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Enormous oneitis-blocks

anonymous12345

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There is this HB that I want to be validated by, she’s busy, and I find it humiliating to settle for the left overs, to the degree I’m indifferent to them.

That’s a trait of me, I seem to be extremely monogamous and oneitis-ish. Have been my whole life. I don’t simp behaviourally, know the perishes of it and how destructive it is for me (Tomassi, etc). But mentally I get blocked by these oneitises, and I of course don’t manage to land them either, most likely because of this.

What to do?

My answer is that the problem is that I want to be validated by these “princesses”, it’s a self-esteem issue.
 

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If ur one-itis rejects u, find a better, hotter, younger one-intis. She will probably reject u too, but if you keep this up, eventually u just might land something special.
 
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