“Lets just be friends”…”I like you but not that way”…”I can’t, this might ruin our friendship”. Yesterday I wrote about how to prevent getting into the friend zone.
But what if you’re already in there and want a way out? Are you doomed to always be her big brother? What it really boils down to is if you think the chance of being with her is worth losing her friendship, because that will happen if it doesn’t work out. If you think it’s worth it, then read on…
I think the secret to escaping the friend zone is to have HER make the move. Hard to imagine it happening when she keeps talking about other guys and loves what a great friend you are right? The problem is most men tell her their feelings before she has developed any attraction towards him. This is wrong and is the surest way towards “Let’s just be friends.” Instead you have to make her feel attractions towards you, until it gets to a point where you BOTH want it. What can you do to make her view you as more than just a friend?
* Date other Women -Not only should you date other women, but feel free to talk about them in front of her. It will trigger her jealous reactions and when other women are interested in you, it makes you more attractive.
* Initiate physical contact -The Art of Kino is one of the womanizer’s most powerful weapons. You have to be comfortable touching her, and she has to be comfortable with it if you’re both going to go to the next level. Hug each other if already don’t, put your arm around her when she’s cold, etc. The key is you have to work slowly and build up. If you move too fast she’ll activate her “creepy” mechanisms hehe.
* Be around less - The best thing you can ever give a woman, is the gift of missing you. The less you’re around, the more she’ll start thinking about what you’re up to.
* Start treating her like a girlfriend - If you treat her like a friend, she’ll treat you like a friend. Once you start treating her more like a girlfriend, she’ll start wondering what it would be like to be your girlfriend. Instead of hanging out in groups, start spending time with her alone. Look at her different and build up the tension
My Experiences
When I didn’t understand women I use to get friend zoned a lot. I always went for it before I beleived that rejection is better than regret. Also when one woman is constantly occupying your mind, it’s not good for you. You can either stay there and be unhappy, or do something about it.
What it all boils down to is having a lack of options, that’s what usually causes us to “fall” for our friends. Now that I’ve become better at women, I’m never interested in my female friends anymore. I have more options and most of the time, it’s worth having female friends.
But what if you’re already in there and want a way out? Are you doomed to always be her big brother? What it really boils down to is if you think the chance of being with her is worth losing her friendship, because that will happen if it doesn’t work out. If you think it’s worth it, then read on…
I think the secret to escaping the friend zone is to have HER make the move. Hard to imagine it happening when she keeps talking about other guys and loves what a great friend you are right? The problem is most men tell her their feelings before she has developed any attraction towards him. This is wrong and is the surest way towards “Let’s just be friends.” Instead you have to make her feel attractions towards you, until it gets to a point where you BOTH want it. What can you do to make her view you as more than just a friend?
* Date other Women -Not only should you date other women, but feel free to talk about them in front of her. It will trigger her jealous reactions and when other women are interested in you, it makes you more attractive.
* Initiate physical contact -The Art of Kino is one of the womanizer’s most powerful weapons. You have to be comfortable touching her, and she has to be comfortable with it if you’re both going to go to the next level. Hug each other if already don’t, put your arm around her when she’s cold, etc. The key is you have to work slowly and build up. If you move too fast she’ll activate her “creepy” mechanisms hehe.
* Be around less - The best thing you can ever give a woman, is the gift of missing you. The less you’re around, the more she’ll start thinking about what you’re up to.
* Start treating her like a girlfriend - If you treat her like a friend, she’ll treat you like a friend. Once you start treating her more like a girlfriend, she’ll start wondering what it would be like to be your girlfriend. Instead of hanging out in groups, start spending time with her alone. Look at her different and build up the tension
My Experiences
When I didn’t understand women I use to get friend zoned a lot. I always went for it before I beleived that rejection is better than regret. Also when one woman is constantly occupying your mind, it’s not good for you. You can either stay there and be unhappy, or do something about it.
What it all boils down to is having a lack of options, that’s what usually causes us to “fall” for our friends. Now that I’ve become better at women, I’m never interested in my female friends anymore. I have more options and most of the time, it’s worth having female friends.
oh and getting out of the friendszone falls under the long term seduction.. so spin plates
