Entitled Women On Online Dating

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Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
 

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Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
Surprised??? I'm not.
 

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Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
Yeah, even when you actually DO get a response, get a little excited inside, they tend to make the conversation difficult...almost as if it's being done on purpose,

She's thinking, "Okay, I'll answer for the sake of answering, but if he continues to talk to me...I'll be so short with him in my responses, I won't even have to reject him...he'll just leave me alone."
 

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They do that to you face to face, imagine how they can do it sitting behind a machine, kilometers far away from you.
 

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Find a random internet picture of a woman HB6-7, then make a profile on OLD. Watch how many hits you get the first day...

Even the average women get bombarded with men on OLD, thereby giving them this sense that they actually are worth something. If they were actually hot and level headed, they likely wouldn't even try OLD because guys are hitting on them all the time.

OLD allows ugly women to get the same amount of attention as hot women do in real life.
 

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My input is "men" need to stop bitching and moaning about **** like this

If you are hard up for female company and have had to resort to online dating and then you are getting rejected by average bitches on there it's probably time to do some self improvement.

or you could just ****ing moan about it

They are entitled because they have options

you are pissed because you dont

raise your game so that you do

The. End.
 

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My input is "men" need to stop bitching and moaning about **** like this

If you are hard up for female company and have had to resort to online dating and then you are getting rejected by average bitches on there it's probably time to do some self improvement.

or you could just ****ing moan about it

They are entitled because they have options

you are pissed because you dont

raise your game so that you do

The. End.
Dude, get off your high horse.
 

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Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
It's the direct result of unlimited attention and options. Period.
 

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Find a random internet picture of a woman HB6-7, then make a profile on OLD. Watch how many hits you get the first day...

Even the average women get bombarded with men on OLD, thereby giving them this sense that they actually are worth something. If they were actually hot and level headed, they likely wouldn't even try OLD because guys are hitting on them all the time.

OLD allows ugly women to get the same amount of attention as hot women do in real life.
This. Women are simply bombarded with attention, it's hard not to feel entitled.
 

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My input is "men" need to stop bitching and moaning about **** like this

If you are hard up for female company and have had to resort to online dating and then you are getting rejected by average bitches on there it's probably time to do some self improvement.

or you could just ****ing moan about it

They are entitled because they have options

you are pissed because you dont

raise your game so that you do

The. End.
Nobody is bitching here, isnt this a community for improvement ?.. I was asking for advice and if anyone experienced the same and can relate to it.

You seem more bitchy than what you think that I am.
 

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Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
The problem is most girls on dating sites do not want to date. They want attention. They use the dating sites to put their face and image out there to make themselves feel important and wanted.

It gives them power and boost their egos to know how easy it is to post in a pic of themselves standing in front of a mirror in a bikini with stupid duck lips, and within hours 50 to 100 guys will tell them how hot they are and literary beg them for a date.

Men want sex. Women want attention.
Women get the same satisfaction in their brain chemestry by getting flooded with attention from multiple guys. They get put on a pedistle and they haven't even agreed to one date yet.

So imagine how after a decade of this type of behaviour, imagine how detrimental this is to the dating world. Women are already pedestalized before they say yes to one date.

Women get endorphins from the attention they receive. This is why they don't care and this is why they ignore most men. Most of them arent interest in dating. They are only after attention and they are getting it.

The way to fix this is for guys to stop using inline dating. This works the same as the NC Challenge. When you starve them from what they crave the most it puts them off of their game.
 

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Online dating is to women what free brothels would be to men.
The very basic need is satisfied so for the extras you could afford to be picky.
Would you bother dating a 7 if you could fvck a 9 for free anytime you want even if she is not yours?

We need companionship as much as they need sex but the urge itself without the rest (sex for us, attention/validation for them) is not enough to make you work too much for it.
 

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Nobody is bitching here, isnt this a community for improvement ?.. I was asking for advice and if anyone experienced the same and can relate to it.

You seem more bitchy than what you think that I am.
Inferno's just a troll, pay him no mind. He's doing what's completely contrary to what this message board is meant for. He's attempting to derail the topic.
 

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Online dating is to women what free brothels would be to men.
The very basic need is satisfied so for the extras you could afford to be picky.
Would you bother dating a 7 if you could fvck a 9 for free anytime you want even if she is not yours?

We need companionship as much as they need sex but the urge itself without the rest (sex for us, attention/validation for them) is not enough to make you work too much for it.
You know, this suggests women get what they want without getting physical or even face time with a man...while man, they need real face time, in-person relations. i Wonder how women can be satisfied with an online presence alone without the physical?
 

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You know, this suggests women get what they want without getting physical or even face time with a man...while man, they need real face time, in-person relations. i Wonder how women can be satisfied with an online presence alone without the physical?
I didnt say that they are totally satisfied I meant that they get most of what they need but not all.
As much as a man getting free sex in a brothel would still miss many things but his main crave would be filled, his needs would be filled enough for him not going out of his way to reach the others.

Lets say you eat a steak at home but you have no fruit, would you drive to the supermarket just for the fruit?
You still want the fruit but once you got the main dish, the steak your drive to eat more is not strong enough to push you to make an effort.
 

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OLD has jumped the shark so to speak. When it first came out it was great because people were using it because they wanted to be part of the phenomena of online dating. Now, it has reverted to its natural form, which is an ego validation for women who typically have issues in the real world.

Why fish in an ocean that has many mutated and mercury laden fish when you can filter out the fish you get to avoid most of the tainted ones.
 

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You know, this suggests women get what they want without getting physical or even face time with a man...while man, they need real face time, in-person relations. i Wonder how women can be satisfied with an online presence alone without the physical?
Endorphins. Validation gives them the attention they seek and this gives them the endorphins they crave.

Most chicks already have a bf outside of their online profile and they use their OLD for attention.
 
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