****ed up during sex again last night. someone help me!!!

[NeedToImprove]

it's the third time this happen with different girls. i cant *** when a woman is stimulating me oral or when im penetrating, i start ok but then i lose it and my penis goes numb. this happened 3 times in a year. i was a virgin till recently. lost my virginity at 30, im 31. first time i had sex with a woman it happened the same ****, she called me gay and **** after that, she was really a ****. then i lost my virginity , and after that it happened 2 more times. for example last night it was ok , when i was kissing her and making her wet, but when having real sex, i lost it somehow. i stopped and started looking at the ceiling trying to relax and think about what went wrong, or what is wrong me. in the morning we tried again, and i almost succeeded but my penis when penetrating her went numb.like i start fine and then bam...

this makes me feel **** and it's very humilliating, if the girl you are having sex doesnt understand and makes you feel even worse than you are. curious thing is when she went to take a bath, i was thinking about her and masturbating and guess what happened? i *** by myself while she was giving me oral she tried hard but to no avail.

do i need viagra or something? **** i really need some help here, this is driving me nuts.

 

[azanon]

I'm not aware of any participates here which have identified themselves as urologists.

I realize you might not be able to differentiate between common problems that experienced guys here have and know the answers to, or medical problems that require expert opinion and examination. I do though, and your issue falls in the latter category. Make an appointment and I hope you have insurance.

I have seen forums on the internet though where you can sometimes get a urologist to give an initial opinion, but I would bet money that even in that case, they would recommend you set up an appointment so that you could get a more accurate diagnosis and treatment.

 

[NeedToImprove]

are you saying i can be impotent?

 

[azanon]

What i'm saying is you need to make an appointment with a urologist to check you out and to give you the best possible advice towards getting back into a state of health. This just isn't a good place for your issue.

I've been to a urologist before for something minor; its no big deal. Just because i'm recommending you see one, doesn't mean you need to be worried about anything. I'm sure he can help you with that issue and get you back to a state of health.

 

[squirrels]

Do you have this problem when masturbating?

How often do you have sex?

 

[azanon]

Personally, i've never c*mmed from just oral in my life. I just don't go that quickly and she'd have to stay at it for a while for me to. Oral is foreplay for me though. I prefer to go in the pvssy

 

[NeedToImprove]

i dont have this problem when masturbating. in fact i *** very often when masturbating. i dont have sex very often,but in every chance i get this somehow happens.

 

[azanon]

Ok i do have an educated guess:

Its possible that you've become accustomed to the strong grip of your hand, which is going to be quite a bit tighter than what a woman's pvssy will feel like. Without the grip, you might be losing your hard on when inside her. So try mast**bating less or not at all and see if that helps.

 

[EFFORT]

Sounds like your just having some performance anxiety since u said u don't have sex often or whatever so when you do your probably getting nervous or thinking about it shrinking then it does then you freak more and its a losing battle from there. When that happens instead of looking at the ceiling and feeling down on yourself, go down on the girl literally so she still gets her pleasure and this will take your mind off your issue and you'll probably get hard again. Also don't jack off anymore and let your only release come from a woman.

 

[Phoenixpua-london]

why wont you say ***?

if you cant even say that know wonder you cant do it lol

 

[Phoenixpua-london]

ah thats why you cant say C U M lol

 

[Phoenixpua-london]

i think it is like me with *******s, i get them from chicks all the time but have only ever came twice - it is like a lock in the brain.

just relax buddy, you are putting to much thought into it

also try a position that makes you feel good till you ***.

basicly when i have sex, i do it missionary till she cums - then i do it my way (from behind or whatever till i ***.

hope this helps.

 

[NeedToImprove]

first of all if i say *** or com or whatever is just a typing error afterall english is not my mother language. i have a bigger problem here than getting mocked. if you wanna help please go right ahead, if not then STFU.

 

[Phoenixpua-london]

im not the one with the limp **** mate - chill out lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Also don't jack off anymore and let your only release come from a woman.

yep, I 2nd that advice.

 

[DJStrawberry]

Are you on any medication? Pain killers, allergy meds, add medication? If you are, they could be giving you limp d!ck depending on the med. Secondly, are you fvcking these girls with a condom or rawdog? I'm assuming you are using a condom and I too face similar issues when fvcking with a rubber. If you know these girls are clean (its hard to know unless you are in a ltr with them), hit it rawdog and see what your results are. If you don't know, try to find a different rubber.

 

[Latinoman]

Ok i do have an educated guess:

Its possible that you've become accustomed to the strong grip of your hand, which is going to be quite a bit tighter than what a woman's pvssy will feel like. Without the grip, you might be losing your hard on when inside her. So try mast**bating less or not at all and see if that helps.

I would have to agree with this part. I would recommend he stops masturbating for a week and then considerably reduce masturbation. I also recommend the going to the doctor part to get the peace of mind thing out of the way.

 

[KneghtRyder]

four letters - troll

 

[ryannath]

I highly doubt that this man is a troll. This is a very common problem. Focus on a certain body part of hers that excites you while you are banging her an just look at it. I usually look at a chick's lips as I am banging them, and that helps.

 

[Charm]

Sounds like a troll to me. But for those readers out there who have similar problems, here is a solution:

1. Get Ginseng, Zinc, Maca and Horny Goat weed and start taking them every day. In three weeks you'll notice a definite change.

2. Only stroke the rhino horn 2-3 times/week

3. Wack off until you c|um on her face. If she cant make you c|Um, make yourself c|um on her!