drummin2002
Don Juan
Ok, guys If I ever needed help it's now.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and a week or so now. For the first 2 1/2 months her and I didn't talk at all. She has opened up to me in the last month. Everything has been fine lately, until the last two days. The day before yesterday her ex from almost a year ago wanted to go over her house. He went over yesterday and spent the whole day there. I was aggrevated about that, but I knew it would be very immature to say anything about it or make a big deal about it. Now the qu33r is staying the night at her house. I know she doesn't like him, I really trust her, however he was just playing with her bras in her drawer while I was on the phone with her, also flipping hers. She was gettin really pi55ed about it and he stopped. The weird thing is her mom really likes him, she thinks he is an angel so he can go over and spend the night anytime. I am really thinking about dumping her, but I know I will still have feelings for her, and it might mess up any other relationships.
Ok, about her friend...
I also like her best friend I just talked to for an hour on AIM. She is on the dance team at school, and I'm in weight lifting so I see her quite a bit. The thing is I won't get to talk to her at it so I wouldn't really even count it. I can't just break up with muh girl because I don't even know that the other girl will go out with me. Her parents are really strict though. I don't know if it's worth breaking up with a girl w/out a strict parent for one with strict parents. She is atleast an 8 though.
Well, please advise soon. I may be going over my girlfriends house tomorrow, as screwed up as it sounds.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and a week or so now. For the first 2 1/2 months her and I didn't talk at all. She has opened up to me in the last month. Everything has been fine lately, until the last two days. The day before yesterday her ex from almost a year ago wanted to go over her house. He went over yesterday and spent the whole day there. I was aggrevated about that, but I knew it would be very immature to say anything about it or make a big deal about it. Now the qu33r is staying the night at her house. I know she doesn't like him, I really trust her, however he was just playing with her bras in her drawer while I was on the phone with her, also flipping hers. She was gettin really pi55ed about it and he stopped. The weird thing is her mom really likes him, she thinks he is an angel so he can go over and spend the night anytime. I am really thinking about dumping her, but I know I will still have feelings for her, and it might mess up any other relationships.
Ok, about her friend...
I also like her best friend I just talked to for an hour on AIM. She is on the dance team at school, and I'm in weight lifting so I see her quite a bit. The thing is I won't get to talk to her at it so I wouldn't really even count it. I can't just break up with muh girl because I don't even know that the other girl will go out with me. Her parents are really strict though. I don't know if it's worth breaking up with a girl w/out a strict parent for one with strict parents. She is atleast an 8 though.
Well, please advise soon. I may be going over my girlfriends house tomorrow, as screwed up as it sounds.
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