Drunk bang with girl from social circle...now what?

[Zig-zag-man]

Need some advice here gentlemen...

Recently banged a HB8 at a party that a mutual friend was throwing. She's kinda new to the group, I'm more established. Anyway, the alcohol starts flowing and all of a sudden this HB8, who was "ignoring" me at previous meetups and I did likewise, started coming on to me STRONG. Long story short, we ended up screwing in the bathroom.

Now I know enough to run some comfort game after fukking to not make a girl feel slutty, especially in this case since me and this chick have hardly talked to each other. Texted her the next morning "Hey, had fun hanging out last night blahblahblah" but didn't get any warm replies back. Strange to me since I'm used to chicks being a bit more lovey dovey after sexing them up.

Neither of us mentions what happened the previous night, so there's a chance she doesn't even remember! We were both drunk, but she definitely wasn't butt ass stumbling puking drunk...not my style anyway. I'm positive she knows what went down, but again, not completely sure.

Would like to get a casual fukk buddy thing going on with her, but if it was just a drunken horny one time bang then that's fine. I was considering bringing up the subject with her and talking about it to hopefully prevent any awkwardness since we run in the same social circle. Don't know if it's the right thing to do, and it's already been 3 days since we banged so it might be a bit too late.

Thinking I messed up somewhere with my post-bang game.

How to proceed?

 

[Meisterman]

Shouldn't have texted her the next day. Give it a day or two, or three, to cool the fires. If she were interested she would hit you up first. Also, if you do hit her up a simple "What's up?" will suffice. If you want to go the "Had fun hanging out with you last night" route you may as well just say "Had fun busting a nut in the bathroom stall with you last night "

 

[Bingo-Player]

i dont care what anyone says there is no way in hell that a chick can "forget" she banged a guy whilst she was drunk

this girl my freind is a through & through slvt

she wanted your d*ck because im assuming you had acted indifferent towards her

wether that was luck more than judgement im not sure

but either way you ruined your frame by texting her "comfort game"

you dont need to text her you are the man you do the fvcking , she does the worrying/ texting

go cold as ice with her and hope she gives you another chance

 

[Bible_Belt]

Take a page out of the playbooks of women - act like nothing happened. That's what they do; that's what they want you to do.

Next time you can, get her drunk, fvck her again, and continue acting like nothing ever happened.

 

[stevo]

You've been given knowledge by previous posts.

Clarify the text part though, did she not respond at all or is it you just didn't find her response(s) ''warm''?

Regardless.
I'd add you don't contact her again. At group events, don't speak to her, if you do make sure you're not the first one to speak. Ignore the sheet out of her since she's trying to act cold for no reason.

Be vague, let her chase. You need same attitude you had to hit the first time to continue hitting. Don't say sheet, let her come on to you ''STRONG''. She obviously could use a fcuk buddy. You'd consider her.

You acting oblivious would blow her skirt off like a tornado and make her jump your bones any chance she gets and if she's a one timer then hey you never chased and didn't lose anything.

 

[Zig-zag-man]

Shouldn't have texted her the next day. Give it a day or two, or three, to cool the fires. If she were interested she would hit you up first. Also, if you do hit her up a simple "What's up?" will suffice. If you want to go the "Had fun hanging out with you last night" route you may as well just say "Had fun busting a nut in the bathroom stall with you last night "

Lol I think I would've been better off texting her that instead :yes: Agree with the bolded. I've had same night lays who I didn't contact for sh!t until a week later that were still down to meet up. I was thinking social circle stuff would be different.

i dont care what anyone says there is no way in hell that a chick can "forget" she banged a guy whilst she was drunk

this girl my freind is a through & through slvt

she wanted your d*ck because im assuming you had acted indifferent towards her

wether that was luck more than judgement im not sure

but either way you ruined your frame by texting her "comfort game"

you dont need to text her you are the man you do the fvcking , she does the worrying/ texting

go cold as ice with her and hope she gives you another chance

No doubt! She's pretty, so she gets a lot of attention from the guys in the group and in general I'm sure. Me, I could care less, and it showed. You are right about my frame being ruined...how to regain it? I was a bit too eager to turn her into a fukk buddy. She's 21, so I wouldn't mind having some hot young ass in the lineup.

Take a page out of the playbooks of women - act like nothing happened. That's what they do; that's what they want you to do.

Next time you can, get her drunk, fvck her again, and continue acting like nothing ever happened.

This is the right play I think. Going cold on her will be no problem at all, but I would like to keep fukking her. Guess I'll see what happens.

You've been given knowledge by previous posts.

Clarify the text part though, did she not respond at all or is it you just didn't find her response(s) ''warm''?

Regardless.
I'd add you don't contact her again. At group events, don't speak to her, if you do make sure you're not the first one to speak. Ignore the sheet out of her since she's trying to act cold for no reason.

Be vague, let her chase. You need same attitude you had to hit the first time to continue hitting. Don't say sheet, let her come on to you ''STRONG''. She obviously could use a fcuk buddy. You'd consider her.

You acting oblivious would blow her skirt off like a tornado and make her jump your bones any chance she gets and if she's a one timer then hey you never chased and didn't lose anything.

Good stuff stevo. She replied timely to my texts but they were more just answering my questions than trying to build any rapport or anything.

I will keep ignoring her since that worked the first time. And you're right about the one timer thing...no way I'm gonna chase this chick.



Thanks for the replies guys, good advice here.