I have never done a cold approach so I plan to do as many as Ican when there is an opportunity
I realize I have nothing to lose and only ladies to gain.
Rules:
1) If she's alone, or with other girls approach (no dudes with them)
2) I must be attracted to her physically
3) No making up dumb excuses
4) Whenever in a public area, if the opportunity arises, take it
I will approach more than one girl by saying hi, acknowledging what they are doing and the fact that I am interupting, and ask to speak with the girl that I have my eye on. From that point i will introduce myself, ask her name, and depending on the location, ask if she comes often, etc. Just general small talk. I will have a reason to get out of there such as I need to catch up with my buddies, or whatever. From there I will get her number and suggest we grab coffee sometime.
I will be dominant, in control, have confidence, and be a man.
I will be sure about everything I say. I will demonstrate higher value. She's lucky that I am interested in her. She is lucky that I am willing to hang out with her some time.
I will wait a few days after getting her number and call. If she does not answer the first time I call I will delete her number and not try again.
If she doesn't remember me when I call, I must have the wrong number and I will delete it.
If you have any suggestions on any of this, let me know. I may add more as well.
I will put up my approach once I do it.
Please give suggestions, advice, tips, constructive critisism, any input is greatly appreciated.
I realize I have nothing to lose and only ladies to gain.
Rules:
1) If she's alone, or with other girls approach (no dudes with them)
2) I must be attracted to her physically
3) No making up dumb excuses
4) Whenever in a public area, if the opportunity arises, take it
I will approach more than one girl by saying hi, acknowledging what they are doing and the fact that I am interupting, and ask to speak with the girl that I have my eye on. From that point i will introduce myself, ask her name, and depending on the location, ask if she comes often, etc. Just general small talk. I will have a reason to get out of there such as I need to catch up with my buddies, or whatever. From there I will get her number and suggest we grab coffee sometime.
I will be dominant, in control, have confidence, and be a man.
I will be sure about everything I say. I will demonstrate higher value. She's lucky that I am interested in her. She is lucky that I am willing to hang out with her some time.
I will wait a few days after getting her number and call. If she does not answer the first time I call I will delete her number and not try again.
If she doesn't remember me when I call, I must have the wrong number and I will delete it.
If you have any suggestions on any of this, let me know. I may add more as well.
I will put up my approach once I do it.
Please give suggestions, advice, tips, constructive critisism, any input is greatly appreciated.
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