EC in Pubs/Bars

[donny osmond]

Whilst out last night i realised a strange and confusing occurence. When i was sat down drinking my drink i checked out the talent on show, not staring just glimpsing.



I kept feeling that i was being watched and looked at. Whenever i looked at these girls they would look away before i could establish 'proper' EC. Then, literally 10 seconds later i would get the feeling that the girl was looking at me and look up at them, again they would look away instantly.



This continued, looking at the them looking at me throughout the night, with many different girls.



Is there any reason for this or is it just coincidencial?



Cheers boys



Donny

 

[donny osmond]

G-G-G-G uniiiit. BUMP

 

[Slickster]

Yeah they were checking you out!

Saying without words "Come talk to me"

 

[Julian]

Dude if i were you id walk up and ask if i had a head growing out of my ass because i couldnt help but notice that they kept looking at me then looking away.

 

[bugsquish]

Shame, if you'd got off your ass you might have a nice little collection of #s.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

The fresh smell from the nut you rubbed out before you left was still on your shirt, the smell then got caught in the vent and cycled through the whole building. Chicks have radar for this and suddenly were attracted to you...LOL


Naw man, seriously any time you get EC for more than a brief second or repeatedly like you said, you HAVE TO approach. Don't let that happen again.



PIMP

 

[donny osmond]

Ok, fair points lads.


But, if i liked a girl in a bar i'd try to keep long EC and a smile, rather than p-ussying out every time. It started to annoy me for a bit because i keep catching them!

Are girls that unconfident as to look away when i hold EC?



Donny

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by donny osmond
Ok, fair points lads.


But, if i liked a girl in a bar i'd try to keep long EC and a smile, rather than p-ussying out every time. It started to annoy me for a bit because i keep catching them!

Are girls that unconfident as to look away when i hold EC?

Yes.

Or sometimes it's not confidence, but flirting. Just keep staring at them through a few cycles of them looking at you and away. If they keep it up you're on.

 

[bugsquish]

You can approach without making them your destination. I like to walk past chicks sometimes. It doesn't matter if I've had previous EC or not(although it helps). I touch her shoulder on the way past and smile/ec and say "hi". She may be a little surprised, so often I keep going (bar/toilet/friends) after she says hi back (they always say hi back). She'll still be there when I come back only now she's had a little time to speculate about whether I'm coming back or not. Challenge yadda yadda.

Sometimes you get clear signals and you don't need to keep going. I've had chicks launch into a conversation straight away. But if you catch them off guard then they are always more receptive the second time round. So long as you get the EC, smile right the first time round.

And the initial touch (always the shoulder) is very important to my game. It's assertive and bold and there's no way she will avoid eyecontact immediately after you do it. So use those few seconds wisely.

I find it's even more effective when a girl is walking past me, and I'm standing with someone else. This is more a (smallish) nightclub tactic. Drunk girls wandering along with their friends usually get a light stroke on their shoulder as they walk past. When they inevitably turn round to see who it was they see a smiling bugsquish looking straight into their eyes. Yes, 9 times out of 10 they keep going but they almost always smile back. And if you see the same chick again (hence the smallish nightclub), do it again! She'll probably keep going again (and smile back again) and this is where you follow her to her seat etc. and say "hi". Just give her a taster of what you're like and then tell her you'll get her for a dance later on. And remember to do that. Although it shouldn't matter cuz you should be using this trick on several women simultaneously

Sorry this post got a little out of hand. But hey share the wealth. This tactic works, and it's the one I use most often now. It's pretty easy to do too cuz at the stroke stage it's pretty anonymous so you don't need as much guts as eyecontact. But once you do it there's no going back. You've made contact so smiling/EC just comes naturally after that.

One thing I would always, always advise against, is waiting, waiting (tick tock tick tock), waiting, (months pass) for a clear signal to approach *yawn*. She's gone home with someone else by that time.

 

[MrNiceGuy]

bugsquish, excellent post on getting attention in nightclubs, I'll have to try it next time I'm out rather than just aiming for EC with every girl I walk past..

what sort of touch are we thinking of? I'm assuming enough to get their attention and not look accidental, i.e a gental tap

and yes avoid waiting for the clear signal to approach, I've been doing that for years and its got me nowhere..

 

[bugsquish]

Originally posted by MrNiceGuy
bugsquish, excellent post on getting attention in nightclubs, I'll have to try it next time I'm out rather than just aiming for EC with every girl I walk past..

what sort of touch are we thinking of? I'm assuming enough to get their attention and not look accidental, i.e a gental tap

and yes avoid waiting for the clear signal to approach, I've been doing that for years and its got me nowhere..

Glad to share my experiences, please let me know how you get on with it. I always found relying on EC alone is too passive, and the "connection" is too easily broken on her part. And let's face it, on ours too.

Touching as a precursor to eyecontact creates an instant connection that's more intimate and also harder to break once you follow it up with EC. Think about it, eyecontact alone or even with a smile could be misinterpreted. Unless she has an instant physical attraction she may no want (or have the guts) to return the gesture. If you touch her, and she turns to see you smiling, there is NO doubt whatsoever in her mind as to your intentions (or confidence and ability) as you gaze into her eyes.

Your touch upgrades her thoughts from a simple "he's smiling at me. maybe he likes me... i wonder if he'll have the balls to talk to me, probably just another chump" to "he's smiling at ME! he wants to **** me... and he just invaded my space without thinking twice, i think my panties are getting wet!" It is largely assumed on her part. You get her imagination flowing. That's the beauty of it.

As for the exact nature of the touch. DON'T TAP. Friend's tap shoulders. This has to be an overtly sensual touch. You gotta send a shiver down her spine. I like to run my fingers from her shoulder down her arm towards her elbow. It only needs to last a few seconds.

An extra little trick to throw in is the fake "i've been caught" look away in mock innocence. I only ever do this the second time I touch and follow it up seconds later with the original smile and EC. I got a ONS with a HB on Saturday with this trick.

 

[bugsquish]

I notice you said "every girl I walk past". Another thing I should emphasise, this technique delivers the best results when the girl is walking past you. In a sense she momentarily entered your domain, so you did no chasing (challenge). It's like fishing

 

[MrNiceGuy]

Originally posted by bugsquish
I notice you said "every girl I walk past". Another thing I should emphasise, this technique delivers the best results when the girl is walking past you. In a sense she momentarily entered your domain, so you did no chasing (challenge). It's like fishing

that makes sense, I suppose in a way it fools her to thinking that she initiated things with you (by walking past) and so she must want you.. plus yes.. you did no chasing..

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