Equal amount of attention for sex?

ER!C L!VE

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This is uncharted territory for any of my circle of friends locally, so I come to you.

Alright, so I’ve been going for and banging young hotties. (18-20 year olds)

They seem to think that they can fvck me once every month and I’ll be happy as shyt. I’ve found that they like to chat/text -- ALOT. I don’t care much for talking endlessly about stupid shyt -- I just wanna fvck them.

After they fvck me, they’ll want to talk with me every day 20+ minutes or text message every day after that until they’re ready to give up the poosey again. They act like I “hate” them if I don’t return their call or talk to them back via text. I believe that young girls are flighty and are quick to 'break up' with a guy if he pisses her off enough. That means, no poosey for Eric and that makes me sad..

I can understand that they’re used to young guys talking to them and expecting nothing in return, so basically, their reality is that guys love talking to girls just to talk.

This ritual of talking forever almost seems like it’s part of the deal if you’re an older guy banging young, hot, fairly well educated GIRLS =\

My question is, how can I get an equal amount of sex for the amount of attention that I give them? (phone, text, emails)

Here are some of my ideas that I've been using..

1. Tell them to keep their actions and words congruent ( no teasing )
2. Tell them that I’ll make them happy if they make me happy (trade attention for sex )

I’m thinking that this needs to be verbalized smoothly so that they understand that I will talk with them more if they fvck me more….or something along those lines.

I'd love to hear some experiences from you older bros who have delt with the much much younger biotches.

Thanks!

Eric
 

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Eric,
I understand exactly what your talking about.

Consider the girls you're dealing with. These girls are basically children, relatively speaking. Very cute, oh, so desirable, and so manipulatable. For MOST girls of this age range, they haven't yet fully developed their sense of self. They are seeking your attentions to affirm in their minds that they didn't make a mistake when they gave up the booty to you. Most of these girls are basing their self esteem on their assessment of their own attractiveness. They do this assessment daily. When they feel low, they seek to communicate with a great guy to affirm/confirm that they must be worthy human beings, or else they wouldn't have been able to get you to chat with them.

What you are experiencing is a good problem to have. At least you're getting some. The only way I know to get more and talk less is to communicate more efficiently. When you see them, let them know that you are busy and that you won't always have time for them, just because they're in the midst of a long drive.

Consider telling them that you prefer to talk in person, as you feel that certain nuances are lost in text, whereas in text messages and such, meanings can be misconstrued because you can't readily express intonation and pitch in a chat room.

Other than that, try dating a girl over 23. Most are still very attractive and don't need to hang all over a guy to feel worthwhile.
 

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First off, you should seem to be to busy most of the time to chat forever on the phone in the first place. Let em leave you some messages and wait for you to return the call at YOUR conveniance
and don't talk for an hour just because they want to or because your bangin them. Your the boss so set the tone. Only talk for no more than 10 minutes and then you have something to do. Tell them you'll talk more when you see them next and then get the hell off the phone. DO NOT become one of their girlfriends or phone buddies and sh*t.
 

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idea no.2 is pimpin'

they give you sex , you give them some " quality time "

so now you gotta work out the wording of the contract ?


To quote a resident pimp on this site Player_Supreme

It's called a contract. In all relatiionships that you develop either you accept her contract or she will accept yours.

The contract are the rules of engagement.

If she wants to hang out then she must pay.

She will try the old fashioned thing that if you want to get laid then you must pay. And that is her contract.



i let chicks know the G O ( lol i sound it out to them ) i tell them they gotta be down with my program

my program = i get what i want = they get quality time with me

they try any $hit i just tell them to call me back WHEN ( is only a matter of time ) they want to have FUN

sometimes i might not get a call back for 2 weeks. but 90% call back telling me they are now down with my program. ( got a shock the other day, a chick i never thought would call back did and asked to hook up )

even chicks with boyfriends that i hit up call back.

make sure you have lots of chicks running through this rise cycle so by the time the first lot from 2 weeks ago wake up to themselves you already got other ho's online to go.

this is of course in conjuction to other pimpin' operations that a DJ runs. translated that means this is the program for b*tches who try and make lame excuses to take control of me and the dominance in the relationship.

Have FUN with it,

Pimpin' Ain't Easy :D


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I agree with you guys, however, doesn't their young age play into the equation?

I can see an older girl 24+ being down with the whole program thing, but is it the same for the younger girls?

I don't want to blow this girl out just b/c she's not buying into my contract. I'm still getting sex from her, just not very frequently.

I have stuff cooking on the side too.

Alright, I'll give it a shot and see how it goes.
 

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ok i am 25.

my b*tches range between 16 - 23. ( legal age is 16 in Australia so no flames please )

ALL women understand what a contract is.

i am not saying USE the word contract LOL.

women give guys sex in exchange for.......marraige , security , kids

ok stay with me now. you are doing the same.

you are giving them YOUR TIME in exchange for = *.........*

sex , money , use of her dads audi turbo sports car while he is away overseas at a golf tournament *sigh*, WHATEVER

comprendo ?

the only difference is because YOU are the person in charge

YOU decide the contract

our society today teaches us that women decide the contract

you are flipping the script because you are A MAN

an endagered species

i noticed above you said you got one ho.... your original post made me think you had MANY

having many is a position of power cause you really don't care if they try and act up to quote a fellow dj's sig.

" i don't chase them i replace them " - Notorius B.I.G

somehow the sense you don't care, AND THEY COME CRAWLING BACK ( my down time for ho flaking averages 2 weeks )

you need to get alot more chicks in your timetable bro

1 chick for you = sex 1 x per month

10 chicks for you = sex 10 x per month

you will find that 10 chicks will actually multiply the end result due to the changes it will have upon you in that you will come across as a pimp, they can sense this and want you more, sense competition etc etc...

i have chicks who are regulars

i have chicks who are once a month

i have chicks for booty calls on tap

you need to get a mix happening so you are covered

i have a rule where i try and keep it at about 10

3 of each and a new 1

if it goes down i meet and convert a few more

if it goes up i become a little more choosey

oneitis is a deadly heart condition AVOID IT


Good Luck :D

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I was in the same shoes. One girl in her 18-20s is not enough to satisfy a guy. They have school, work nights, and like to hang out with their friends, etc. You on the other hand I assume work all day and have nights to do whatever(or whoever) you want. So there is a timetable conflict.

Women in their late 20s are different. They work days just like we do, and have nights off to do whatever they want. I'd prolly go as far to say that a woman in her 28-30s will give you sex more often then two 18 year olds combined.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
I was in the same shoes. One girl in her 18-20s is not enough to satisfy a guy. They have school, work nights, and like to hang out with their friends, etc. You on the other hand I assume work all day and have nights to do whatever(or whoever) you want. So there is a timetable conflict.

Women in their late 20s are different. They work days just like we do, and have nights off to do whatever they want. I'd prolly go as far to say that a woman in her 28-30s will give you sex more often then two 18 year olds combined.
I agree. However, I looooooove the young meat.

Filet mignon is so much better than hamburger. :p
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
I noticed above you said you got one ho.... your original post made me think you had MANY
lol I only have 3 regular fvck buddies right now 18, 19, 26. It's just the youngest one is giving me alot of trouble lately. The others seemed to catch on really quick =\ (with a touch of drama, meh..)

I admit that I do have a bit of oneitis for the youngest b/c she's so fvckin hawt. However, that doesn't mean I'm not doing other girls.

There was this other 18 yo 'good girl' who blew me out 'cause she knew I was a player and wouldn't change into a one-woman guy.

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
( my down time for ho flaking averages 2 weeks )
Alright, I'll try the 2 weeks off deal.

Thanks!
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
...Alright, so I’ve been going for and banging young hotties. (18-20 year olds)

They seem to think that they can fvck me once every month and I’ll be happy as shyt. I’ve found that they like to chat/text -- ALOT. I don’t care much for talking endlessly about stupid shyt -- I just wanna fvck them.
I'm not so sure that applies to just younger women. My theory as to why sexual frequency drops off after marriage is that the guys just aren't as willing to listen to all the BS as they were before marriage.
 

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How does a drug dealer turn someone into a drug addict where they are basically a complete servant to that drug? Easy.
Let em get a small taste of your product and they'll do ANYTHING to get some more. You control the supply, they supply the demand, its simple. In other words, always give them something to chase, something that they'll never quite have enough of and that's what will keep a b*tch acting right.
In Mickey Royal's book "The Pimp Game", his analogy was one of a horse with a carrot on a string in front of it. All the horse sees is the carrot and chases it not even realizing that in the process of chasing the carrot it has also plowed the farmer's field for him. The horse is the ho, you're the farmer, and the carrot is whatever that ho is willing to chase based on her needs or desires.
 

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I love young pu$$y too. Here is the deal with young girls (and older ones too), treat them as if they are utterly replaceable. I think of them as completely disposable. If they stay or go, who cares. Once she starts acting crazy stop calling her. Don't hang on just let go. Young chicks are totally crazy, remember they are complete flakes. One minute shes banging you the next shes banging some loser. Then she realizes how much better you are so she trying to get back with you.

I bang em till they don't want to screw any more. No dating no movies no dinner just sex. They start complaining after a little while but who cares, then they go get with some loser. After a few weeks they call back. I just recycle em
 

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Deeds,

That's good stuff, bro.

I'll do that. I'm glad there are bros here with experience with younger girls. Yep yep.. So fvcking flakey. Geeezus...

Another question then, What if they keep calling you after they've stopped acting crazy? Not return their calls/text/emails??
Go for the 2 weeks off?



Cheers!

Eric
 

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" I bang em till they don't want to screw any more. No dating no movies no dinner just sex. They start complaining after a little while but who cares, then they go get with some loser. After a few weeks they call back. I just recycle em "


RESPECT ;)


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Another question then, What if they keep calling you after they've stopped acting crazy? Not return their calls/text/emails??
Go for the 2 weeks off?


lol. eric buddy you don't ignore them for two weeks.

2 weeks is the AVERAGE time it takes for a b*tch to come back to me crawling on her knees.

i was just giving you some real data / statistics to work with to give you some idea.

you will get alot of chicks call you back the next day after they have had time to think about it overnight and realise you are a real man and you are not going to take any of their $hit.

you will get some time wasting trouble making b*tches who won't call you back at all. least we got them out of the way.

most of my full 2 week wait it out type b*tches are the ones with boyfriends or they consider themselves players in the game :)

get lots of names and numbers , throw em all in the mix

most important rule is to have fun with it :D

i went 4 days telling 3 chicks NO for sex. i totally f*cked with their minds, it was so much fun. you know what happened ? they went and told all their friends about this PIMP who turned them down for sex ! what sort of guy does that ? they never heard of a guy saying no to sex lol. now all their friends ring me AHAHAHA !!!!

they know i am a PIMP ;) cause a PIMP is in control




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I'm 33 - I currently have 2 on the go - a 25 and 22 yr old.

A little older than yours.

I'll tell you what works for me.

*) I NEVER pick up their calls - or return their calls in the week before 7PM. I'm a working man - I usually get home around 5:30 - but I don't want them to be on my schedule - I'm busy doing my thing - hitting the gym etc. I don't let them think they can call me whenever they want. Little access is the key for me.

*) I don't use Text message EVER. In my opinion that's kids sh#t. It set's me apart. I'm the man. They will not be able to contact me like they do the other "guys" (I use the term lossely) who are after them/ in their life.


The stuff I do doesn't work on all girls. But I've been successfull and usually get plenty of poon off of the ones that do stay around.


When we go out it's usually ****tail orientated. No matter what, drinking is involved. I take them to dinner occasionaly - and only when I want to go. I usually meet them after 7pm.

When I'm with them it's all about them. Fun. Kino. C&F. you know the deal. But you've got to make it interesting. Different. New. I've found that young chicks (the ones who are going to fvck you often) in my opinion anyway, like to do new and different sh#t. So that maybe as simple as taking them to a new area of the city. Or playing Darts - or taking a bottle of wine to the jacuzzi - or taking her to a jamming session when my friends play down in Hollywood.

But and the key is - Alcohol and fun.


Never let them think that your a slave to their nice tight Poon.

Always let them know (hint) that they can be replaced in a second.

After I've banged them the first time I find it's really very easy to repeat. You've already got the key to the kingdom. I always embrace their sexuality. Kino and feeling them up is key. On the agressive chicks I've found it's easier to play the "I don't give a fvck attitude" and not touch her or give her props for her looks at all. That drives the crazy ones even crazier - and they can't keep their hands off of you.



I think you need to cut down the access they have to you. Screen your calls. Don't pick up or return calls as often.

Once they stop putting out, you stop calling them.

Game over.
 

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Originally posted by NewMan

But and the key is - Alcohol and fun.


Never let them think that your a slave to their nice tight Poon.

Always let them know (hint) that they can be replaced in a second.

I think you need to cut down the access they have to you. Screen your calls. Don't pick up or return calls as often.

Once they stop putting out, you stop calling them.

Game over.
Wow thats all great stuff. I always drink around them, at first. After I bang em once or twice, who cares.

I take almost all calls in front of them. I let them know there are other women in my life. I tell them straight up its none of their business what I do when I'm not with them.

Sometimes I'll play the nice guy role. I'll tell them how pretty they are and all that mushy stuff but only after I've tapped it a few times. Its the reverse AFC role. WHen I want to put a little space between us I get a little AFC. It gives them warm feelings when they start thinking about coming back. I say the nice stuff with my mouth but my actions show I don't really care about her.

When they come back on the rebound, it totally depends on the chick as to how I treat her. I mean if she was great in bed I take her calls. If she sucked then oh well I'll talk to her only when Im desperate. If she was a liar or I just didn't really like her I treat her accordingly.
 

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Another thing, and this is so important to remember, you have to be able to read her change in attitude quickly. Often, it comes very quickly and without warning. I can read them so fast its like I know when they are about to flake before they know they are going to flake. With a very young chick if she changes her pattern of calling you or attending to you, even for one day something is up. If she changes the way she speaks or her enthusiasm about you, there Is either a sh!t test or a major flake approaching quickly.

Because I can spot a flake so quickly, I can cut them off early and make it seem like I knew their mind before they knew what they were thinking. It makes them wonder how you knew what was up. In their mind, they have to come back to understand how you understood them so well. I tell young chicks I know what they are going to do before they know what they are going to do.
 

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Another thing, and this is so important to remember, you have to be able to read her change in attitude quickly. Often, it comes very quickly and without warning.


yes especially these young chicks 16 - 23 years of age.

i see the 17 year old chicks you look into their eyes and it's like you can see little cogs turning as she gets some idea that she can play you LOL.


TALES OF STREET PIMPIN' IN THE LAND OF OZ

i offered an AFC to come with me to pick up a HB8 and HB9 from the local McDonalds as they has just called me asking to see me.

i explained to my AFC wingman ( i took him with me because i felt sorry for him ) as we left my friends house that he was in the presense of a PIMP.

i explained to him that these chick we were going to see WERE PLAYERS and at the slightest sign of AFC behaviour we would lose them.

I told him he must to exactly what i say or else they would sense weakness and flake on us big time.

he said ok.

i told him when we get to McDonalds do not let them in the car UNTIL they agree to do what we want. i told him 3 times don't let them in the car until the contract has been negotiated. he said ok.

we get to Macca's ( Mickey Dee's ) car park the chicks call us from inside and say they are coming out to the car and to let them in straight away because it is cold.

it is cold and yes these b*tches are wearing skirts that look like they aren't wearing skirts lol

this b*tch trys to lay it down on my straight away and take control

i recover quickly from the blow and say when you get to the car we'll talk about what we are going to do *i hang up the phone*

i still have control

they arrive at the car with their arms around their shoulders shivering, putting on the whole act of being cold

i say so ladies what are we doing ?

let us in the car first it's cold

i say NO. tell me what are we doing ? are you still down with what i said on the phone ? *i had told them the G O*

they bent down and looked through my open window to my AFC wingman and said to him " can you tell Lost In Translation to just let us in the car "

i look at my AFC wingman who i had briefed proudly expecting him to say " it's his car i got no say "

instead to my horror he says " umm.... "

the professional player ho's smell BLOOD IN THE WATER

they sense he is AFC

i have a horrified look on my face as i am thinking WTF !!!

i watch the 2 hot b*tches run around to HIS SIDE of the car

they again this time ask HIM to let them in his side

i think to myself i told him under no circumstances are these b*tches allowed in until they agree to our contract

he says to them " i dunno " in a slow dull AFC voice

the HB9 who i had never met before reaches in his window and unlocks the door, she then open his car door

i am sitting there in disbelief, i am a known pimp with the HB8 and this HB9 thinks she can force her way into my car ???

it gets worse....

the AFC wingman starts getting out of the car to allow her to get in.

it's a 2 door car so you gotta fold the front seat forward to allow access to the rear seats.

i look at him in total fu**ing disbelief.

he is AFC. but i told him at least 3 times EXACTLY what to do.

as he gets out i hit his arm. and say " you get out of this fu**ing car and i am fu**ing leaving you here " in a voice that is very threatening

he stops, the girls have him half out of the car and it will look too suss if i kick up a fuss.

fu** it they won.

ok ladies jump in :(

i ended up KICKING them out of my car 20 minutes later because the HB9 had two long phone calls and insisted i keep the music off while she was on the phone ( i have a very loud sound system ) my HB8 kept telling me not to get angry but i stopped the car and told her " either get off the phone or get the fu** out of my car "

after she did it a second time she got booted out :D

the HB8 apologised and we still cool.

none of this would have happened if my wingman had listened to me.

i told you guys this story to show about young b*tches flaking FAST. both were 17 years old.

if they see the slightest sign of AFC watch them flake. alot of them even assume you AFC because there are so few real men out there and they are so used to having their way they assume they can play you.

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STORY No.2

boy do they get a shock when i verbally slap them off their pedalstool.

another incident i had 5 chicks and 2 AFC wingmen ( it was their ho's so i had no choice lol ) and 2 trips in my car back to where these ho's lived 5 minutes drive from McDonalds.

on the way back one of the girls who didn't know me told me to shutup.

i said to her " what the fu** did you just say ? "

she said it's ok i'm a b*tch i say it to everyone ( women think they can get away with anything these days )

i say " you don't talk to me like that, you tell me to shut up again and you can get the fu** out of my car ! "

i turn and look at her, one minute she is a hard b*tch now....

i see the fear in her eyes

i always throw on alittle "scary mode" for the b*tches i verbally slap. i give them the whole "thousand yard stare".

infront of her friends muhahaha. NOW I GOT RESPECT. i am no AFC.

BOW DOWN B*TCHES ! YOU IN THE PRESENSE OF A PIMP !




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