Jvesti123
Don Juan
So I met this really hot chick last night at my friend daves, she had the whole hot chick attitude in her voice when she responded to guys. (it's tough to explain it sounds almost defensive yet annoyed to talk) All my guy friends acted googly-eyed when she walked in the room. Saying things like "she's way out of our league" before she got there.
So we locked horns conversationalwise eventually a few mins after she walked in the room.
her"what's your name"
me"what's yours"
her"Where u from"
me" u?"
(i start asking the questions)
Me "how old r u"
her "how old r u"
Her "u friends with dave"
me sarcastically"Nah, i hate him"
everyone laughs
Convo stopped
So we talked a little here and there
She asked if she could have the WHOLE water bottle at one point I had in my hand drinking. (obviousely testing me)
i said "No but u can have a sip"
She asked me if she looked weird during the night(she was rolling)
I said "yes, of course you do" "What kind of question is that"
At one point she got up so I layed across the couch and when she came back I rolled my eyes and sighed that she was making me sit back up to let her sit on the couch too.
So anyways my issue here is this. At a certain point after all this happened I started asking the questions to her and trying to get a convo
I asked what she did for work? she told me and Never asked me what I did for work back. I'm trying to figure out why she never tried to qualify me like I might of expected her to by asking me the same question or it wasn't in her mind to try and qualify me that way. Or maybe she is shy, or didn't care
(She dropped her voice tone into a more relaxed one later in the night talking to me without that tenseness in her voice that i was describing and seemed a little more open)
she announced that she had to Leave at 4:45am to everyone, and instead of waiting until it was her time to leave I left before she was ready to. Hopefully I showed I wasn't needy to her like other guys.
Anyways, what are some good questions? or statements or techniques you use to get a conversation flowing especially with a stand-offish hot chick????? To open them up and get em talking or being more animated?
So we locked horns conversationalwise eventually a few mins after she walked in the room.
her"what's your name"
me"what's yours"
her"Where u from"
me" u?"
(i start asking the questions)
Me "how old r u"
her "how old r u"
Her "u friends with dave"
me sarcastically"Nah, i hate him"
everyone laughs
Convo stopped
So we talked a little here and there
She asked if she could have the WHOLE water bottle at one point I had in my hand drinking. (obviousely testing me)
i said "No but u can have a sip"
She asked me if she looked weird during the night(she was rolling)
I said "yes, of course you do" "What kind of question is that"
At one point she got up so I layed across the couch and when she came back I rolled my eyes and sighed that she was making me sit back up to let her sit on the couch too.
So anyways my issue here is this. At a certain point after all this happened I started asking the questions to her and trying to get a convo
I asked what she did for work? she told me and Never asked me what I did for work back. I'm trying to figure out why she never tried to qualify me like I might of expected her to by asking me the same question or it wasn't in her mind to try and qualify me that way. Or maybe she is shy, or didn't care
(She dropped her voice tone into a more relaxed one later in the night talking to me without that tenseness in her voice that i was describing and seemed a little more open)
she announced that she had to Leave at 4:45am to everyone, and instead of waiting until it was her time to leave I left before she was ready to. Hopefully I showed I wasn't needy to her like other guys.
Anyways, what are some good questions? or statements or techniques you use to get a conversation flowing especially with a stand-offish hot chick????? To open them up and get em talking or being more animated?