Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
Alright so this is my first bit of advice that I have thought of. Bit lenathy so bear with me. Tell me what you think honestly. Lets get to it then.
Life itself is about change, yes CHANGE. It is a part of life and to live life we must accept it. This is even more true in highschool. Highschool is a place to prepare for the rest of your life, not only academicaly but socially too. You will see others changeing around you, some fall to the darkness (drugs, violence) others will rise from the ashes to become true DJ's.
First of all lets take a look at yourself, you throughout high school change more in a short period of time then you will for the rest of your life. You change physically, I dont belive I need to talk about that as you probbly hear enough from your teachers. Socially you change too, you may feel that your friends you had are not a close as they once were, you will find yourself making new friends. This is normal as your old friends change themselves and begin to have other intrests from you, or they have refused to accept change themselves and are falling behind. You general preceptions and intrests in life will change.
Others will change also. Your friends as we disscussed will change, others will begin to develop their own intrests. It is important for yourself to become a leader and lead the change as an alpha male. Do not copy others styles or follow others by doing what they do or pretending to like what they like to do. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. MAKE YOUR OWN STYLES. It is important that you allways strive to better yourself. As you change you need to change for the better. Do not fall into a pit changeing for the worse leading yourself back to AFC status.
Another thing, major life events and your social reality is in a costant flux. 99% of the time by this time this next month, somthing to do with you will have changed, some friends relationship, a new crush of yours, new friends somthing will change. Also sorry to disappoint maybe some of you out there but chances are that the girl that you may be dateing in grade 9 or in highschool all togeather, most likley will not be marrying you after highschool. For example I have had this happen to me several times, this girl, lets call her Lucy, well I had a big crush on lucy, I thought she was the perfect girl for me. I did all I could to get her yet she had a boyfriend. The fact soon became clear to me that she would never leave her boyfriend for me it even got to the point that recently I was beat up by him. Well now it just so happens that me and this girl are friends now. She broke up with her boyfriend that she had been dateing for two years. Now its up to me to make a move now, all i had to do was trust in the fact that it will eventually end, after all it is high school.
The fact that you will not be marrying them means LITTLE life commitment in high school (beside babymakeing), date who ever you want to it is pratice for what really matters later in life. If you think you have found that perfect girl maybe hold on to her number just a bit longer, and later in life if your still interested then go for it. Highschool is a time for learning and pratice, establish yourself now it will be easier then trying to force change later on in your life.
Now to review, LIFE CHANGES accept it, You will change throughout highschool, Friends will come and go as they and you change, LEAD THE CHANGE, Allways strive to change for the better, and EVERYTHING in highschool is in constant flux, the girl that people are with in highschool/ early high school most likley will not be with the person by after highschool/ senior years, and highschool is a time for pratice so establish yourself now, it will be eaiser now then later.
REMEMBER CHANGE, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!
, Bryce
Life itself is about change, yes CHANGE. It is a part of life and to live life we must accept it. This is even more true in highschool. Highschool is a place to prepare for the rest of your life, not only academicaly but socially too. You will see others changeing around you, some fall to the darkness (drugs, violence) others will rise from the ashes to become true DJ's.
First of all lets take a look at yourself, you throughout high school change more in a short period of time then you will for the rest of your life. You change physically, I dont belive I need to talk about that as you probbly hear enough from your teachers. Socially you change too, you may feel that your friends you had are not a close as they once were, you will find yourself making new friends. This is normal as your old friends change themselves and begin to have other intrests from you, or they have refused to accept change themselves and are falling behind. You general preceptions and intrests in life will change.
Others will change also. Your friends as we disscussed will change, others will begin to develop their own intrests. It is important for yourself to become a leader and lead the change as an alpha male. Do not copy others styles or follow others by doing what they do or pretending to like what they like to do. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. MAKE YOUR OWN STYLES. It is important that you allways strive to better yourself. As you change you need to change for the better. Do not fall into a pit changeing for the worse leading yourself back to AFC status.
Another thing, major life events and your social reality is in a costant flux. 99% of the time by this time this next month, somthing to do with you will have changed, some friends relationship, a new crush of yours, new friends somthing will change. Also sorry to disappoint maybe some of you out there but chances are that the girl that you may be dateing in grade 9 or in highschool all togeather, most likley will not be marrying you after highschool. For example I have had this happen to me several times, this girl, lets call her Lucy, well I had a big crush on lucy, I thought she was the perfect girl for me. I did all I could to get her yet she had a boyfriend. The fact soon became clear to me that she would never leave her boyfriend for me it even got to the point that recently I was beat up by him. Well now it just so happens that me and this girl are friends now. She broke up with her boyfriend that she had been dateing for two years. Now its up to me to make a move now, all i had to do was trust in the fact that it will eventually end, after all it is high school.
The fact that you will not be marrying them means LITTLE life commitment in high school (beside babymakeing), date who ever you want to it is pratice for what really matters later in life. If you think you have found that perfect girl maybe hold on to her number just a bit longer, and later in life if your still interested then go for it. Highschool is a time for learning and pratice, establish yourself now it will be easier then trying to force change later on in your life.
Now to review, LIFE CHANGES accept it, You will change throughout highschool, Friends will come and go as they and you change, LEAD THE CHANGE, Allways strive to change for the better, and EVERYTHING in highschool is in constant flux, the girl that people are with in highschool/ early high school most likley will not be with the person by after highschool/ senior years, and highschool is a time for pratice so establish yourself now, it will be eaiser now then later.
REMEMBER CHANGE, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!
, Bryce