Ethnic meaning anything other than white and black women, I was going to say that but not enough space in the topic line.
We've heard it countless times to where everyone is sick and tired of ethnic guys going after white women, how can they get their nasty darker hands on them, but lets talk about the other side of it....
They often tell you
Why not go for hot girls of your own race.
Now if you're chasing FOBish girls, maybe that is an option but for those of us who grew up in western culture and actually like speaking English, enjoying the culture we are in, and assimilating into the society; we can't date hot girls of our own race who have done the same.
I mean it is a running stereotype among Asian American women that if they are assimilated into western society, they're going to go for white guys. In fact from my own experience, Asian American women are even harsher on Asian men than white American women are, although some out-dated online dating studies will say otherwise.
And it isn't just Asian men in the west facing this issue either.
I notice that other than white men and black men, all other men face this issue. Pretty sure that @skinnyguy can attest to the fact that Indian girls out in California are the same as Asian girls, they hate men of their own race.
For a while I thought Middle Eastern men were immune to it, not after being in Southern California. Almost all the Persian girls you see who have assimilated into western culture are either going for white guys or pulling a Kim Kardashian and going black.
Latino guys face the same thing too as latinas go interracial at rates just as high as Asian women.
But it baffles me that because the heavily white pickup culture benefits from ethnic women, no one has an issue here yet everyone loses their mind when ethnic men want to go for white women.
So as an ethnic guy, you really only have 2 choices.
1. Max out everything about yourself and go for white women who, after you have made yourself a quality guy, will give you a chance.
2. Go for black women who are less choosy and often very open to going for men of other races. I am not into black women myself and haven't known many ethnic men (other than latinos) that were, also not the type to force men to go for women they aren't into as opposed to some guys on here.
Everything in-between is not an option because those women in the west either want to desperately find a white mate, or will leave you on the drop of the dime the second an opportunity comes along, or they want to be cool and hip by going for black guys. Assimilated ethnic men have no option but to go for black or white women because ethnic women in North America are so self-hating.
We've heard it countless times to where everyone is sick and tired of ethnic guys going after white women, how can they get their nasty darker hands on them, but lets talk about the other side of it....
They often tell you
Why not go for hot girls of your own race.
Now if you're chasing FOBish girls, maybe that is an option but for those of us who grew up in western culture and actually like speaking English, enjoying the culture we are in, and assimilating into the society; we can't date hot girls of our own race who have done the same.
I mean it is a running stereotype among Asian American women that if they are assimilated into western society, they're going to go for white guys. In fact from my own experience, Asian American women are even harsher on Asian men than white American women are, although some out-dated online dating studies will say otherwise.
And it isn't just Asian men in the west facing this issue either.
I notice that other than white men and black men, all other men face this issue. Pretty sure that @skinnyguy can attest to the fact that Indian girls out in California are the same as Asian girls, they hate men of their own race.
For a while I thought Middle Eastern men were immune to it, not after being in Southern California. Almost all the Persian girls you see who have assimilated into western culture are either going for white guys or pulling a Kim Kardashian and going black.
Latino guys face the same thing too as latinas go interracial at rates just as high as Asian women.
But it baffles me that because the heavily white pickup culture benefits from ethnic women, no one has an issue here yet everyone loses their mind when ethnic men want to go for white women.
So as an ethnic guy, you really only have 2 choices.
1. Max out everything about yourself and go for white women who, after you have made yourself a quality guy, will give you a chance.
2. Go for black women who are less choosy and often very open to going for men of other races. I am not into black women myself and haven't known many ethnic men (other than latinos) that were, also not the type to force men to go for women they aren't into as opposed to some guys on here.
Everything in-between is not an option because those women in the west either want to desperately find a white mate, or will leave you on the drop of the dime the second an opportunity comes along, or they want to be cool and hip by going for black guys. Assimilated ethnic men have no option but to go for black or white women because ethnic women in North America are so self-hating.
