My ex wife is the worst of the worst. We share 3 kids and we haven’t spoke to each other in years (been divorced 3 years).
She’s the type to have maybe 1 friend, or no friends. Poster child for monkey branching as she had another guy as soon as she said divorce. That’s another story but the jist is, she’s mostly a loner but requires one dude.
Her ex best friend that she only knew a year or so reached out to me. She told me that she is no longer friends with my ex after she told my ex to forget about false allegations and work on just sharing the kids and living her own life. My ex apparently told her that she doesn’t need friends like her in her life if she feels that way. The ex bf said “fine, do what you want”.
Of course this sounds like hearsay but this does sound just like what my ex would say. It’s been about 2 years since they spoke to each other (same amount of time since all of the false allegations so her story adds up).
Since “The Mystery Method” and “The Rational Male” much has changed. I more of a MGTOW now who dates but does not GAF. I told her that I don’t do relationships but I do date. No one ever lives with me again. I said I usually date 3 at a time but since moving into the new house I had built, I haven’t dated much since August. And I don’t really care to as I’m still moving in and adjusting.
I posted a meme of Facebook showing the flow of marriage, one part has a guy saying he just wants to come over for coffee and chat and the very next part shows him banging the married woman, later leading to divorce where the guy loses the house, money, kids, you all know the story.
So, she messages me “do you like coffee?” and that’s how it all started. I laughed so hard after seeing that message following my meme. I met with her once. She’s about a HB7, 3 kids with 3 dudes, hot little body. She told me that she never wants to live with a man again because if she gets into an argument with him she likes to have her own place to go.
My ex ghosts her own friends. I have seen it many times so it’s no surprise that they haven’t spoke in years.
She’s coming over tomorrow night. She has high interest. Part of me would be honored to sleep with her and maybe some day tell my ex “I fvcked your best friend”. Part of me is thinking “stay away from anyone who has anything to do with my ex” and this is what my friends are saying.
My ex wife has done some dirty sht. She has attempted to alienate my kids so much that my oldest has habits that he can’t break. We have 50/50 so alienation in that situation can be difficult to say the least. At first, I was told that he hated me and wished I was dead (that hurt). Shortly after, my oldest said he was being adopted by my ex wife’s boyfriend (not possible with Joint physical/legal custody). The alienation went on and on and then came the false allegations, child protective interviews, drug urine tests in front of the child protective person, 4 hour trial after divorce for false allegations. Thousands and thousands in legal fees.
“Fvcked your best friend” is really sounding good but I am torn. I’m not one to revenge. If you have seen the things my ex writes to me, and I ignore, you would probably ask me to sink one in her friend for you too. All of my friends and family ask me the same question “I don’t know how you put up with her (my ex)”.
Have any of you been in this position? A crossroads of sorts. If so, how did it turn out? If not, what say you on this topic?
Thanks!
She’s the type to have maybe 1 friend, or no friends. Poster child for monkey branching as she had another guy as soon as she said divorce. That’s another story but the jist is, she’s mostly a loner but requires one dude.
Her ex best friend that she only knew a year or so reached out to me. She told me that she is no longer friends with my ex after she told my ex to forget about false allegations and work on just sharing the kids and living her own life. My ex apparently told her that she doesn’t need friends like her in her life if she feels that way. The ex bf said “fine, do what you want”.
Of course this sounds like hearsay but this does sound just like what my ex would say. It’s been about 2 years since they spoke to each other (same amount of time since all of the false allegations so her story adds up).
Since “The Mystery Method” and “The Rational Male” much has changed. I more of a MGTOW now who dates but does not GAF. I told her that I don’t do relationships but I do date. No one ever lives with me again. I said I usually date 3 at a time but since moving into the new house I had built, I haven’t dated much since August. And I don’t really care to as I’m still moving in and adjusting.
I posted a meme of Facebook showing the flow of marriage, one part has a guy saying he just wants to come over for coffee and chat and the very next part shows him banging the married woman, later leading to divorce where the guy loses the house, money, kids, you all know the story.
So, she messages me “do you like coffee?” and that’s how it all started. I laughed so hard after seeing that message following my meme. I met with her once. She’s about a HB7, 3 kids with 3 dudes, hot little body. She told me that she never wants to live with a man again because if she gets into an argument with him she likes to have her own place to go.
My ex ghosts her own friends. I have seen it many times so it’s no surprise that they haven’t spoke in years.
She’s coming over tomorrow night. She has high interest. Part of me would be honored to sleep with her and maybe some day tell my ex “I fvcked your best friend”. Part of me is thinking “stay away from anyone who has anything to do with my ex” and this is what my friends are saying.
My ex wife has done some dirty sht. She has attempted to alienate my kids so much that my oldest has habits that he can’t break. We have 50/50 so alienation in that situation can be difficult to say the least. At first, I was told that he hated me and wished I was dead (that hurt). Shortly after, my oldest said he was being adopted by my ex wife’s boyfriend (not possible with Joint physical/legal custody). The alienation went on and on and then came the false allegations, child protective interviews, drug urine tests in front of the child protective person, 4 hour trial after divorce for false allegations. Thousands and thousands in legal fees.
“Fvcked your best friend” is really sounding good but I am torn. I’m not one to revenge. If you have seen the things my ex writes to me, and I ignore, you would probably ask me to sink one in her friend for you too. All of my friends and family ask me the same question “I don’t know how you put up with her (my ex)”.
Have any of you been in this position? A crossroads of sorts. If so, how did it turn out? If not, what say you on this topic?
Thanks!