Ex - b#tch twisted the knife again...

[NewMan]

another piece of the ongoing saga...

Yesterday was our anniversary - would have been 5 yrs.

She calls me at work - tells me she's been thinking about me etc. etc. etc...

Forwards a bunch of photo's on to me of her at her sisters wedding - all dressed up of course..... (yeah looking hot)

Asking me whether I missed her - have I thought about her.


I just told her that I've been doing well lately...... she asked me about the new girl I've been seeing - and I kept it short and sweet.

I told her that she's been fun - that she 25 and that it's good to be with a younger girl (my ex is 30) that likes to have fun...

I ended the convo with a - I've got to go to a meeting.
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It just amazes me why there's this continuous game and BS with her....

It doesn't make sense.

She's just trying to get a reaction out of me.

 

[torqueboxer]

Then I'll assume that SHE broke up with you? And, let me see, she calls at really weird intervals? She chats with you like you guys are really still good friends? All happy and chipper and telling you little stories like you were one of her girlfriends? She asks you semi personal questions like "so what did you do last night" or " who did you go there with"? All kinds of crap like that.

I have been there done that with an ex before. If any of that stuff is what she does, ive experienced it before too. Usually the girl wants to be able to make herself feel better about her own, new, relationship problems. And by calling you she can make herself feel good by turning the screw on you. Making another person feel bad( most likely due to some guy toying with her) will make her seem like she still has power and control over something. And usually she feels like she misses the stability that you offered her when she was with you. Since she most likely left you to hang with either her girls or some other guy who she thought might be better than you. I can go on, but, i need to know who stopped the relationship. Give some more info cause i've been there before.

 

[NewMan]

need to know who stopped the relationship. Give some more info cause i've been there before.

For what it's worth....


http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34319

 

[Player_Supreme]

I was going to say something but it looks like you got it all figured out.

But why are you even keeping track of when your aniversary "would" of been. Your still hanging on.

Fawk her holmes. I like how you told her that you met somebody younger...that will keep her from having an orgasm with anybody else she is fawking right now.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Check-ins and your psyche

Chicks have some in-bred innate need to "check-in" every now and again just to make sure that you still care about them.

I'm sure they dwell on it for days and days before they take the plunge and do the "check-in".

And I'm sure they feel much better about themselves if you cave and tell them you're still into them.

You're better off by first not taking her calls or reading her emails. If you really have to, you're better off not burning any bridges, not giving out too much detail and not telling her you still care about her. Be pleasant but don't give her what she wants.

Telling her you still want her just obligates you to have to deal with another "check-in" at a later date.

If you broke-up on bad terms overall, every "check-in" hits your psyche for a time, so just move on and don't talk to her.

Of course, the best option is to just tell her to come over and turn her into a f-buddy but that's only if the break-up didn't wound your psyche too much.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by NewMan
another piece of the ongoing saga...

Yesterday was our anniversary - would have been 5 yrs.

She calls me at work - tells me she's been thinking about me etc. etc. etc...

Forwards a bunch of photo's on to me of her at her sisters wedding - all dressed up of course..... (yeah looking hot)

Asking me whether I missed her - have I thought about her.


I just told her that I've been doing well lately...... she asked me about the new girl I've been seeing - and I kept it short and sweet.

I told her that she's been fun - that she 25 and that it's good to be with a younger girl (my ex is 30) that likes to have fun...

I ended the convo with a - I've got to go to a meeting.
**************



It just amazes me why there's this continuous game and BS with her....

It doesn't make sense.

She's just trying to get a reaction out of me.

It makes perfect sense Newman. You've got it figured out.

Nice response. I'd say you twisted the knife on her with that "25 and likes to have fun comment." Beautiful.

You also could've added something like. "Great photos. Looks like the wedding was a lot of fun. Who's the hot brunette standing next to so and so?"