Ever feel you are to private to be sexual

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Like for example at work school etc many other people talk openly about sex and their sex exploits.

FOr me I think this is disgusting, weird and creepy.

Also, they have no problems to get sex I guess as they are open. I mean this fat ugly chick was sitting in class talking about how Mr xxx was good at sex but a bad kisser so shell dump him and Mr xyz was bad at sex but a good kisser etc..

In front off like 10 people in class some of us including me who did not know her.

This puts me off even having sex with girls. I am very very private person.

If I have sex abroad or with hooker I think this is much better.


1. I dont like to talk about sex with people I know or strangers.

2. I dont like to chat up girls because I feel a class above that. Which sounds wierd cause then you never get sex? It seems to me chatting up girls and looking for sex is real low class behaviour and disrespecting yourself but then how else do you get sex? A real man gets and takes sex but does not chase or act up for it. BUt then thats either pretty much rape or havig girls coem on to you.

3. I dont want any girl to talk about me. I may even be well endowed or whatever but my business is mines.

 

[Chamber36]

and some people have sex in the street

 

[omkara]

2. I dont like to chat up girls because I feel a class above that. Which sounds wierd cause then you never get sex? It seems to me chatting up girls and looking for sex is real low class behaviour and disrespecting yourself but then how else do you get sex? A real man gets and takes sex but does not chase or act up for it. BUt then thats either pretty much rape or havig girls coem on to you.

I agree totally. One aspect of this age we live in is that everything is upside down. Omegas are the alphas (thugs). The virtuous are punished, while the depraved reap the rewards of society.

It hasn't always been like this. But most people are ignorant of history and what real culture used to be like. Notice how whenever on this board people extrapolate to the past, they go back to some hypothetical remote past where "people lived in caves and hit each other on the head with rocks."

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I agree totally. One aspect of this age we live in is that everything is upside down. Omegas are the alphas (thugs). The virtuous are punished, while the depraved reap the rewards of society.

It hasn't always been like this. But most people are ignorant of history and what real culture used to be like. Notice how whenever on this board people extrapolate to the past, they go back to some hypothetical remote past where "people lived in caves and hit each other on the head with rocks."

Well yeh I mean as a dude I feel that I want regualr sex acts from girls. Im not at all romantic or into relationships.

I also feel that to act up or play up to get sex is pretty much what one would call beta in internet lingo. Like the toughest dudes you know they never go about chasing girls but how do they get sex?

I mean how can you get sex if you dont try? I have no desire to try to get sex. But I want to get sex if you know what I mean.

Thats why hookers are good in I can cut out all the BS and just get what I want. But I cant afford hookers. I have no real desire to speak with females flirting or non flirting.

If I see an attractive female Im just gonna be straight up and say you wanna fuk...they can say no or yes. nothing lost for me and no time wasted.

I have little interest in females barre sex and after sex they can go ASAP.

 

[Iceberg]

I agree totally. One aspect of this age we live in is that everything is upside down. Omegas are the alphas (thugs). The virtuous are punished, while the depraved reap the rewards of society.

Yeah. That's what it is. You're sexually frustrated because you're "virtuous". Keep telling yourself that.

I have a friend who doesn't work out. Doesn't socialize. And doesn't have any hobbies.....And he's alone because he's "too picky". You guys should hang out.

It hasn't always been like this. But most people are ignorant of history and what real culture used to be like. Notice how whenever on this board people extrapolate to the past, they go back to some hypothetical remote past where "people lived in caves and hit each other on the head with rocks."

Here's what it's always been like - In every age, no matter when it was, or what society was like, there was someone whining about "the good old days." And in the good old days, there was someone whining about the good old days. And so on. And so on.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I don't want to say it, but it sounds like you don't like women all that much. I absolutely love women. I love the way they laugh, dress, smile, talk, whatever. I just love them. They're like a mind puzzle I still try and figure out. The more frustrated you get, the less women will want you. The more you accept them as different and as a fun (learning) experience, the more you will enjoy them. Good luck bud.

Overall, I am a very private person and introverted. I kinda keep myself to myself. SOme girls I like some I dont same with dudes. I see people on a individual basis.

However, at end off day I always prefer to be alone and do my own thing. So, I have no deisre to hang with dudes or girls.

Its nothing perosnal or related to gender. Just the way Ive always been. Therefore its quite easy for me just to desire or not desire sex with a girl and only think on a sexual basis. I dont converse with people as I find it boring etc...so if a girl gets me hard Id want to do her if she doesnt get me hard I dont...pretty primal thinking.

Im weird though I think i have aspergers. When i talk to girls or around them even my cousins I visualise my penis in their mouth and groping them if they are somewhat attractive.

 

[Diaforetikos]

You have horrible inner game. Your trying to justify your reason for being a quiet introvert. That's not healthy. You need to realize that your a man. Period. Men control their lives and get what they want. But you have to be willing go sacrifice to get it. Either sacrifice or shut up and stop complaining.

You want women, get comfortable talking about sex. Don't talk about every single girl you've been with. Just share a couple little experiences here and there. You have to be comfortable with yourself to be able to do this though, but your not at that level yet. Hell, even doctors have to about your sex life, so get use to it.

You seem extremely insecure. That's no good man. Read the DJ Bible, through and through. And hangout with confident people. You need an example set before you of what confident people look like.

Either take the time to solve your own problems, or shut up about em, and stop posting. That simple. Your responsibility, not ours.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Don't call it weird bud. I'm just going to say it like it is, but to get women you need to like yourself and enjoy being around others. Stop thinking of yourself as an island and try to talk to others. It'll help you build on that primal mind of yours haha.

Interacting with other people isn't something that we're born into it. We learn it!

But I dont like hanging aroudn other people. Its not something I want to do by choice.

I wouldnt even say I want sex. I dotn that much like sexual intercourse unless the girl is extremely hot. And during sex I am quiet not loud or active.

I would however like head etc from lots of girls.

I only want sex with real hot girls..If I cant get them ill just use hookers. I dont desire sex with a person just want sex acts on hot girls

I wouldnt say Im not confident im just out there. Ive always been out there. I never really feel normal aorund people. I n fact due to this and my strong independence others can view me as confident and arrogant as I am perhaps cold and tough sometimes and say what I like as I have no real interest in being around them

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

But I dont like hanging aroudn other people. Its not something I want to do by choice.

I wouldnt even say I want sex. I dotn that much like sexual intercourse unless the girl is extremely hot. And during sex I am quiet not loud or active.

I would however like head etc from lots of girls.

I only want sex with real hot girls..If I cant get them ill just use hookers. I dont desire sex with a person just want sex acts on hot girls

Well if all this is true, then it seems like you wouldn't have taken the time to join this site...donnyjondeppjuando.

So I'm just gonna go out on a limb and call you a troll.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Well if all this is true, then it seems like you wouldn't have taken the time to join this site...donnyjondeppjuando.

So I'm just gonna go out on a limb and call you a troll.

Oh no dont get me worng I want sex every day

BUT

only with hot girls or not at all.

Average girsl can give me head.

but whos to get hot girls easy?

ANd who wants sex or to hang with a guy who aint social just a perv lol

 

[joverby]

Well if all this is true, then it seems like you wouldn't have taken the time to join this site...donnyjondeppjuando.

So I'm just gonna go out on a limb and call you a troll.

^That, I was thinking the same a while ago after seeing his posts.

 

[vatoloco]

I wouldnt even say I want sex. I dotn that much like sexual intercourse unless the girl is extremely hot. And during sex I am quiet not loud or active.

Are you "extremely hot" yourself? What I've observed in Life is that everything pretty much is an equivalent exchange. You wanna have a hot girl? You better be hot yourself. Or have lots of money, drugs, fame, connections, status, etc.

Do you have any of that? If not, you're gonna have to compensate by...

I only want sex with real hot girls..If I cant get them ill just use hookers.

Well then. Problem solved.



With regards to gossipy women, they can't help it. It's in their genes. What you do is keep your mouth shut and don't give her any info. That and give her the fuck of her life so she can tell everyone else how good you are.

Social proof, ftw.

 

[AlexDP]

Oh no dont get me worng I want sex every day

BUT

only with hot girls or not at all.

Average girsl can give me head.

but whos to get hot girls easy?

ANd who wants sex or to hang with a guy who aint social just a perv lol

I used to be like this. And don't get me wrong, the girls I sleep with are still very goodlooking. But they're not movie stars. And I don't really mind, because I think they're pretty, cute and I like them. You come across as very inexperienced, mate.

 

[omkara]

Yeah. That's what it is. You're sexually frustrated because you're "virtuous". Keep telling yourself that.

I have a friend who doesn't work out. Doesn't socialize. And doesn't have any hobbies.....And he's alone because he's "too picky". You guys should hang out.

Iceberg - I can see that no independent thought went into your post whatsoever. You are basically repeating societal memes without even thinking.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Iceberg - I can see that no independent thought went into your post whatsoever. You are basically repeating societal memes without even thinking.

He's trying to tell you that your whole "justify my sex life based on others lifestlyes" is complete BS. Your not seeing the results your looking for because your not taking responsibility towards the choices YOU choose to make.

If you don't care about women, then shutty. If you wanna get better with your skills, man up, be responsible foe yourself, and stop trying to point fingers.

 

[Iceberg]

Iceberg - I can see that no independent thought went into your post whatsoever. You are basically repeating societal memes without even thinking.

Seems to me that the societal meme is to blame others for your personal downfalls, and to look upon the "good old days" as some sort of Utopian times.

Hey. You don't have the women you want or the lifestyle you want. But at least you have your "virtues" right?

Sounds like the kind of thing I used to tell myself to cover up my lack of success.

 

[zekko]

Yeah. That's what it is. You're sexually frustrated because you're "virtuous". Keep telling yourself that.

Iceberg, I agree it is laughable when most guys describe themselves as virtuous, or even as a nice guy or a good guy. People generally have more faults than they are willing to admit.

However, technically omkara was not claiming to be virtuous himself, only that the the virtuous are punished. And who can blame him for this statement? Isn't that the philosophy of many posters on this site? That if you are not the loud mouthed @sshole douchebag you will not attract women? And that even if you do get laid, the girl is secretly wishing she was with the loud mouthed @sshole douchebag instead?

Isn't that message drummed home day after day, week after week here?

 

[Iceberg]

Iceberg, I agree it is laughable when most guys describe themselves as virtuous, or even as a nice guy or a good guy. People generally have more faults than they are willing to admit.

However, technically omkara was not claiming to be virtuous himself, only that the the virtuous are punished. And who can blame him for this statement? Isn't that the philosophy of many posters on this site? That if you are not the loud mouthed @sshole douchebag you will not attract women? And that even if you do get laid, the girl is secretly wishing she was with the loud mouthed @sshole douchebag instead?

Isn't that message drummed home day after day, week after week here?

Man, I hope that's not the message people are taking away from this site.

My interpretation of things is that the people who are confident are the ones who attract women. Not loud mouthed douchebags. I worked on myself: got into shape, developed hobbies, became a more interesting man - and then the women came. There's nothing particularly virtuous/unvirtuous about me. Just a regular person with strengths and weaknesses.

Maybe there are people on this site preaching the value of being a loudmouthed d-bag, but I tuned them out. The only message I believe in is: work on yourself, become confident, and women will follow.

 

[corrector]

I agree with OP. This is why I'm trying out stuff like this:

http://androticsdirect.com/product.php?productid=14

It hasn't really changed me, but I'm still playing around with this stuff. It makes me less edgy around people. May help you also feel "normal" around people too.


Even Iceberg's getting into shape, developing hobbies, becoming an interesting man -- worked for him - but if you have a "leave me alone, do not bother me, I'm busy" type of face like I do, then it doesn't help.