Hi guys,
Here is the situation: This girl is a colleague in my office and is in my department, but she is kind of very closed - doesn't speak with almost anyone at the office, goes to lunch alone, etc. She is still new - she joined the company about 4 monts ago, but is going to leave it now for some reason (don't know exactly why). During these 4 monts I was the first to get acquainted with her in our team, so she was saying "Hi" to me when we were meeting somewhere in the office building, but it seemed, that she didn't talk talk to many other people at the office. So she seems either shy or I don't know what...I have talked to her several times (shortly) regarding our work and looked at her body language - she made her hair, when I talked to her, but didn't maintain eye contact for too long (probably shy?). From my point of view she is kinda stressed with the work in the office and probably that's why she wants to leave the work. Now it is her last week at the office and I have the idea to ask her out.
My idea is to send a fake mail to my and her work e-mails from a fake e-mail address, which to be the e-mail of a local theatre and write in the mail a shyt like this:
"Hi theatre friends,
As usual, our theatre is full of surprises. The end of the summer has come, but we keep our promise to keep your summer mood high with our October program. It's a big pleasure for us to announce the winners of this week's lottery. Ladies and gentlemen, the lucky ones, who will receive free tickets for the theatre play "xyz" are:
1.My name
2.Her name
Congratulations! Winners, please come at the "Blah-blah" teather on Wednesday at 19 o'clock for the play and make sure to bring your IDs with you.
Regards,
The "Blah-blah" theatre"
What do you, guys, think of this kind of shyt? I know you will say that directly asking her out is better (shows confidence), but she is shy and I don't think that she would like to receive the offer in front of her colleagues in her room.
Any other ideas are also welcome
Thanks for your answers and let's see if she is really a virgin.
Here is the situation: This girl is a colleague in my office and is in my department, but she is kind of very closed - doesn't speak with almost anyone at the office, goes to lunch alone, etc. She is still new - she joined the company about 4 monts ago, but is going to leave it now for some reason (don't know exactly why). During these 4 monts I was the first to get acquainted with her in our team, so she was saying "Hi" to me when we were meeting somewhere in the office building, but it seemed, that she didn't talk talk to many other people at the office. So she seems either shy or I don't know what...I have talked to her several times (shortly) regarding our work and looked at her body language - she made her hair, when I talked to her, but didn't maintain eye contact for too long (probably shy?). From my point of view she is kinda stressed with the work in the office and probably that's why she wants to leave the work. Now it is her last week at the office and I have the idea to ask her out.
My idea is to send a fake mail to my and her work e-mails from a fake e-mail address, which to be the e-mail of a local theatre and write in the mail a shyt like this:
"Hi theatre friends,
As usual, our theatre is full of surprises. The end of the summer has come, but we keep our promise to keep your summer mood high with our October program. It's a big pleasure for us to announce the winners of this week's lottery. Ladies and gentlemen, the lucky ones, who will receive free tickets for the theatre play "xyz" are:
1.My name
2.Her name
Congratulations! Winners, please come at the "Blah-blah" teather on Wednesday at 19 o'clock for the play and make sure to bring your IDs with you.
Regards,
The "Blah-blah" theatre"
What do you, guys, think of this kind of shyt? I know you will say that directly asking her out is better (shows confidence), but she is shy and I don't think that she would like to receive the offer in front of her colleagues in her room.
Any other ideas are also welcome
Thanks for your answers and let's see if she is really a virgin.