PokerInTheRear
Don Juan
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- Nov 23, 2010
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I can just feel that the question is coming soon... She's already asked me if I'm seeing other people, etc. I'm not bringing up the matter of being exclusive with her, but I know she will be.
That said, I do like this girl, but not sure about how to handle this...
She has a lot of guy friends. She has told me about some of them. In fact she has brought up too many instances of hanging out with her guy friends... I'm not sure if she's trying to test me, make me jealous, or what - I have not in any way acted AFC when she discusses them. I act like it's none of my concern. BUT, it is a concern for me.
I sure as 5hit will not be exclusive with any woman who hangs out with another guy (friend or not) alone while she's with me. Call me insecure, I don't give a 5hit. I've seen it too many times and don't buy into it (unless it's a gay dude).
I've had girls that were just friends in my past, but I still would have had sex with most of them - if they'd let me
If the question comes up, I was planning on telling her that it wouldn't work because she wouldn't want to give up her guy friends and I don't go exclusive with girls who hang with other dudes...
My thought is that this throws it back on her and makes her own her decision (yeah right) and qualify herself to me... No?
How do I handle this?
That said, I do like this girl, but not sure about how to handle this...
She has a lot of guy friends. She has told me about some of them. In fact she has brought up too many instances of hanging out with her guy friends... I'm not sure if she's trying to test me, make me jealous, or what - I have not in any way acted AFC when she discusses them. I act like it's none of my concern. BUT, it is a concern for me.
I sure as 5hit will not be exclusive with any woman who hangs out with another guy (friend or not) alone while she's with me. Call me insecure, I don't give a 5hit. I've seen it too many times and don't buy into it (unless it's a gay dude).
I've had girls that were just friends in my past, but I still would have had sex with most of them - if they'd let me
If the question comes up, I was planning on telling her that it wouldn't work because she wouldn't want to give up her guy friends and I don't go exclusive with girls who hang with other dudes...
My thought is that this throws it back on her and makes her own her decision (yeah right) and qualify herself to me... No?
How do I handle this?