Excuses for "not interested"

[Jor-El]

Just for fun and amusement,what are common "thanks but no thanks" responses/excuses from women when you pitch the date (when they are trying to be polite but really its game over!)

Il start with

"Il let you know"

 

[manfromitaly]

One of the most used is that she is tired or has other commitments and obviously doesn't propose another day

 

[Rainrain]

“You are so sweet but…”

“My grandma/dog/mom is sick and I’m going to visit her. I’m so sad”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have been told that they were going to the hospital and were really sick.

One I got a text from her "Mom" explaining she was in a really bad car wreck and couldn't make it.

One said they had to take their dog for emergency surgery.

A few just never showed up and never communicated with me again.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I rarely make excuses when I cancel dates.

 

[holidayad_]

"Let's wait for (insert any day of the week) to come first."

 

[corrector]

Maybe, in a flirtatious tone.

 

[sharkfinale]

"I'm having covid symptoms"

 

[Jor-El]

I have been told that they were going to the hospital and were really sick.

One I got a text from her "Mom" explaining she was in a really bad car wreck and couldn't make it.

One said they had to take their dog for emergency surgery.

A few just never showed up and never communicated with me again.

Blimey,some hardcore excuses there!

 

[DarwinTaurus]

I'm 47, and I recently made out with a girl who is 28, who I've known for 10 years. I got her number, texted her, she replied, but wouldn't lock down a date. Tried a week later, no reply.

I saw her last night, as I was exciting a bar, while she was entering, and she was like "Hi xxxx!", and I responded "Hi xxx!", but left it at that and walked home.

It's confusing, but sometimes you can't win.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Blimey,some hardcore excuses there!

Yeah it was pretty hilarious. That was probably over 7 years and many hundreds of dates.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I'm 47, and I recently made out with a girl who is 28, who I've known for 10 years. I got her number, texted her, she replied, but wouldn't lock down a date. Tried a week later, no reply.

I saw her last night, as I was exciting a bar, while she was entering, and she was like "Hi xxxx!", and I responded "Hi xxx!", but left it at that and walked home.

It's confusing, but sometimes you can't win.

The polarity isn't right , she may be slightly interested but not enough to make her want too see you

 

[DarwinTaurus]

The polarity isn't right , she may be slightly interested but not enough to make her want too see you

What do you mean by that? She would smash, but depending on her mood?

 

[DarwinTaurus]

The polarity isn't right , she may be slightly interested but not enough to make her want too see you

I think I lost my frame. I was exciting the pub, and she was entering. She said hello first. I focused on her. I should have given more scope to who she was with, ie: a guy or not? If not, I should've gone back in the pub with her. I messaged her when I got home, but she didn't reply.

 

[Vanderdonck]

"I don't want you to get me pregnant."

 

[Bingo-Player]

What do you mean by that? She would smash, but depending on her mood?

I mean you haven't done a good enough job at placing her in her feminine frame and you in your masculine

She's a 20 something woman she wants to be dominated and led she doesn't want to sense indecision /confusion or fear from you

You're like 20 years older than her act like It .

 

[DarwinTaurus]

I mean you haven't done a good enough job at placing her in her feminine frame and you in your masculine

She's a 20 something woman she wants to be dominated and led she doesn't want to sense indecision /confusion or fear from you

You're like 20 years older than her act like It .

Thanks for the advice.