evening report

[jack03]

hi don juans,

yesterday evening i have been out in a night club where many chicks were. And i recognized that there were many chicks who were only sexual (dancing and shaking with ass, tits...)
i don't know why but if there comes than one of these muscle guys and i only can laugh because it looks so stupid.

Ok then there were 2 girls, looking ok but not really good, so my friends (2 guys and me) saw these girls and we laugh and maked us funny about them. about which big backside the one girl had. and this girl didn't go away (and she heard this !) why doesnt she go away ?

Later we want to sit down at the bar and near the one char a women (perhaps 24 or 25) stand there and when i took the chair to sit down she looks at me as the world would go down. and she said something not really nice to me. Normally i would say sorry or i would have an bad feeling for doing that. but my friends (who read the dj book and at this forum too)) had to laugh and i laughed too the woman looked comically and went away. later she came back to the bar side to a friend of me and looked at him. Then he done something funny he belched ( it was loud in the night bar only the woman could hear it) and finally she got away
then to my part 2 girls who had seen this all went next to me (there was really no space next to me) the one blond female leaned to my side and rubbed with her body at me. The other blond danced at the left side in front of me and shaked her body. I really felt that they wanted something or if they only want to make me going crazy to them. I finally tried to ignore them and looked at some other nice girls. but i felt they dont want to give up. but finally the one chake her head a little bit and didnt understand why seam/stitch didnt work but now my question what would the don juans do ??? i am a really newbie and i dont want to be fooled by the women ! never again. i didnt want to get the situation that i talk to these two blond girls and they laugh about me. no thx. can you give some advice ? what have the don juans to do in such a situation.
ok than to the last part of the story. we went out of the night club and there were two other girls outside on a bank and they looked at ous and when pe passed they sat good bye and smiled.
so one of my friends turned around and asked them "do you say to every stranger good bye ?"
They answered only "Yes". We gone away, smiled and laughed. ( I think the answer Yes sounds a little bit cheap. or ???) But what would the don juans had done in this situation ?

Sorry for my bad English. I am german.

Hope you can give me some advice fast !!!!! PLEASE !!!!

 

[am4591]

You ignored the two blondes? How? Or more importantly, why? You should have danced with them, if you dance, or kino them back. Sure, maybe they're just teasing you but so what? Just have a good time.

Also, I don't understand what you're asking about the two girls outside who smiled and said goodbye.

 

[jack03]

- couldn't dance with them there i sat at the chair.

- yeah they are teasing me but this feels bad i dont like to be teased and used a sexual toy which they can annoy.

-"Also, I don't understand what you're asking about the two girls outside who smiled and said goodbye." -> i ask because i dont know what i should do. should i talk to them ? and i find the answer "yes" very cheap. what have you done at this point.

 

[am4591]

Uh...well...why didn't you just get up out of your chair and dance with them?

Don't let them know that their teasing gets to you. Joke with them, maybe a couple of neg hits--give it back to them. Maybe they weren't teasing, maybe they were hitting on you. Either way, just have some fun with them. If they get too annoying, just smile, tell them goodbye or something, then go elsewhere and find other girls to talk to.

The girls outside: lighten up, saying "Yes" isn't being cheap, they're probably just being friendly. What you should have done depends on what you want. You could have started walking with them, strike up a conversation, etc.

 

[jack03]

yeah but there was not really any space to dance for me. i would have to walk to the dance floor. And im not sure if they would wonder then or if they would follow

ok i will try to do that, feels hard but ok. but how can i forget that feeling to be used as the stupid guy which they play with. i know that i dont have to show that they are teasing me but i have every minute in my mind that they use me for a fool who they play with for their pleasure. How can i get a little bit more confident in that. and change the situation `? I hate that so much.

"The girls outside: lighten up, saying "Yes" isn't being cheap, they're probably just being friendly. What you should have done depends on what you want. You could have started walking with them, strike up a conversation, etc."

ok i will do that what i want to do. ok ! Thx

 

[am4591]

OK, if there's no room to dance, just sit back and enjoy the show.

It could be that the two blondes were just playing and no harm was intended. If that's the case, then, like I said, carry on with them, talk to them, get them laughing. Have a good time. But if you think they were just being mean-spirited, then just walk away. Don't put up with it. Find another girl and strike up a conversation with her or maybe dance with her. You just have to decide whether the blondes were just clowning with you or trying to make you look like an idiot. From the sound of your first post on this thread, it seems like the girl who gave a little shake of her head might have been wondering why you didn't respond to her.

 

[toot86]

Originally posted by jack03
hi don juans,

yesterday evening i have been out in a night club where many chicks were. And i recognized that there were many chicks who were only sexual (dancing and shaking with ass, tits...)
i don't know why but if there comes than one of these muscle guys and i only can laugh because it looks so stupid.

Ok then there were 2 girls, looking ok but not really good, so my friends (2 guys and me) saw these girls and we laugh and maked us funny about them. about which big backside the one girl had. and this girl didn't go away (and she heard this !) why doesnt she go away ?

Later we want to sit down at the bar and near the one char a women (perhaps 24 or 25) stand there and when i took the chair to sit down she looks at me as the world would go down. and she said something not really nice to me. Normally i would say sorry or i would have an bad feeling for doing that. but my friends (who read the dj book and at this forum too)) had to laugh and i laughed too the woman looked comically and went away. later she came back to the bar side to a friend of me and looked at him. Then he done something funny he belched ( it was loud in the night bar only the woman could hear it) and finally she got away
then to my part 2 girls who had seen this all went next to me (there was really no space next to me) the one blond female leaned to my side and rubbed with her body at me. The other blond danced at the left side in front of me and shaked her body. I really felt that they wanted something or if they only want to make me going crazy to them. I finally tried to ignore them and looked at some other nice girls. but i felt they dont want to give up. but finally the one chake her head a little bit and didnt understand why seam/stitch didnt work but now my question what would the don juans do ??? i am a really newbie and i dont want to be fooled by the women ! never again. i didnt want to get the situation that i talk to these two blond girls and they laugh about me. no thx. can you give some advice ? what have the don juans to do in such a situation.
ok than to the last part of the story. we went out of the night club and there were two other girls outside on a bank and they looked at ous and when pe passed they sat good bye and smiled.
so one of my friends turned around and asked them "do you say to every stranger good bye ?"
They answered only "Yes". We gone away, smiled and laughed. ( I think the answer Yes sounds a little bit cheap. or ???) But what would the don juans had done in this situation ?

Sorry for my bad English. I am german.

Hope you can give me some advice fast !!!!! PLEASE !!!!

I feel like I just read "The Adventures of The Rednecks of Georgia"

 

[jack03]

I havent read this book. What is a redneck ?

 

[am4591]

I'm from the south--trust me, you don't wanna know what a redneck is.

 

[jack03]

ok and why does toot86 then write something like that ???? should that help a newbie who tries to get better ?