye, and it doesn't line up with the other eye when I'm looking straight or to the left. I've had this problem my entire life so I've never experienced anything else to compare it to. I don't know how girls would respond to me if I had the problem fixed, but I'm curious if this could indeed be the source of the problems I've been having lately after meeting girls for the first time.

I've been blocked by FOUR girls online in the past two weeks, with no explanation. The one common factor is that they've all blocked me immediately after meeting me. No, I didn't put the moves on them. I didn't make unwanted sexual advances, or be anything other than a typical nice guy. They just simply refuse to talk to me afterwards. I've had this happen dozens of times in the past, but I've always just assumed I must have said / done something to deserve it, although I've never really done anything except hang out with them and watch TV or whatnot.

Anyway, is it too much of a stretch of the imagination to guess that my eye problem is causing the problems I'm experiencing? I know for a fact that I don't think I'd want to date a girl with a similar problem. I know that's jacked up, but it's true. I'm guessing it's the same for girls too. I guess I'm just trying to figure out where the problem is coming into play for me, cause I've met about 120 girls from online in the past two years and I've only gotten laid by two of them, and they were both chunky chicks. Yeah it sucks! I know it's something physical because I can make their panties wet until they meet me.

Is the eye problem as serious of an issue as I'm guessing it is?

 

[Ares]

my advice would be to stop focusing on online-girls. You know they will probably expect you to be the hunk of their dreams because of the way you make their panties wet during conversation, and a lazy eye is offcourse not the best physical trait. so I really think you should stop working online-girls(theyr pretty much crazy anyway) and get some live girls. to use an example:

o-g: talks with you, get really high expectations(thats a given your a Don Juan) starts to fantasise about what you look like, meets you in person, finds the lazy eye thing troubling cause it did not fit whith her "perfect" image of you and calls the whole thing off.

g: you meet her at a party etc, she either shoots you down right away or shows interest(same goes for any DJ), you two get into a good conversation, you use kino, she melts, an hour later your doing the nasty in a closet...

all im saying is that the lazy eye thing is probably only an obstacle when your dealing with o-g who is running around looking for "the one" on the web...

God of war signing out

 

[Porky]

If it's going to make you feel better about yourself, get it fixed.

Those girls are shallow b1tches. YOu deserve better. But, if you're still intent on screwing the lot of them, then get it fixed and keep at it.

 

[xenigo]

Originally posted by Porky
If it's going to make you feel better about yourself, get it fixed.

Those girls are shallow b1tches. YOu deserve better. But, if you're still intent on screwing the lot of them, then get it fixed and keep at it.

I agree that they're shallow, however this is a superficial world we live in. I can easily imagine how women wouldn't be interested in a guy with this problem. I mean, can you picture yourself with a girl with a lazy eye? I've even heard jokes about this issue in popular media, such as commercials. Pretty messed up.

Anyone else think this is the root of the problem I'm having? Or am I just dillusional?

 

[drixsa]

i dont know how serious the problem is for you or what is causing it but is this the string of events:

talk on-line, meet in real life, then they never want to see you again hence blocking you?

if so it still seems weird that they just block your ass.

if a girl had a lazy eye i probably wouldnt get involved with her unless it was so minor i could barely tell but i wouldnt ignore her.

if it were me id probably want to get it fixed simply so that i can concentrate at what im looking at and not have my eye move in different directions (i assume that is what happens to you)

 

[Kodiac]

1. Online girls are mostly freaks.

No, I didn't put the moves on them. I didn't make unwanted sexual advances, or be anything other than a typical nice guy

2. Maybe you should try 'acting' differently. Put some moves on them!? Try something new & don't be a TYPICAL NICE GUY!

3. My best friend has a lazy eye, he's also overweight - but he used to do well with women because he was confident, making moves on chicks 'in person' - he's actually engaged now.

 

[Quick]

Some great responses here.

I definitely think that it could be affecting things. Much easier for a girl to block you than tell you that she won't go out with you because she wouldn't want to be seen out with a guy with a lazy eye.


Can you get it fixed? Then do so. It'll make you more confident and remove one more obstacle from your goal of controlling how and when you get laid.

Is your eye the only reason you don't get laid? No. You probably don't act exactly the same in real life either. And like ares eloquently put it, you're building up these online girl's hopes of a perfect guy, and then confronting them with a contradiction the second they see you. If you had a mental problem you could at least have got them into bed long before their fantasy was ruined.

And you're doing something right if you're able to get all these girls from online to meet you in real life. That's not an easy thing to do, so if your numbers are real, then you definitely have some game. Start applying the game on girls in real life. Once a girl sees your flaw and then keeps talking to you anyway, you know for sure that it won't be an issue. You can weed out the hopelessly shallow ones immediately, and focus your attention on the ones that are willing to give you a little bit of a chance. That's when you work the same magic you've been working with the girls online.

 

[Gonzalo]

Hello. I also have a lazy eye. I don't know how it works in your case, but for me there are like two images and I can pick which one to look. It's cool actually, it's like having a camera option. I've had surgery, two times as a kid and one as a teen. They "might" help, but in my case, after the third operation (using general anesthesy) I felt really weak for a while and decided it wasn't worth it to do it again after the eye wasn't fully centered after some time.

Do you wear glasses? You could some of the cool ones / thick frames. They can diverge the attention from your deviated eye, plus I think they give you a more intense look if you have a dark type/ wear them with the right clothes.

When looking at people or cameras I discovered this trick, like if there is a bit of a small angle between your eyes and you look slightly off center (say to the left with the left eye) your right eye will be slightyl off center but to the right. It kinda seems as if your eyes were 'open'/ watching everything. I hope you get what I'm talking about.

And I haven't thought about this as an obstacle to get girls. You certainly need to have things going on for you. Not to say you are, but being an average guy "plus" the eye thing ain really gonna help. I've pulled girls in the past, just keep up the DJying. Laters. G

 

[dasein]

Xenigo

It's only an issue if it affects your confidence.

if you are aware or self concious about it when interacting with girls, this will come across,... if this is the case , then it's pretty straightforward procedure to get it fixed ( if deviation is fairly slight can be fixed by a simple botox injection... 15 minute procedure)

If you are comfortable with it then no worries... just stay away from the onlline shoppers as Ares said. look on the positives, use it for c&f ( I saw that ! ......stop trying to grab my ass) etc

Personally I don't think it is a major issue with woman once the ice is broken they won't even notice