Entitlement, Frame control and Sh*t tests

[The Mad Ghost]

This sportfvcking college-girl is constantly applying sh*t tests from a far. I've known her since I've been on and off with my girlfriend. If anything, she's just a chick I wanted to bone whilst I was in a relationship. So I keep her around, I only send a few texts here and there, bit of phone chat and meet a few times. Haven't had sex yet, but have insinuated it. So I know, I'm not in the friendzone. If anything, she should worry about being FZ'ed.

She constantly tries to switch the frame controls to her, but in an innocent way. Her lastest test tonight, was calling me 3AM in the morning, made sure she was at a party and said I'm here with some of your colleagues. Now, take careful consideration of the words, her tone was also, like. ''Ha Ha, I'm out partying, and I feel entitlement because I'm getting attention and I happen to see some guys who you work with''. You know that, out-of-breath tone, trying to call you out.

Sally calls at 3AM: Conversation

Sally: "OMG, I'm with some guys who work for your company''
Mad Ghost: "Dude, WTF, it's 3AM"
Sally: (She shouts over at some guy and says, do you know Mad Ghost?"
Mad Ghost: WTF.
Sally: He said he knows you Mad Ghost, do you know Jake and so and so
Sally: He says he works for X. (reference about me to whoever shes talking to)
Mad Ghost: What is this?
Sally: Are these like your PEOPLE?
Sally: (Phone hangs up)

Recieved text message.

Sally: ''Sorry, I'll you tommorow x ''

Now, this is the second week, she's done this crap. The other time, she texted me saying, "I met a cage fighter tonight x" Because I had told her, I practice MMA/Cage Fighting. I have told her, I'm in a relationship and I just chat to her like she's a little girl. Maybe this is fvcking with her ego, I don't know.

Little stuff like this is annoying, because she's trying her best to validate herself to me. But, I'm not buying it and she's seen my ex-girlfriend and has commented on how beautiful she is. The other time, she called me up, saying how drunk she was and was just talking a lot of poop. Then, surpringly, the phone hangs up, with her trying to make me ring back or text, like the typical chump would. But I don't. And she keeps trying it.

We usually have a good relationship, in terms of compatability and humour. But tonight, I had to show her how it was, I said "Don't call me unless you're in town/my city" Now I'm not sure how this came across, do you think it made me reactive to the situation, upset and angry at her or do you think it was just showing signs of indifference and that she is unimportant?

My intentions for it rally towards the latter, she texted back saying.

"Are you serious?", then 5 mins later she says "Well you're just a d*ck then". I haven't replied.

What would be the intentions of a girl calling and texting you RANDOMLY when shes only ever at parties or in a noise polluted environment? Everytime, I've called her, during a weekday in the evening, she doesn't pick up and texts me right back saying ''She's in with the family watching a movie, i'll call you back x'' and doesn't?

This crap ticks me off,

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Mad Ghost. Why are you even entertaining that crap? Dumb phone calls or texts I don't even answer. If I pick up and it's stupidity I just say: "I'll call you tomorrow. Bye." And I don't respond to silly texts after. They'll get the message that you aren't some chump that way. And if she goes on her merry way? Who cares? You are talking to MULTIPLE other girls no?

 

[The Mad Ghost]

Mad Ghost. Why are you even entertaining that crap? Dumb phone calls or texts I don't even answer. If I pick up and it's stupidity I just say: "I'll call you tomorrow. Bye." And I don't respond to silly texts after. They'll get the message that you aren't some chump that way. And if she goes on her merry way? Who cares? You are talking to MULTIPLE other girls no?

Its like she has a sensor for when I'm about to say

If I pick up and it's stupidity I just say: "I'll call you tomorrow. Bye."

Seriously. She has some force field of knowing when I'm about to call BULLSHYT and just hang up, so she finds some exterior excuse to hang up before me, somehow the phone goes down or whatever. Then the grand finale of texts start rolling in.

You know what, I don't entertain it. She catches me off guard, randomly. When I think she is calling, I think, cool, shes not on campus and she's in town. We'll go out and do something OR watch a DVD at mine, whatever. But what happens, is, we schedule something over the phone and it never comes to plan, I blame this on my part mainly. Not hers.

Last time she's texted me saying to pick her up from the train station, RANDOMLY again and I accepted, but didn't show up. She said she was bored at campus and wanted to do something. Thats how our relationship is. Plan to fail. In the back of my mind, I know I can see her anytime, but her college is miles away from me and shes invited me over to her dorm. Its just on me to make the trip.

But in the meanwhile, Ninja. I shouldn't have to get random calls about her exploits in noise polluted environments at 3AM, what is her agenda for that? And why does she text random stuff, which ends up about something to do with me or what I do? Last week it was the cage fighters theme and tonight it's my workplace company theme. Is there some hidden subliminals behind this? We do speak properly, but very rarely, its either text-conversations or nothing, or her calling ME, when she's at parties.

And yes, I'm talking to other hotter college girls too. If she never calls or texts back, then theres not alot I can do about that. I've already shown her, by my text, that she can be discarded. If she texts me, then I proceed to phonecall, then she doesn't pick up and says shes in the livign rom with family? Then, she'll call me 2 days later when I'm at work or in college, this time when I can't openly have a conversation and she takes advantage of that, so to speak and doesn't want to get off the phone. Thats exactly how it is.