Escaping the trap of unwated women

[HollowHorizon]

I know this girl that i have been friends with for a few years(dated once in the past) she invited me to hang out a skating rink so i agreed to go and hang out for the simple fact i have not seen her in a while. I hung out with her and at the end of the night she asked for a kiss and i kissed her(i diden't want to but i did to save her embarrasment and a kick to her pride) I feel this girl wants me but i only want to be platonic. Now i have met this girl during that same week who i am very intrested in and the feeling is mutual (a hb-9) Now this girl works at the same sk8ting rink and might i add it has a club in it (where we met) She is going to be their this friday and so is the other girl. Now i dont wish to be inturupted in trieng to put my dj skills to work. Obvious that the girl i had previously dated likes me and i will tell her before friday that i know what she wants from me but i do not feel the same. Even if i proceede in that manner she may still try to get my attention or lure me into her direction relationship wise.I may be asked to skate in the couples moonlight with her(where they play 2 songs and a guy and girl holds hands while sk8ting)Now i explained my situation to the girl i am pursuing and she says she has been in the same position but no real advice but i know she understands me.I do not wish to be going back and forth on this special sk8 with 2 different girls nor i do not want the one i am intrested in to think of me as a player or just plain feel bad none the less be jelous (even tho that could be a good thing but not in my situation) So should i avoid the whole situation and not go? Should i not sk8 a couples moonlight with the friend i percive as to be platonic? Should i ignore the one girl and pay my attention to the one of my intrest and watch her heart cruble to the ground...I know what i want but i am only human and one person at that. Even if i am getting what i want the sheer thought of heartbreak over me is very stressful

Fellow Don Juans Give Me Some Positive Suggestions Please!

 

[ScrewIt]

is a chick you're probably gonna date awhile then next is more important than a friend?

as my friend always says, friends will be more important in the end. friendship takes time to build. cchicks you will find on any corner of the street. if you think you can pull this off w/her crumbling her heart, then i'd say go for it. if u dont think you can then i suggest not to.

my friend hooked up w/his friend's girlfriend. the friendship crumbled, now his ex-friend. but he says it didnt matter cause she was a *****. and his gf is also a ***** to which he's planning to dump.

so if u wanna ruin a friendship i'd say go for it.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Sounds good to me

 

[HollowHorizon]

Can anyone help me out here?

 

[absolutealex]

Flip it on the girl you dont like, girls want what they cant have. So, why not be what all women "want" and watch how fast she runs.

 

[dcfball]

yeah i do that sometimes... except i dont get all weird on chicks when i dont have the heart to next them, i just get mad scrubbed out... make lots of excuses for not hanging out, go to hang out with them blazed as shiit, talk about getting hammerred with my boys and doing something stupid..... you know whatever immature **** you gotta do to make her not want to talk to you anymore

the first time i did this was with this chick i was ****ing for like 3 weeks...i hadnt talked to her in like 3 days because i wa sbusy... i come home one day and the ***** is waiting for me outside my house...wow that was weird.. i was a total scrub from there on out

 

[HollowHorizon]

Yeah but of course i do not want to make my self a liar. I want to be honest about it becuse i know how i am once i start to lie then i become a majior liar and i will lie to the hb-9 and she can smell a phoney from a mile away