The North Dragon
Don Juan
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- May 4, 2012
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ok so al shorten it down to make it easier to answer
-we argue on the phone and i hang up because i was annoyed and didnt want to say things i didnt mean
-i ignore her and speak to her th next day-
-next day she turns 180 and pulls back. we constantly arguing now over text because she woulndt met face to face and talk about it.
- few days later no change except she wants space or break?
-her reason= wanted space to know where she stands and so we dont hate each other. i thought it was bull and she wanted to see if the grass was greener.
- couple days later ( at this point havent seen her in 1 week) i agree to give her space and we dont talk
- couple days pass she adds boys on facebook, talks to them and hides her facebook relationship status
-i dump her. reason= beat her at her own game, get the upper hand and to save myself from gettin hurt by her cheating or dumping me.
- THE BREAK UP CONVO
Me-Being apart and given u space isnt going to help this relationship. so lets go our seperate ways now and let that be the end of it. thanks for the memories. ( this was text because she ignore my calls)
her- i left my phone at home. i said we shud have a few weeks space you havent lasted 2 days. is this want you really want? you should have said from the start. you know i'l always love you and never forget you we had some great times and will never forget them. dont be a stranger i hope we can still be friends?
me- *name* ur away out looking for other people so thats it. i know what space means. am going to want my things back
her- looking for other people? excuse me but where did u hear that from? i've not spoken to any1 else. space means time for me and only me.i told u that from the start but if u couldnt manage that then i gues this is what is has came down to which is a shame. come get ur things one night next week or something. ( which i still havent )
me-time apart wont help our relationship
her- it was. we needed space and time to think and to miss each other. its ok though no worries
me-nah well uve got all th time and space you need.
her- am not arguing about this. i wanted space and u said u wud give me it
me- well uve got all the space in the world now enjoy
that was it. 12 days ago and havent heard a thing since. deletedd her number and from facebook. i dont want to get jealous. still have feelings for her and would like to sort it out but wasnt going weeks without talkin to her and being taken for a ride wonering if she would come back or not. i believe i did the right thing but hasnt she made an effort to stay or even try fix it?
our relationship lasted 2.5 years. we have split up before and she came back. this time is different obviously. makes me feel better and drive to continue with NC everytime people tell me am going the right way about this
-we argue on the phone and i hang up because i was annoyed and didnt want to say things i didnt mean
-i ignore her and speak to her th next day-
-next day she turns 180 and pulls back. we constantly arguing now over text because she woulndt met face to face and talk about it.
- few days later no change except she wants space or break?
-her reason= wanted space to know where she stands and so we dont hate each other. i thought it was bull and she wanted to see if the grass was greener.
- couple days later ( at this point havent seen her in 1 week) i agree to give her space and we dont talk
- couple days pass she adds boys on facebook, talks to them and hides her facebook relationship status
-i dump her. reason= beat her at her own game, get the upper hand and to save myself from gettin hurt by her cheating or dumping me.
- THE BREAK UP CONVO
Me-Being apart and given u space isnt going to help this relationship. so lets go our seperate ways now and let that be the end of it. thanks for the memories. ( this was text because she ignore my calls)
her- i left my phone at home. i said we shud have a few weeks space you havent lasted 2 days. is this want you really want? you should have said from the start. you know i'l always love you and never forget you we had some great times and will never forget them. dont be a stranger i hope we can still be friends?
me- *name* ur away out looking for other people so thats it. i know what space means. am going to want my things back
her- looking for other people? excuse me but where did u hear that from? i've not spoken to any1 else. space means time for me and only me.i told u that from the start but if u couldnt manage that then i gues this is what is has came down to which is a shame. come get ur things one night next week or something. ( which i still havent )
me-time apart wont help our relationship
her- it was. we needed space and time to think and to miss each other. its ok though no worries
me-nah well uve got all th time and space you need.
her- am not arguing about this. i wanted space and u said u wud give me it
me- well uve got all the space in the world now enjoy
that was it. 12 days ago and havent heard a thing since. deletedd her number and from facebook. i dont want to get jealous. still have feelings for her and would like to sort it out but wasnt going weeks without talkin to her and being taken for a ride wonering if she would come back or not. i believe i did the right thing but hasnt she made an effort to stay or even try fix it?
our relationship lasted 2.5 years. we have split up before and she came back. this time is different obviously. makes me feel better and drive to continue with NC everytime people tell me am going the right way about this