Everyone on Here Needs to Read This... Seriously

[JohnChops]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31745

A post by Brazilian blues boy. (read that first, then read my writing below)

Honestly, wtf is up with everyone lately? Is it that time of the month again or....... a little to much estrogen in the system huh ?

But seriously, everyone just seems so sad/mad/pissed off and they're missing why life is so fun to live and why LOVE and HAPPINESS are what they are lacking.

You could have every fvcking girl in the world being an a$$hole but if your an A$$hole 24/7 you miss the important aspects in life. LOVE and HAPPINESS. Yes guys you CAN have both and still get any girl you want.

Once you drop "trying" to get women and start living and loving your life then you will start to feel fully satisfied in yourself and build that natural confidence in YOURSELF. It truly is the best feeling in the world gentlemen.

I advise you to try it sometime.

-JohnChops

 

[NobodyCares1]

Really great post, the one by Brazilian blues boy. To be hones right now I'm happy... I finally got the feeling that I just want to socialize with anyone and not expect anything from it, just for the pleasure of socializing. Of course I also want to improve my social skills.

Rigt now I shouldn't be as happy as I am, a girl that I might have gotten into a relationship might not be interested anymore but I don't know for sure so I try to be optimistic and even if she wasn't interested, there are a lot of other girls just waiting for me to take them.

I have even a lot of other problems but this rush of hapiness is just a great thing that I don't want to lose. Life's great! Even when it sucks.

 

[BeDJ]

Thanks for reminding us of that post.

It gets tougher seeing good intentions of people as you get older. I remember when I was 19, I was the happiest little camper with my first job laying pipes. I always had a genuine smile on my face (I still do, but not as happy and carefree as then.) As the years went by, I saw the world for what it truly was. I guess you can say it is being "unplugged" from the matrix.

Headaches and heartbreaks of relationships
Fake friends that come into your life
Finding a job to pay off student loans
The stress put on with a career (I love what I do btw)
Dealing with ignorant people

Maturity is knowing the world is a f*cked up place, but making it better at the same time. Experience will teach you to take everyone's words with a grain of salt and not wear your heart on your sleeve. We will all go through bad times and people in our lives. There will be bitterness, but with a strong mind, you can bounce back, learn and live.

I always have fun and take nothing seriously, I show care and compassion for people. However, in the back of my mind, I will always be cautious. The only thing I can control is my emotions, attitude and actions. To find happiness in life, you must go through hardship and pain.

 

[JohnChops]

Thanks for reminding us of that post.

It gets tougher seeing good intentions of people as you get older. I remember when I was 19, I was the happiest little camper with my first job laying pipes. I always had a genuine smile on my face (I still do, but not as happy and carefree as then.) As the years went by, I saw the world for what it truly was. I guess you can say it is being "unplugged" from the matrix.

Headaches and heartbreaks of relationships
Fake friends that come into your life
Finding a job to pay off student loans
The stress put on with a career (I love what I do btw)
Dealing with ignorant people

Maturity is knowing the world is a f*cked up place, but making it better at the same time. Experience will teach you to take everyone's words with a grain of salt and not wear your heart on your sleeve. We will all go through bad times and people in our lives. There will be bitterness, but with a strong mind, you can bounce back, learn and live.

I always have fun and take nothing seriously, I show care and compassion for people. However, in the back of my mind, I will always be cautious. The only thing I can control is my emotions, attitude and actions. To find happiness in life, you must go through hardship and pain.

I can honestly say that I never thought I would ever have fake friends but this summer changed that perspective. I was kind of pissed off but you are correct, "to find happiness in life, you must go through hardship and pain". But you know what when you come out of it with a killer attitude, a beastly body, and a built up positive attitude with so much drive then youll look back and not give a fvck about what happened in the past. The only way im looking is forward.

What do you do btw? Im curious about jobs, always looking for new things to study.

 

[The Gambler]

Thanks for reminding us of that post.

It gets tougher seeing good intentions of people as you get older. I remember when I was 19, I was the happiest little camper with my first job laying pipes. I always had a genuine smile on my face (I still do, but not as happy and carefree as then.) As the years went by, I saw the world for what it truly was. I guess you can say it is being "unplugged" from the matrix.

Headaches and heartbreaks of relationships
Fake friends that come into your life
Finding a job to pay off student loans
The stress put on with a career (I love what I do btw)
Dealing with ignorant people

Maturity is knowing the world is a f*cked up place, but making it better at the same time. Experience will teach you to take everyone's words with a grain of salt and not wear your heart on your sleeve. We will all go through bad times and people in our lives. There will be bitterness, but with a strong mind, you can bounce back, learn and live.

I always have fun and take nothing seriously, I show care and compassion for people. However, in the back of my mind, I will always be cautious. The only thing I can control is my emotions, attitude and actions. To find happiness in life, you must go through hardship and pain.

Repped!

One of the best posts I've ever read.

The Gambler

 

[talented_beginner]

what a contradiction! we read stuff lke this that makes a one wanna get all soft and shyt. then we read that we are supposd to be this alpha dog chasing and bangin chiks left and right

seriously feel like that this forum really contradicts itself sometimes.

what are we really supposed to follow?

 

[JohnChops]

what a contradiction! we read stuff lke this that makes a one wanna get all soft and shyt. then we read that we are supposd to be this alpha dog chasing and bangin chiks left and right

seriously feel like that this forum really contradicts itself sometimes.

what are we really supposed to follow?

That's where you go wrong being alpha and being a man are two different things. Alpha sh1t is so dumb in my opinion . Being a man is what you should follow. And with being a man you make yourself happy and you love every minute of life that you live.

People on here got it all wrong, you don't need to follow anything. These aren't strict rules, they're guidelines thag you take with a grain of salt. You can be alpha, omega, blah blah sh1t but if you put on that veil to be someone your not, you'll wish you didn't follow crap and took the man road.

Since Since when is being happy soft ?! My god you should have two emotions and those are happy and not caring .

 

[BeDJ]

What do you do btw? Im curious about jobs, always looking for new things to study.

IT sales, kicking CEO's off their pedestals

what a contradiction!

It is IMPORTANT to establish your values and goals first. This site is NOT supposed to do that for you. Depending on what you have established, you apply certain theories into practice. Seeking LTR's and ONS are night and day, there is no wrong or right path and to each his own.

 

[Packers2010]

firstly..

HOLY FOOKING ****! what was a good post!

it really has opened my eyes to a lot of things. especially the tings i am doing wrong.

I have a lot to be grateful for right now. my life ins;'t the best ( i sleep in a bed with my mother. ) but hey, i just spend 7 months in wales seein family. i can't complain one minuet.

this is epic! so ****ing money it's not even funny! this is EXACTLY what i needed for this weekend. thanks a bunch for reposing this thread and thanks to BBB for posting it!

love and respect man

peace!

 

[Trump]

That's where you go wrong being alpha and being a man are two different things. Alpha sh1t is so dumb in my opinion . Being a man is what you should follow. And with being a man you make yourself happy and you love every minute of life that you live.

People on here got it all wrong, you don't need to follow anything. These aren't strict rules, they're guidelines thag you take with a grain of salt. You can be alpha, omega, blah blah sh1t but if you put on that veil to be someone your not, you'll wish you didn't follow crap and took the man road.

Since Since when is being happy soft ?! My god you should have two emotions and those are happy and not caring .

I can't speak for others but I've gotten more girls when I'm myself, little quiet, dont talk much, ignore girls, etc. When you are to try to be happy and you're not generally, people will see right thru you that you are being fake.

You can't be down and depressed all the time but to be happy all the time seems a little creepy to me. I'd get suspicious whether it was a girl I was dating, or even a guy friend, like they were after something.

You have to live your life to survive. It's a jungle out there.

 

[JohnChops]

I can't speak for others but I've gotten more girls when I'm myself, little quiet, dont talk much, ignore girls, etc. When you are to try to be happy and you're not generally, people will see right thru you that you are being fake.

You can't be down and depressed all the time but to be happy all the time seems a little creepy to me. I'd get suspicious whether it was a girl I was dating, or even a guy friend, like they were after something.

You have to live your life to survive. It's a jungle out there.

Well obviously don't be depressed but also don't put on a fake veil like some people do with the alpha bull ceap. Find what works for you. I'm generally a happy person and I'm sure other people are too. Whatever works for you is what you should run with.

No problem packers, have a good weekend brotha!

 

[SeymourCake]

I read the thread. It said something about complimenting people, and so I did.

I was walking down the hall in my campus, and a woman was walking the opposite direction. She was looking down on her phone, and by the time we crossed paths, I looked her in the eye and told her she was looking good. She looked at me with a poker face for a split second, and continued doing whatever she was doing on her phone and continued walking.

 

[Fly By Night]

I read the thread. It said something about complimenting people, and so I did.

I was walking down the hall in my campus, and a woman was walking the opposite direction. She was looking down on her phone, and by the time we crossed paths, I looked her in the eye and told her she was looking good. She looked at me with a poker face for a split second, and continued doing whatever she was doing on her phone and continued walking.

Cold world.

It's kind of sad because after reading that post, I just started to think of how "happy go lucky" people are perceived as weirdos and oblivious to the real world. It is so important to keep that inner child alive in you, but a lot of people try to be the cold hearted, emotionless beings who have an eight inch thick wall between them and their feelings only to seem like a "normal" person. I try to break people apart from their social training of hating anything that moves, but I admit I still have a cold hearted side of me that I need to kick.

"We could change the world... but first we must change ourselves."
-Some quote from some movie.

 

[JohnChops]

Cold world.

It's kind of sad because after reading that post, I just started to think of how "happy go lucky" people are perceived as weirdos and oblivious to the real world. It is so important to keep that inner child alive in you, but a lot of people try to be the cold hearted, emotionless beings who have an eight inch thick wall between them and their feelings only to seem like a "normal" person. I try to break people apart from their social training of hating anything that moves, but I admit I still have a cold hearted side of me that I need to kick.

"We could change the world... but first we must change ourselves."
-Some quote from some movie.

Agreed with that bold line right there. I feel the same way ,im happy but still have a pretty cold side to myself which blows and kills me sometimes. Its hard to kick it out sometimes.

I think the main thing is to find what makes you happy, do it and run with it. Also eliminate all stress by no procrastination. I know when I leave everything to the last minute negative thoughts fill my head and bring out that cold/depressed side of me... kind of like I am now lol.

 

[Burroughs]

everyone walking around age 13-40 is a self righteous, technology addicted, under read, over opinioned, piece of sh!t who cares about nothing but herself/himself.

Most people think stardom is waiting for them around the corner...the hairdresser ch!ck who gets gangbanged on the weekend...the club promoter hipster faggot with the faux hawk.....they all think they are hot sh!t and think bigger and better things are coming in life

guess what?

It ain't gonna happen....but they walk around with a sh!tty arrogance anyways...

you know why

Its all they have.

You take away people's 'piece of sh!t ness'....they have nothing.

 

[JohnChops]

everyone walking around age 13-40 is a self righteous, technology addicted, under read, over opinioned, piece of sh!t who cares about nothing but herself/himself.

Most people think stardom is waiting for them around the corner...the hairdresser ch!ck who gets gangbanged on the weekend...the club promoter hipster faggot with the faux hawk.....they all think they are hot sh!t and think bigger and better things are coming in life

guess what?

It ain't gonna happen....but they walk around with a sh!tty arrogance anyways...

you know why

Its all they have.

You take away people's 'piece of sh!t ness'....they have nothing.

.....those people have nothing going on in their lives besides thinking in that manner. Any club promoter, hairdresser, etc who only does that /thinks that way most likely isnt going anywhere in life. Those people are just bitter and know they have nothing going for them in life so they think they are hot sh1t and talk down to people.

Your right it is all they have, id be pissed if that was my life too! would you?!

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

everyone walking around age 13-40 is a self righteous, technology addicted, under read, over opinioned, piece of sh!t who cares about nothing but herself/himself.

Yup. They hear about Kony 2012 on their iphone while surfing facebook and they are suddenly social justice advocates. Then they realize that the type was a bunch of dipsh1ts like themselves who were doing nothing other than trying to make themselves famous.

They sheepishly delete their Kony 2012 posts on FB trying not to look like total tools.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Wastes of skin.

 

[SamTheHobit]

everyone walking around age 13-40 is a self righteous, technology addicted, under read, over opinioned, piece of sh!t who cares about nothing but herself/himself.

Most people think stardom is waiting for them around the corner...the hairdresser ch!ck who gets gangbanged on the weekend...the club promoter hipster faggot with the faux hawk.....they all think they are hot sh!t and think bigger and better things are coming in life

guess what?

It ain't gonna happen....but they walk around with a sh!tty arrogance anyways...

you know why

Its all they have.

You take away people's 'piece of sh!t ness'....they have nothing.

So much truth in this post.