Everythings falling apart (help QUICK)

drummin2002

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Ok, guys If I ever needed help it's now.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and a week or so now. For the first 2 1/2 months her and I didn't talk at all. She has opened up to me in the last month. Everything has been fine lately, until the last two days. The day before yesterday her ex from almost a year ago wanted to go over her house. He went over yesterday and spent the whole day there. I was aggrevated about that, but I knew it would be very immature to say anything about it or make a big deal about it. Now the qu33r is staying the night at her house. I know she doesn't like him, I really trust her, however he was just playing with her bras in her drawer while I was on the phone with her, also flipping hers. She was gettin really pi55ed about it and he stopped. The weird thing is her mom really likes him, she thinks he is an angel so he can go over and spend the night anytime. I am really thinking about dumping her, but I know I will still have feelings for her, and it might mess up any other relationships.

Ok, about her friend...

I also like her best friend ;) I just talked to for an hour on AIM. She is on the dance team at school, and I'm in weight lifting so I see her quite a bit. The thing is I won't get to talk to her at it so I wouldn't really even count it. I can't just break up with muh girl because I don't even know that the other girl will go out with me. Her parents are really strict though. I don't know if it's worth breaking up with a girl w/out a strict parent for one with strict parents. She is atleast an 8 though.

Well, please advise soon. I may be going over my girlfriends house tomorrow, as screwed up as it sounds.
 
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DJoneday

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You've been with this girl too long to jump in with her friend, right away at least. Also I would let her know that you don't like this guy being over there, and that it's something you won't stand for. IF he does anything with her, kick his ass.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Um, why is this guy spending the night at her house??? I really can't see a legit reason for her allowing this. You can be assured nothing good will go on with this guy staying overnight at your girlfriend's house. If anything it should be you.

Talk to her about it, at least find out why the hell he's staying overnight.

If she won't give you a straight answer, hang out with her friend. Your girl will get the idea ;)
 

Garbury

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yeah man something sounds funny. I agree with shizam on this one. Why would she have another guy who she used to be intimate with over? Now don't act differently around her immediately because she will pick up on it that soemthing isn't right. But, if she acts weird and it seems like her IL is dropping the day after having that guy over, drop her. It just sounds like a bad story and if you're into her, perhaps a little heartbreak.
 
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