Sex is great isn't it? I've heard a lot of comments ranging on sex from "Its amazing" to "Its slightly better than masturbation." To the people saying the latter, odds are that they just aren't having good sex. Its no surprise, a lot of guys I know that are having sex are doing 2-3 minute quickies and complain about girls aren't getting into it much. Some have even broken up with them because the sex is bad. I can't claim to be the master but I've done it enough times and perfected it enough to have girls come back despite having nothing at all else in common that we want to do. Refute these claims if you want but for those that aren't sipping the Hatorade and actually want to learn or chip in, here are some tips. Inspired by DIESEL, its kind of straightforward:
- Get it out of your mind that quality sex will happen in 10 minutes or less. Quality sex to me is where both man and woman are really into it. If either side isn't interested, its not quality. Good sex lasts at least 45 minutes.
- Remember, girls will remember and love you for the marathon sessions overnight, not the "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" sessions.
- Foreplay is key. Start off with kissing. Hell I personally don't even like to penetrate until the girl's juices are flowing like Niagara Falls. DO NOT FORGET THE NECK AND EARS. If you want to get the ball rolling quickly, slowly ease one of your hands down to her pu$$y. First just kind of rub it and then slowly move in for the kill. Fingering to me is essential.
- Thanks to society and its messed up views of sexuality, the first time with a girl may be subpar because she thinks its wrong to get into it. So the first time you have to show her that you want her to unleash her innermost femininity.
- If she is wet n' juicy down south, proceed to remove her clothes. For as horny as she is, sex is guaranteed as opposed to some makeout session. Before sex, the key here is assertive yet gentle. Go too much and she'll think she is your **** socket and most ladies won't go for that.
- Begin to play around with her body, kissing, tickling, groping, etc. Her body is your personal playground. This is where the sex begins to get really fun.
- Keep doing this until she wants to you penetrate her. Make her beg for the c0ck. She needs it in her life (to quote Juvenile) but don't give in at first. The truth is that sex is down to animal, biological urges. You are the dominant man and she is the submissive woman. You do whatever you do on your terms. Never let her boss you around for sex. Why? Because you're a man.
- When you feel ready to, put it in. Be sure its wrapped up (as a safety precaution) Go in slowly but surely. Do whatever you want to do but please, have some real variety. If you do just one position, its no good.
- Now here is where you mix it up. If you want to pepper her ass with handslaps, do so. If you want to play games and have her admit that she is a *** gargling slut that wants your penis more than life itself, do so. The problem with too many people is that they do gentle, courtesty f**ks that pretty much do nothing for the woman. You need to pound her...hard.
- Make that back jiggle. If you hit it from the back, a normal girl (bf 12-16%) will still have a small amount of fat on the back. While pounding her from the back, if you don't see a "fat shockwave" going through her back, YOU'RE NOT GOING HARD ENOUGH. Make sure her tits are swinging pendulum style.
- If she's on top, her boobs have got to bounce. Unless she has A's, if they're not bouncing up and down, she's not going faster. Yell at her to go faster. You are the aggressive man. SOFT FVCKS ARE NOT ALLOWED...bottom line.
- If you feel like you are going to *** within maybe 15 minutes of the penetration action, pull out and press the tip of your penis in. It might help to masturbate before sex. Sometimes you can just maybe fingerbang the girl while pinching the tip so you can last more time.
- Variety is key. Look up various positions but remember, you are in charge. Don't ask politely if you want to switch, do it. You are in complete control of her. I suggest you utilize at least four different positions for at least 5-10 minutes each. More is definitely better but definitely not less. I think the problem is that people are just stuck doing missionary or doggystyle which will get boring after a while.
- If you do not feel that you can last any longer, pull out and have her either suck it out of you or handjob it. I've always believed in this because it is her job to please you. If you are really into it and she is having the orgasm of the millenium, she will be more than glad to do it.
- When you are done, just don't get up and leave. The after-sex makeout session is very much vital. Even though she was basically your temporary sex slave, doing this can pretty much mean that you really meant it. Of course you should tickle, fondle, and grope. Its pretty much encouraged.
Thats pretty much the breakdown of sex to me. I've thought of these ideas for months and over time and I'd say close to 70-75 times, I've improved on it and had success with this every time. Now here are the Do and Do Not Do of activity:
DO NOT use cheesy lines when banging the girl. Call your penis a c0ck or a d1ck, not Mr. Happy or the happy rod or whatever. Please for the love of all things holy do not say, "Who's Your Daddy?"
DO utilize the give/take theory. Sometimes she'll tell you she wants to handcuff you. Sometimes we all have to do stuff we don't like 100% to make everything great. However you have to have some kind of idea of sex (like anal) and make a trade of sorts. However make sure you go first because she can do her thing and then not give it up afterwards.
DO change it up each time. If you DJ'd her with mystery, surprise, and aggressiveness, then you need to act this way in the sack. There are scores of positions to do, just look them up online if you want some ideas. She will appreciate it and I'm sure you will too.
DO NOT brag to your friends about it. I know it sucks but the truth is, people's views on sex are warped and most people will think less of her and she'll be pissed at you which means a decrease of action. Keep it to yourself. You want her to have a grace of dignity when she's done so she'll be more and more into it as time progresses.
That is all. Have fun!
- Get it out of your mind that quality sex will happen in 10 minutes or less. Quality sex to me is where both man and woman are really into it. If either side isn't interested, its not quality. Good sex lasts at least 45 minutes.
- Remember, girls will remember and love you for the marathon sessions overnight, not the "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" sessions.
- Foreplay is key. Start off with kissing. Hell I personally don't even like to penetrate until the girl's juices are flowing like Niagara Falls. DO NOT FORGET THE NECK AND EARS. If you want to get the ball rolling quickly, slowly ease one of your hands down to her pu$$y. First just kind of rub it and then slowly move in for the kill. Fingering to me is essential.
- Thanks to society and its messed up views of sexuality, the first time with a girl may be subpar because she thinks its wrong to get into it. So the first time you have to show her that you want her to unleash her innermost femininity.
- If she is wet n' juicy down south, proceed to remove her clothes. For as horny as she is, sex is guaranteed as opposed to some makeout session. Before sex, the key here is assertive yet gentle. Go too much and she'll think she is your **** socket and most ladies won't go for that.
- Begin to play around with her body, kissing, tickling, groping, etc. Her body is your personal playground. This is where the sex begins to get really fun.
- Keep doing this until she wants to you penetrate her. Make her beg for the c0ck. She needs it in her life (to quote Juvenile) but don't give in at first. The truth is that sex is down to animal, biological urges. You are the dominant man and she is the submissive woman. You do whatever you do on your terms. Never let her boss you around for sex. Why? Because you're a man.
- When you feel ready to, put it in. Be sure its wrapped up (as a safety precaution) Go in slowly but surely. Do whatever you want to do but please, have some real variety. If you do just one position, its no good.
- Now here is where you mix it up. If you want to pepper her ass with handslaps, do so. If you want to play games and have her admit that she is a *** gargling slut that wants your penis more than life itself, do so. The problem with too many people is that they do gentle, courtesty f**ks that pretty much do nothing for the woman. You need to pound her...hard.
- Make that back jiggle. If you hit it from the back, a normal girl (bf 12-16%) will still have a small amount of fat on the back. While pounding her from the back, if you don't see a "fat shockwave" going through her back, YOU'RE NOT GOING HARD ENOUGH. Make sure her tits are swinging pendulum style.
- If she's on top, her boobs have got to bounce. Unless she has A's, if they're not bouncing up and down, she's not going faster. Yell at her to go faster. You are the aggressive man. SOFT FVCKS ARE NOT ALLOWED...bottom line.
- If you feel like you are going to *** within maybe 15 minutes of the penetration action, pull out and press the tip of your penis in. It might help to masturbate before sex. Sometimes you can just maybe fingerbang the girl while pinching the tip so you can last more time.
- Variety is key. Look up various positions but remember, you are in charge. Don't ask politely if you want to switch, do it. You are in complete control of her. I suggest you utilize at least four different positions for at least 5-10 minutes each. More is definitely better but definitely not less. I think the problem is that people are just stuck doing missionary or doggystyle which will get boring after a while.
- If you do not feel that you can last any longer, pull out and have her either suck it out of you or handjob it. I've always believed in this because it is her job to please you. If you are really into it and she is having the orgasm of the millenium, she will be more than glad to do it.
- When you are done, just don't get up and leave. The after-sex makeout session is very much vital. Even though she was basically your temporary sex slave, doing this can pretty much mean that you really meant it. Of course you should tickle, fondle, and grope. Its pretty much encouraged.
Thats pretty much the breakdown of sex to me. I've thought of these ideas for months and over time and I'd say close to 70-75 times, I've improved on it and had success with this every time. Now here are the Do and Do Not Do of activity:
DO NOT use cheesy lines when banging the girl. Call your penis a c0ck or a d1ck, not Mr. Happy or the happy rod or whatever. Please for the love of all things holy do not say, "Who's Your Daddy?"
DO utilize the give/take theory. Sometimes she'll tell you she wants to handcuff you. Sometimes we all have to do stuff we don't like 100% to make everything great. However you have to have some kind of idea of sex (like anal) and make a trade of sorts. However make sure you go first because she can do her thing and then not give it up afterwards.
DO change it up each time. If you DJ'd her with mystery, surprise, and aggressiveness, then you need to act this way in the sack. There are scores of positions to do, just look them up online if you want some ideas. She will appreciate it and I'm sure you will too.
DO NOT brag to your friends about it. I know it sucks but the truth is, people's views on sex are warped and most people will think less of her and she'll be pissed at you which means a decrease of action. Keep it to yourself. You want her to have a grace of dignity when she's done so she'll be more and more into it as time progresses.
That is all. Have fun!