Educated women don't like normal, clean cut men?

[oc16]

Last two women I've been set up with in last six months.

Now, IMHO, getting set up generally doesn't work to begin with, but anyway.....

A.)College educated mid 30s, and hot. Recently divorced, husband was dealing drugs with prescriptions in her name, but she didn't want to leave him because she thought he would change.

She blows me off after two dates.

B.) Very educated mid 30s, relatively hot ( 6.5-7) Former boyfriends all jacked up juiceheads. One guy shoved dog **** shot in her face because he was mad dog pooped in apt/house and she stayed with him.

She blows me off after one date.

Now, I am educated, decent job, tall, fit, full head of hair. I am sophisticated, cultured and look women in the eye when speaking to them. I dress normal and have ZERO tats, piercings or jewelry.

I had decent things in common with both women too.

Do women just find clean cut normal men boring or do too many just have self esteem issues that they are attracted to these apes?

 

[Poon King]

Try dating women in their 20's with less baggage and less experience.

Most women who are single in their 30's are either damaged, repulsive or mentally ill (from my experience). Use them for easy sex during dry spells. Never try to date them, unless you're at least in your 40's.

This is my theory on age compatibility for men and women:

25 year old male = 21 year old female
30 year old male = 25 year old female
35 year old male = 28 year old female
40 year old male = 30 year old female
45 year old male = 35 year old female
50 year old male = 38 year old female
60 year old male = 38 year old female
70 year old male = 38 year old female
80 year old male = 38 year old female
90 year old male = 38 year old female

 

[Bokanovsky]

I don't think you can generalize like that. A woman's level of education is hardly a predictor of anything. In other words, whether a woman likes a guy who is "clean cut" or not does not depend on her level of education.

 

[El Payaso]

I don't think you can generalize like that. A woman's level of education is hardly a predictor of anything. In other words, whether a woman likes a guy who is "clean cut" or not does not depend on her level of education.

This.

 

[sazc]

You cant generalize like that but, really, consider the freaking source! Your A and B came to you with issues!
If I had a date with A and B men who fit that description, I would know on the date that im not the type of female they are going to be attracted to because I dont have a history of issues like that. Seriously! I would be GLAD these two morons weren't attracted to me! It would tell me im doing something VERY right with my life!

Be glad messed up female A and messed up female B found nothing interesting about you. You should be worried when a female has a fvcked up dating history and she is all ABOUT you. If that is the case, please plate that female!

 

[zekko]

50 year old male = 38 year old female
60 year old male = 38 year old female
70 year old male = 38 year old female
80 year old male = 38 year old female
90 year old male = 38 year old female

That's a lot of competition there for those 38 year old women.

 

[Infern0]

No, they just didnt like YOU

these generalizations are coping mechanisms.

Everything you listed about yourself didnt help you get laid did it. So ve honest with yourself and look at the areas you lack in.

I also smell a bit of an ego problem.

 

[9Volt]

Last two women I've been set up with in last six months.

Now, IMHO, getting set up generally doesn't work to begin with, but anyway.....

A.)College educated mid 30s, and hot. Recently divorced, husband was dealing drugs with prescriptions in her name, but she didn't want to leave him because she thought he would change.

She blows me off after two dates.

B.) Very educated mid 30s, relatively hot ( 6.5-7) Former boyfriends all jacked up juiceheads. One guy shoved dog **** shot in her face because he was mad dog pooped in apt/house and she stayed with him.

She blows me off after one date.

Now, I am educated, decent job, tall, fit, full head of hair. I am sophisticated, cultured and look women in the eye when speaking to them. I dress normal and have ZERO tats, piercings or jewelry.

I had decent things in common with both women too.

Do women just find clean cut normal men boring or do too many just have self esteem issues that they are attracted to these apes?

If you are all those things you claim what the hell do you have in common with a chick that's divorced from but won't leave a Walmart pharmacy bootleg El Chapo and another chick with a shyt eating grin that got two girl and one cup'd by some dude who shoved dog crap in her face?

This reminds me of: I dated two batshyt insane chicks. Why don't all hot chicks like nice guys like me?

 

[Infern0]

Actually just reread the op and the last line tells me everything i need to know about you.

Your attitude stinks, you are smug and undeservedly arrogant.

Change your attitude or you have no chance.

Also stop projecting your own self esteem issues onto the women who blow you off for those "apes"

 

[Infern0]

If you are all those things you claim what the hell do you have in common with a chick that's divorced from but won't leave a Walmart pharmacy bootleg El Chapo and another chick with a shyt eating grin that got two girl and one cup'd by some dude who shoved dog crap in her face?

This reminds me of: I dated two batshyt insane chicks. Why don't all hot chicks like nice guys like me?

Op is obviously full of ****.

I cant belive he was getting taken seriously on this board.

Come on sosuave, ffs.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is my theory on age compatibility for men and women:

25 year old male = 21 year old female
30 year old male = 25 year old female
35 year old male = 28 year old female
40 year old male = 30 year old female
45 year old male = 35 year old female
50 year old male = 38 year old female
60 year old male = 38 year old female
70 year old male = 38 year old female
80 year old male = 38 year old female
90 year old male = 38 year old female

This is gold. I'll hang this on my wall. In Poon King we trust!

 

[wifehunter]

Could be, low quality.

 

[zekko]

This is gold. I'll hang this on my wall. In Poon King we trust!

I'm curious, Poon King. Do you experience this kind of hero worship in your everyday life?
As my good friend Mr. Spock would say, I find it a fascinating phenomenon.

 

[guru1000]

The only part i disagree with is the bolded portion.. i think guys in their mid 30's should only date women in the early to mid 20's age range - but then again i might be a little biased

And guys in their 40s too

 

[Trump]

Last two women I've been set up with in last six months.

Now, I am educated, decent job, tall, fit, full head of hair. I am sophisticated, cultured and look women in the eye when speaking to them. I dress normal and have ZERO tats, piercings or jewelry.

I had decent things in common with both women too.

Do women just find clean cut normal men boring

Yep.

do too many just have self esteem issues that they are attracted to these apes?

If you are going after a good looking girl, clean cut, cultured, sophisticated is same old unless you are a Wall Street broker making millions. I know Dentists Doctors and Accoutants who have problems with women, and high school graduates who get the best looking girls.

Set up for a 30+ Year old woman is the worst, it's like they are going in already thinking of failure to spite the person that set them up. Just keep it fun with them and don't take them seriously.

 

[zekko]

Do women just find clean cut normal men boring or do too many just have self esteem issues that they are attracted to these apes?

I think you can be clean cut and "normal", but it helps if you have something about you that stands out and sets you apart, whether that be the way you look, a talent that you have, your personality, the way you engage her emotions, something.

Although if she stays with some dude who shoved dog poop in her face, there may very well be self esteem issues at play.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Last two women I've been set up with in last six months.

Now, IMHO, getting set up generally doesn't work to begin with, but anyway.....

A.)College educated mid 30s, and hot. Recently divorced, husband was dealing drugs with prescriptions in her name, but she didn't want to leave him because she thought he would change.

She blows me off after two dates.

B.) Very educated mid 30s, relatively hot ( 6.5-7) Former boyfriends all jacked up juiceheads. One guy shoved dog **** shot in her face because he was mad dog pooped in apt/house and she stayed with him.

She blows me off after one date.

Now, I am educated, decent job, tall, fit, full head of hair. I am sophisticated, cultured and look women in the eye when speaking to them. I dress normal and have ZERO tats, piercings or jewelry.

I had decent things in common with both women too.

Do women just find clean cut normal men boring or do too many just have self esteem issues that they are attracted to these apes?

They most probably have 'issues' and are insecure. They are rejecting you before you reject them. Really, they don't think they are good enough for you.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

That's a lot of competition there for those 38 year old women.

Wot? Life ends at 39 for the poor woman?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I think you can be clean cut and "normal", but it helps if you have something about you that stands out and sets you apart, whether that be the way you look, a talent that you have, your personality, the way you engage her emotions, something.

Although if she stays with some dude who shoved dog poop in her face, there may very well be self esteem issues at play.

Crikey, I thought it was bad enough when my sister stayed with a guy that threw some water in her face.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I think you can be clean cut and "normal", but it helps if you have something about you that stands out and sets you apart, whether that be the way you look, a talent that you have, your personality, the way you engage her emotions, something.

Although if she stays with some dude who shoved dog poop in her face, there may very well be self esteem issues at play.

Normal with an edge is me.