Everything but Sex

[ANIRBAN]

Hey ,

Thats what my date told me ..she is a very nice and quality woemna with lots of substance that I admire and like. She said she is mad about me.She stayed over two nights but no sex..only touching and lip kissing. My hands and tounge was all over and she was red hot but refused to de-clothe.

She said that she will only make love to her husband...and we can have fun but no sex..it seems. She is religious to some extent as well..attends mass and religious gathering. She agreed on a two day trip to a mountai resort..should I keep trying to take off her clothes or give up too soon? Looks like she is slowly giving in...but still scared. I had a long talk with her about sex and she said she cant do it..she will have sex only with her husband..

I like her ways and we are connected..but then she is forcing me to cheat on her..by refusing the bang !!! Some of my previous girlfriends also started with this comment but end up ****ing me like crazy

What shall I do...I have been dating all while but could not find a quality woman to hook up until now..help guys..thanks !!

 

[Skel]

Either marry her or get a new GF

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Abort Mission.

 

[dietzcoi]

Don't put up with this BS. Do you think she would tell this to Brad Pitt or Pierce Brosnan if they went out with her??

My opinion, move on. But I will get flamed by the religious and AFC on this site for this opinion

Dietzcoi

 

[Skel]

Religion is for the weak minded
Now ill get flamed too

 

[smooth666]

Originally posted by ANIRBAN
Hey ,

Thats what my date told me ..she is a very nice and quality woemna with lots of substance that I admire and like. She said she is mad about me.She stayed over two nights but no sex..only touching and lip kissing. My hands and tounge was all over and she was red hot but refused to de-clothe.

She said that she will only make love to her husband...and we can have fun but no sex..it seems. She is religious to some extent as well..attends mass and religious gathering. She agreed on a two day trip to a mountai resort..should I keep trying to take off her clothes or give up too soon? Looks like she is slowly giving in...but still scared. I had a long talk with her about sex and she said she cant do it..she will have sex only with her husband..

I like her ways and we are connected..but then she is forcing me to cheat on her..by refusing the bang !!! Some of my previous girlfriends also started with this comment but end up ****ing me like crazy

What shall I do...I have been dating all while but could not find a quality woman to hook up until now..help guys..thanks !!

How old is she? For how long have you been dating her?

If short/young give her some more time. If not DUMP HER as soon as possible...

 

[JohnJones]

I think you can get somewhere before too long. All she is saying is that she needs to feel like you are going to be around with her for a long time (she is probably too young to know what forever really is).


The only question is whether you like her enough to stick around. If not, then I agree why bother.

 

[TheRock]

Look give her a little bit more time but not too much more time. Really romance her and see if that helps .You never mentioned how old she is which is .Eighteen I would understand her .Thirty five move on she has got problems.

 

[ANIRBAN]

She is...

She is 29 years old..1 year less than mine....I will wait for our outing this sat-sun if she gives in fne..if I think she is still possesive about her body then...I will surely next her....

 

[SDBmania]

I assume that you, for some reason, have to have sex. If this is the case, and you can not live without sex, then you should next her. I respect her position and I don't think that you should force her to give up her beliefs just because you don't agree. I'm not saying that you are wrong, but if you can't respect her decitions then you need to find someone else.

 

[dietzcoi]

29 and is super religious and won't have sex until marriage? SHe is a 29 year old virgin??

Does dating her sound like a good idea to any of you?

In fact she may be asexual. I found a really scary site... www.asexuality.org.

If you get ahold of an "asexual" woman, God help you!

Do not listen to the AFC advice!! NEXT!

Dietzcoi

 

[Dark Nimbus]

29 year old FEMALE virgin?!?!? Now I've heard everything. Tell her it's over because you have needs she can't fulfill, and that you hope she gets another chance at a guy like you one day and doesn't blow it THAT time too.

 

[ToP DoN]

29 virgin?

next her....

 

[ToP DoN]

assexual girls

i dislike them..

 

[NewMan]

Tell her thats fine with you - but as a man you have needs.

She'll need to blow you on a regular basis....

Or - if she refuses, then tell her your cool with that if she's cool with you getting it elsewhere

 

[Master Homer]

Originally posted by NewMan

Or - if she refuses, then tell her your cool with that if she's cool with you getting it elsewhere

I was drinking some milk and this line made me spew it all over my floor.

 

[DJ_Dork]

If you can't be patient then dump her. I'd say give her at most one month - after that she's going to keep pulling your strings and you will be unhappy if you want sex from her. I had the same experience - I dated this girl who wouldn't give in (found out she had mental probs) then I started dating another girl.. in secret , after I got some from the new girl I dumped the old girl. Basically the girl who provided sex gave me emotional/physical support while the other just gave me emotional. After thinking about this a bit... A healthy woman WANTS sex.

 

[Dark Nimbus]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
If you can't be patient then dump her. I'd say give her at most one month - after that she's going to keep pulling your strings and you will be unhappy if you want sex from her. I had the same experience - I dated this girl who wouldn't give in (found out she had mental probs) then I started dating another girl.. in secret , after I got some from the new girl I dumped the old girl. Basically the girl who provided sex gave me emotional/physical support while the other just gave me emotional. After thinking about this a bit... A healthy woman WANTS sex.

Exactly! A healthy woman wants sex, so why are you telling him to wait a month longer and be patient? If she hasn't given it up for 29 years, you really think one more month is going to do anything? The only chance he has is to tell her he can't be in a relationship where there's no sex, and leave the choice up to her. If she cares enough about him she'll smarten up and lose the gay no sex till marriage ideal, if not, her loss.